getting over ex girlfriend who broke my heart?? :( :(?
ok so we broke up in march but pretty much february considering she cheated on me, but anyways we were together for about 8 months or so, and now juss to tell u, she was my first love, first person to have sex with, first with alotta things…now to my knowledge we broke up to go out and be free and not be tied down cuz were still young, I’m 19 and she’s 18…but wen I found out she cheated on me, she lied to me on y she wanted to break up..she pretty much broke up with me to make her and tha dude she cheated me on with public and official…and then after we broke up, I have no idea y but she deletes me off myspace..and I was like okay but my friend has her on myspace and he showed me her page and it says that her and her new bf(tha dude she cheated me on with) were together since february….funny thing is, is that I met this kid before..them two r friends..well more then friends now..but i even asked her many times after we broke up that if there was anything goin on between him and her and she kept saying no…and she lied to my face on that cuz she didn’t know I saw her page…soo lonnnng story short, the whole relationship was a lie, she cheated on me, and lied about cheating on me…idk how much more this girl can tear my heart apart but she’s doing hell of a good job!!!…now anyways I’m still hurt by all this of course, but I do what everyone says to do, cut off all contact, I don’t text, call nothing wit her!!!! and I have been for the longest time but the problem is that we work together so I see her whenever she works..and that’s the only time!!! now idk I’m doing somewhat good with this broken heart,but I have my moments where I get all emotional and shit and there r times where I’m perfectly fine…now I juss have alotta anger towards her cuz of all this..and I know it’s normal for this but I don’t think I fully let it out, like in a constructive way, cuz I juss don’t talk about our break up really to anyone cuz I thought not talking about it might help but idk, I have my sad moments….I’m not an angry person or nothing but I juss don’t think I let it out all the way..anyone have some ideas of what I can do…OMG NOW IF U READ THIS, THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH!! I’m sorry I wrote soo much
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I read it.
You are welcome.
Now, my advice is… really, cut off all contact. If I were you, I’d try to find another job (be smart about it, don’t quit yours until you get another one or so) so you don’t have to see her anymore, otherwise it will just hurt more.
she is not worth your time. its best not to talk to her because itll bring up unwanted shi*. theres no need to bring anymore drama into your life.
hey, x50centfan4evax
i know my first love and my first experience.
and breaking up is one hard shiXt ..im with you.
and getting over her is worse..
but i got some ideas for it..
if you have anything that reminds you about her,
burn it or throw it away. this will help you a little.
nd idk if this will help..
but if you jus become friends with her.. it myt help?
or u can jus not talk to her..its fine..what ever helps you.
the key here is..finding new love.
and its unbelievable to you now, but once u start dating nicer girls and have a good time. you will able to get over ur ex…just like that.
its easy to say..but hard to do i know..nd i suggest you dont force yourself to fall in love with other girls.
or you can focus on something else.
maybe listen to 50cent’s song all day? haha
or work out. and train and do your hobbies.
whatever. just dont let this be the last time loving someone.
you got whole life infront of you! u see?
u can do it.
breath in
breath out.
calm down..you are the man.
self confidence..thats the key man
sorry for the crappy answers.
but one thing..me and almost 90% of the men in this world is with you.
i know relationship can just like the up and down hillside.
but i know you can do it
-answeringmachine
Cut off all contact like the person above me & u r not over reacting I would if done the same thing
haha i read the WHOLE thing…lol but you see for all the ladies who "don’t like males are"a holes" well its a woman like that 13!#^% who ruin perfectly good men (nh) and so the only way to get over her dude i can say is unfortunately act like a "a hole" to all women for like 4 years but must warn hard to act like one and hard to stop acting like one and umm that’s a last resort but sleep with all her friends lol that be funny…but umm man F%^@ her
WOW!!! Its like you were in the exact same kind of relationship I was in. Honestly I don’t know if I have any good advice to give you since my relationship and your relationship are so similar. How i dealt with mine is I locked myself up in my room for two months would barley eat and cried myself to sleep every night. The only difference is i can’t be mad at my ex because I love him so much. He ignored me for two months after he broke up with me then he started talking to me. We have been off and on since then but we are off right now and its not really a good situation because I never get to see him and everytime we got back together and i would find a way to see him he would just make some excuse to why he couldn’t. I guess the best way to deal with the situation is to not settle. You don’t want to get back out in the dating world to soon. Me and my ex ended in march just like you and i have to admit im still not ready. So take your time because the next relationship your in you want to make sure its fair to you and her. If you gave your heart away you won’t ever get it back…. But you can find someone else who easies the pain… I haven’t found that person yet and i won’t for a while. Just take your time.
lol its ok dude Ive been threw the same situation and it sucks.most woman are like that to me. My last gf was my only real relationship the only gf i ever loved, and she pretty much done me the same way, She broke up with me for one of her other exes. The bad thing is that she always told me how bad he treated her, and how much she hates him, But she told me she done it cuz she was going threw some bad situations, Which was nothing but a lie, And after we broke up it hurt for a long time. Thats all I would think about was her, and being with her again, But after i found out that she just wanted him it pissed me off. Now it doesnt bother me the least lil bit cuz I found out she was a whore that would be with anything she could get with, and would do anything with anybody and now she is just a whore to me that doesnt mean anything. Just give it some time go out and hang with some friends do things that you like to do try to talk to a few more girls to get your mind off her and try not to think about her I know its going to be hard but youl get over it in time, and always tell yourself that its her loss and not yours cuz you treated her right and she done you wrong.
You shouldn NOT be heartbroken, you should be filled with joy that your not with such a horrible person anymore. Weird thing is, is that the last guy who cheated on me I was actually crying tears of joy he cheated on me. Because it just proved to me he was just a plain old douche bag. But afterward I was sad because I missed all of the fun we had together. Otherwise, I was happy I wasnt with him. Now I am with someone who I can trust & love
good luck though. Also, I think god helped me out a lot aswell. No really I think that’s what it truly was, was God. 
You deserve so much better than her, and i feel you, you should feel very angry towards her and you should hate her for what she has put you through. You need to move on though because she’s not worth your time. Hopefully later in the future she will realize what she once had and regrets what she did. Everyone gets their pay back and she will get hers sooner or later. If things don’t workout between them most likely she’s going to end up trying to go back to you, but don’t let her take over it and don’t let her make you weak!! Screw her and find someone better and that will be worth your time. Good luck =]