How can i make my boyfriend fall in love with me again? HELP!?
August 17th, 2009 by admin | Filed in Ex Boyfriend Back
Last week my boyfriend of 10 months and I, had a tiny fight, that led into him not "in love" with me anymore. after that fight we kind of broke up, but decided to give it another shot before we ended it, it’s been a week now, and he thinks it’s different, and were not meant to be i a realationship, but again..were giving it another shot, and i really want him to be in love with me again, please help? /:
Tags: 10 months, love quot, realationship
Start of easy, dont rush into things right away..just spend some time together alone with him and talk about all the good memories you’ve had together, concerntrate on the good things about your relationship and not the bad things .. like the arguments, and things like that.
i feel like im kinda in a similar situation…
you need to ask him to be open minded and give u a chance to make things up to him. as him WHY he feels like he’s not in love with you anymore
idk its a tough situation, i would try and do something romantic, maybe get him a really thoughtful present or make him something…anything to make him see the parts of you that he did fall in love with
good luck
That’s.. awkward.
If it was just a tiny fight then why did you guys break up.?
But anyway, maybe he wants more attention from you, what ever you do don’t make it look like your gonna Absolutely die if he leaves you. Try asking him whats different about it, like if the argument is bothering him. Or if there’s something else in general.
:] hope it goes well.
You haven’t mentioned your age here, but my guess is you are fairly young. Relationships go through phases, and it sounds like yours got to the point of "move forward or move on". 10 months is within the normal time frame for this (3-18mos).
Unfortunately it sounds like your boyfriend’s infatuation has worn off and real love may not have developed for him. This is common, as not every relationship is meant to progress to something more.
While it can be quite painful for the party who is ready to move forward when their partner chooses instead to move on, it does give you an opportunity to add more to your "what I want from a man" list. In the long run you will find that one thing you Don’t want is a man who is fickle enough to turn tail and run at the first sign of an argument. People don’t always get along, even people in love. You may realize this, but he probably hasn’t yet.
Whatever his reason for leaving or losing his feelings, the best you can do is try to move on. You don’t need some guy leading you on toward a more painful breakup later, and the fact that he so easily decided he’s not "in love" speaks volumes for his motivations. You deserve a man who is going to truly value you, not someone who will toss you away at the first time of trouble.
Nurse your broken heart for a while and then get back out there and date someone more worthy of your time.
A tiny fight here and then is what spices a relation, but letting it destroy your relation that sounds kinda weird. You decided to give it another try that’s a good thing. Don’t think that he stopped being "in love" w you, he just wants to feel more manly. Don’t worry he’ll come around just give it time. Besides you know the saying behind every strong man there is a woman. So be that woman and all will enter on the right and logical course of action.