How to make my ex-wife belive that i love her?
May 17th, 2010 by admin | Filed in Save My Marriage
I know it is very wiered, i divorce my wife, she has filed the custody of our two year old baby and now i missing both of them, altough she allows me to see her every weekend. I realized that i love her, more than ever even when she was with me, i would appreciate if any one tell me that how can i make her belive that i love her and all this will not happend again, we communicate with each othere once in a month, she is very puzzle, sometime she even cries for me on the phone, how can i convince her and her family as there is some influence from those stupid family members who never ever came to see her when we were together.
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If you would like to get back together with her again you should talk to her, and tell her how you feel. After you tell her how you feel, you should SHOW her that things are different.
After all that, if she doesn’t want to get back together with you then you will have to accept it and move on.
Good luck!
ask her to marry you….again
why u wanna make her believe?show her!!!!!!
Actions speak louder than words
First you have to make family members stay out of your marriage.than you have to fix what you a x husband.
laurin
INCREASE THE ALIMONY !!!
actions do speak louder than words, but if it’s not what she wants it won’t matter. Who initiated the divorce and why? That would help a lot in this situation. Also, her family shouldn’t matter. If she listens to them more than she listens to herself, then you probably don’t want to be back in that relationship, as it would become unhealthy.
depends on why you divorced, if you were doing someone on the side while you were with her then she would be a fool to get back with you, but if it was a stupid mis-understanding and influence from her family then you should try and work it out with her, if she cries on the phone for you then she probably still loves you too.
OR you are just lonely, you’re confusing the desire to have companionship with love?
Ask her and her good side of her family to come for dinner at your place. Tell them that you just want build up the rapport for the family and just a simple reunion to put it in a way. A little meet up.
Take that opportunity to explain everything about how you feel towards her. But be cautious of the time you tell everything out, definitely not on the dinner table.
Probably after dinner, ask them to gather together for a little chat. Make it a brief one. Talk about simple and light stuff. Then you make your move. Tell your heart out. Just cry even if you can’t hold on to it. Be honest, expressive but not desperate.
Everybody will listen. Let her family be the witness of your love towards your ex-wife. Put your ego down and admit your mistake of divorcing her. Regret all you can and be prepare to die for love. Well, not literally. But get what I mean?
This will show how sincere you are and your great love feeling for her. Hopefully this helps. When she cries for you, she still hold the little hope of loving you again. Don’t let that slip away.
Best of luck my friend.
Realize you cant make someone love you, you can remind her why she fell in love in the first place. First offer to go to counseling, This will let her know you are serious.Let her know you made a big mistake and that you want to fix it. Mind you this will all take some time. You will have to talk more than once a month. Also really show interest in raising your child. Pay for diapers,and clothes, offer to baby sit, etc. As for the family isnt it interesting how family always has something to say when we do something wrong? If they were never around when you were together, then they’re going on gossip. Ignore there comments and focus on your goal. If they didnt care enough to caome around and see the good you had done , how dare they make assumptions of you know.
increase the alimony !
take her out for a nice dinner and ask her to marry you agian and explain her how much you love her and miss her in your life