Is it hard to get over an ex without getting any closure?
May 18th, 2010 by admin | Filed in Getting Over An Ex
Some peolpe tell me that i need to contact my ex and ask him to go foe a cofee so i can finally get closure.I haven’t talk since he broke up with me.This was 2 years ago.So do you think i need closure so i can get over him?
It can work either way, I had a girlfriend one time that cheated on me, and after several months, called me up to explain why. For me, I did need that closure, it was painful, but when I look back on it, I’m glad I did it.
If you do, don’t expect that after you meet, you will feel 100% better, it will come in time. Also, don’t think it will start-up again or present a new opportunity, remember there is a reason that you are no longer a couple. I wish you luck and the best.
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but will be wierd, two years and your still strung up on it so expect it to be awkward.
why did you break up? sometimes just writing a letter to him is enough cause apparently you need to get something off your chest but make sure your not trying to just get him back infortunatly when you do meet him and have your talk it may leave you more heart broke cause he may say some things thatyou dont want to hear and it may leave you even more confused and hurt
Okay, writing a letter will not really help ya, believe me. I tried the same thing a few months ago with one of my exs and the fact that there has been no reply made things a lil harder for me. Meet him for coffee and get everything out in the open. Try not to fall into old patterns, and remember he is human. With most guys just sitting there talking is giving them enough rope to hang themselves with, they will unknowingly give you a couple dozen reasons not to like them anymore.Whatever you do don’t meet for drinks it is a recipe for disaster. Also before hand write down everything you want to get out at least twice, that way it is fresh in your mind and you don’t small talk the whole time.Good luck and lemme know how it goes