What's the best way to deal with a breakup?
May 18th, 2010 by admin | Filed in Getting Over An Ex
My bf recently slept with another girl from school. We were together 1 year 7 months. I am absolutely heart broken. I cant focus and its just terrible. I feel terrible about myself. How can I get over this faster?
You cant make yourself get over this any sooner I am afraid, and although you may feel terrible right this minute eventually in time over weeks or even months you will start to feel better. This boy has done you a favour by showing you who he really is and you are far better off without him, even though it might not seem that way and be easier to forgive. In the future you will meet someone that appreciates you and respects you. For the time being allow yourself time to grieve the end of a relationship and use it as an opportunity to spend time with friends and focus on yourself for a change. This is the time where you can do what you want, when you want without having to answer to someone.
Get drunk and sleep with some one else. Always worked for me.
You could try to forget him. Find a hobby or good friend to get your mind off him. Just bad idea to go out with other guys all the time
a tub of ice cream, and a chick flick movie marathon, seriously if he cheated on you, he isnt worth it…just have ur pity party, invite a few friends, then get on with life. he is an ass
you are going through a tough time, i suggest u break up with him, take time to think things over and think about what will benefit you in life. take thing slow and try to regain yourself.
there plenty of fish in the sea.
I’ve heard it takes half the time you were in the relationship to get over it. At first you need to talk about it with someone. Like a friend or maybe a parent if you’re close enough. Then, you really shouldn’t talk about him at all. Don’t take messages or calls from him. Avoid him at places you would run into him. Reconnect with friends. It’s hard to have that constant someone like to text and confine in. You have to replace his spot in your life with something. Don’t go after any guys just yet. Let your heart heal. You should have a girls night. Watch a movie and eat ice cream and candy and all sorts of junk food. You need to get that part out of your system otherwise it may get out of hand. Just remember that the world is a big place and that there are a LOT of guys out there that won’t do this sort of thing to you. Be patient.
OK, take a deep breath and call yourself a real woman. all you need to do is just concentrate on YOU. realize that he is a scumbag weasel who took you for granted and didn’t deserve you. stop thinking about what you did to make him cheat on you, cause you’ll go crazy trying to. now that weasel is outa the picture you can have more time to yourself and to your loyal friends. and if you’re thinking about getting back in the game try to choose a higher caliber man this time.
-cheers