Mending a stupid broken heart… Or at least a bruised ego. Just need encouraging words.?
May 25th, 2010 by admin | Filed in Get Your Ex Back
Yesterday, I spoke with a guy I was dating and told him that I felt our friendship was suffering because of our dating. Turns out, when we started dating, I never had the chance for it to turn into anything more than being a sex buddy. My words…not his. Anyway…I feel a little hurt and stupid for not following my gut which told me from jump to remain his friend. Now…not only will we ever hook up but the decision to keep my mouth shut about my feelings for him may have also ruined our friendship. Anyone have any encouraging words for a slightly broken heart/hurt feelings?
Tags: broken heart, ego, encouraging words, feelings, friendship, Hook, sex buddy, Sex Words, Stupid
If it had been a true friendship, he would have been flattered by your comments even if he hadn’t felt the same way. Then he would have thanked you and told you that as much as he treasures you, he doesn’t want a serious relationship with you because he doesn’t feel that way towards you.
All he wanted was the sex.
Nurse your feelings for a day and realize you are a good person that took a wrong path, then put it behind you and find some true friends that will appreciate you for who you are. And don’t be too quick for a sex partner. Take your time to get to know someone and get married, then have all the fun you want in the bed. You have to respect yourself first if you want others to respect you, too.
Keep your chin up ~ tomorrow is another day
i know it’s cliche but you’re way better off without him
you’ll be OK it’s only temporary
in time you will feel better, you are getting to know YOU which can be the best person to know. keep going and the next time u will be wiser.
do things to occupy your mind
Watch a few comedy movies, when ya lose your sense of fun you lose a lot.
Just keep it all in perspective. This is a very tiny corner of your dating life and you can do better than a friend who is okay with hurting your feelings and passing the blame like that… it doesn’t sound like he really shared his feelings either. Guys don’t like to be the bad guy so they push off the blame on you… don’t let it be like that. And if there are unresolved feelings still there, just tell him and call his bluff!
time, that and find yourself distractions from thinking about it, keep yourself occupied in things that you enjoy, hang out with friends that aren’t going to be snobbish about it and remind you of anything about it, a real good friend waits until you want to talk about things, rent some movies, go to the mall, go shopping, ride a bike, fly a kite, I am sure you will figure it out, but most importantly, give yourself time, and stop beating yourself up over it
Hon, you just told the truth which is the best thing to do. I’m sure you’d rather have something real instead of fake. =] Also, if you think that what you said and your dating hurt your friendship with him, then you were never really friends with him in the beginning. Good friends will stay with you until the end. =] Believe me, you’ll be alright. I promise. Keep your head up.
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forget about the whole issue as a dream,remember words once spoken and hearts once broken can never be repaired
kaka
give it time to heal and then talk to him about it maybe you can save your friendship
i don’t understand how you rheart is broken if it hasn’t been fixed on the first place, but to my opinion it is always better to keep your mouth shut about you rfeelings. man always should blabber about it first. so if he didn’t it means he didn’t have any feelings ofr u on the first place so u did the right thing
People will come and go out of our hearts our whole life. Some will leave gold and some will leave lead. But if it weren’t for the ones that leave lead, we would never fully appreciate the ones that leave gold.
You are a woman and women are strong. It is all in the past now. You can examine the wound under the bandage now and then, maybe even say "ouch!", but eventually the wound WILL heal.
Now go and be the best you can be!
From what you’ve said, it sounds like it might not be too late to salvage things. Give it a couple days then invite him out for coffee. When you get there, tell him how you feel and spell out where you’d like things to go. It may be that he’s thinking the same things and feeling the same way you are. Best of luck to you!
I really feel for you. Some men are just flat out dogs, they will do and say anything to get in your pants. You are way better then just being a piece of ass to any man.Everyone makes mistakes , that is how we learn. Usually if we have a gut feeling that means it is usually the right answer. Don’t feel stupid and you have every right not to keep your mouth shut. If you felt like you were just being used then you had every right to speak up. If you want to remain friends with him , have a talk with him in a sensible manner, hopefully he will be understanding and not end the friendship.
Men are a dime a dozen, and I am positive you will find one that is going to make you so happy you will want to grow old with . Please just keep your head up and don’t let nobody get you down. I know a broken heart feels like you can’t breathe and your overwhelmed.Just take time to yourself and breathe. I wish the best of luck to you.
Here is a quote for you and I know i helps though it hurts.
"Sometimes you have to put up walls around you, not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to creak them down, just to be with you. There are times when you wish that you were limited to certain emotions. So that you’ll never have to experience pain, never feel betrayed or disappointed, and never get your fragile heart broken. But the same thing means that you’ll never know how it feels to love and be loved in return. The thought of it kind of scares you. To have a heart that’s whole numb. Or a heart that is broken but real."