How to cope with a breakup?
May 26th, 2010 by admin | Filed in Getting Over An Ex
I’m 24 years old and my girlfriend of three years recently dumped me via text message. Her reasoning was she was too busy with school and work to have time for a relationship, which I can understand but it hurts nonetheless. Not sure how best to deal with this loss because I was really starting to have some serious love for this one and now it’s just over. I’m just looking for any helpful advice. Like do I give her time, ignore her, call or not call, delete her number/facebook, wait it out and hope she’s realized it was a mistake?
Tags: 24 years, girlfriend, How To Cope With A Breakup, love, mistake, relationship, text message
Well, one good way to get over a break up, or at least cope with it, is to get a bunch of good friends to hang with. Go to a bar, go to a night club (if that is your thing), see a movie, go to Mcdonalds and order an insane amount of fast food, write a poem, read a book, talk to people, play video games, etc. – Know where I’m going with this? — Pre-occupation = one of the best remedies. After a while, your break up will still hurt, but you will be able to push her to the back of your mind and move on.
Just remain her friend. Give her space for now, but always make sure that she knows how much you care about her.
Also, TALK to people about your feelings. – Use family members, close friends, etc. (People who are willing to hear you), and get things off of your chest. Moral support is another great remedy.
Just ignore her & live ur life.
just give it time. school and work get VERY overbearing especially when tryin to balance a relationship too!! i would text her once a week just to say hey and that you have been thinkin about her and hope that things are goin well and let her know that if she needs anything you are only a phone call away.
Aww first im sorry,
Man a freaking textmessage):
I recently got dumpd thru a text but im a lil younger but still anyway ik what girls what when they just broke up with someone
Give her some space
Let her come to you, i know it will be hard . Or like after 3weeks send her a text saying hey how are you but dont re send it and resend it if she doesnt reply.
Dont ignore her but dont be clingy to her
Dont call yett…wait.
I wouldnt delte her number/facebook
breakups are a pat of life. Don’t erase her from anything becuz u can still be friends. Just go on with ur life and find another girl. HOPED THSI HELPS
if your love is true she must b come back you wait for short time and ignore her.she relaized ur love.when we someone ignore imidaitely then he or she realize our important in his life
I am going through a break up myself at the moment being. She was my first love therefore I posted like 100 of questions on yahoo answers to find an answer, then I searched on the internet for days. I finally came across this.
http://aidforyou.blogspot.com/
No this aint spam, I honestly dont care if you go the site or not, it just holds a lot of useful info on how to cope with a breakup. Hang in there and good luck.