How can I get my Wife to fall in love with me all over again?
May 28th, 2010 by admin | Filed in Save My Marriage
I need some advice. Times are tought. We are fight alot. We both go to counsling and we still have our problems. I know she loves me. I know I love her. I just want to see if I can get the Spark back from when I meet her. HOW? Things I can Do? or try?
Tags: Fall In Love, Fight Alot
Instead of arguing and fighting. Just look at each other, quietly, drama-free and ask her what it is in her heart she wants. And you tell her the same. And then, work together while trying tor recapture everything that attracted you and her to each other.
Just lose the drama. Poverty is not enough to break people. Its selfishness that’s coming into play here. So start focusing on each other’s needs first.
The Love Dare. Buy It, Read It, follow the directions.
Don’t Tell her your doing it
Just agree with everything she says and don’t question her on her decisions. Really listen to her needs – pay attention to her. Cuddle and kiss her when least expected! Tell her love you love her when least expected! Buy her flowers and a gift when least expected – don’t wait for a special occasion like birthdays, valentines or xmas. Write her little notes and leave them on her side table, dressing table/bathroom mirror so that she reads it in the morning while getting ready. Take her out for walks! Invite her friends over for dinner and you host it. You can’t go wrong!
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SHOW her you love her. Take her out on dates. Randomly look at her like she is THE most BEAUTIFUL thing you nhave ever seen and insist she comes over and cuddles with you. Surprise her. Clean up the house, do something that is usually HER job to show her you appretiate her and all she does. Play with her. Chase her around the house till u get to the bedroom. Save up some money and taker her to lunch and a walk in the park after. Or bring her flowers. Date her all over again and you will bring back the spark.
I wish my husband would.
Ask HER! I am sure she would have better answers for you then us.
Court her all over again. Whisper sweet nothings to her when she least expects them. slip love notes into her lunch, or on top of her pillow. Ask her to start over…..back to the times when you two didn’t fight so much. Ask her to do this for "us" even if it is just for 2 weeks and see if anything changes. Make an agreement NOT to fight. If either one of you cannot say anything nice, then neither of you shall say nothing at all. Ask for a trial run. You two need to make new habits. Exchange one bad habit between you two for a new GOOD and POSITIVE habit. start new traditions like breakfast at a different restaurant every Sunday morning, until you find one favorite that you both really like alot. Give flowers. Flowers are a girl’s best friend! Ask her questions about her likes and dislikes. Likes and dislikes change over time and you should keep up with them. Become genuinely interested in HER again. This will allow her to become interested in YOU again. Take her shopping, and go into the dressing room with her and make a move on her (make out with her) like you used to. Surprise her with a bucket of chicken, or chinese food and take her to the park for a picnic. Cook HER dinner! Clean up the kitchen without being asked to help. Whatever she NAGS you about, then just do it so she doesn’t have to tell you to. Do the laundry once in awhile. Plant her flowers in the yard when she is not looking. Hang filled bird feeders outside the kitchen sink window without her seeing you. Little surprises like this are remembered eternally by women. KNOW what women really want. Learn what makes her tick. Send her a card in the mail so that when she picks up the mail, she will be surprised. WOOOO her! Get the bedroom activities in order. When the bdrm activity falls apart, pretty much everything else falls apart after it. Take her to an adult store and tell her you wanna pick out a bdrm activity TOGETHER! Something you BOTH will enjoy (or think you will enjoy). Do some experimenting. Try, try, try again, and try some more until things start to move in a positive direction. Have patience. Nothing happens overnight. Do some footwork, and the result will present itself in it’s own time. TALK TO HER is #1!
You can’t make someone love you. No way, no how. It just cannot be done dude. Sorry. time to move on. You will only be wasting your time. Seriously.