Any possible way to heal a …broken heart?
I been dating this guy over 6 months online…i used to spend all day with him on msn video calls etc but one day i really got crazy for him and he loved me and i convinced my parents to go to germany (im from romania) so i can meet him in real life … he is 16 and im 15 and i got to met him we spent a month together and i had my … "1st time" with him after i had to go back home … we kept on talking for like 7 months and i was supposed to meet him again this summer but…he started to lie and i …got pissed off once and i messed up everything …. i pushed him away and that was one of the biggest mistakes i think i could ever do cause he was the only one who made me so happy who made me feel great and the only one that understood me … and he was hurt but he got over me so fast and after some days i tried to apologize but …he was already dating someone else and honestly that really got me down and i regretted what i have done so much …i became suicidal he was still my friend…but it was a huge difference …than he changed he became colder and distant and tried to push me away and he started to lie a lot and i just cant forget him even thought its been almost 4 months from that i miss him so much and i still love him even thought he hurt me and lie to me and pushed me away i want him back but now he doesn’t even talk to me he ignores me and made it such so i cant get to him anyway … i deadly miss him im getting in depression again i love him so much still … i didn’t eat for 3 days now and couldn’t sleep again just like the time after i broke up with him….i don’t want to get suicidal again because my family needs me but i cant go on like this and i have tried to replace him but its so impossible to be with someone else when all i do is think of him …please help me =(
Tags: 4 months, 7 months, broken heart, depression, germany, parents, quot, romania, sleep
wow….thats beyond where i went through in online. Thats what happens when u date online person. You get scheme, you get cheated, and you get OWNED! a lose-lose situation and you want to heal your heart. What if you didnt date someone online? would you be different by now? i maybe harsh but its your fault for doing a online dating. I know my limits when it comes to online dating. but being with relationship, its different.
Neo to go
a good way to heal is to find another
Nope… Just have to get over it and start over. Life isn’t fair.
You fell in love,it happens,but now it’s time to mend your broken heart and move on.Because he was your first the connection for you was strong but unfortunatly guys don’t see it that way and he’s probably moved on with his life by now.Chalk this down to experiance,take some time to heal and then go and have some fun,your still young and time is on your side,hope you get through this,Matt.
i am also in an online relationship
and yea i know how it feels
im almost 14 hes 15, but with
the time, and patience and meeting
new ppl you’ll be able
to forget about him
u should msn me sometime so we can talk
celeste.godina@hotmail.com
Sweetheart you need to relax. I know it seems as if there will be no one else after this but it’s soooo not true. You are young and will eventually meet a guy that can make you feel even better than this guy did. In addition, I think this guy was dishonest about how he felt about you. I think chatting online was great but once he got into your pants he did what alot of boys his age do..he moved on. He is too young to commit to you and he would have eventually done this to you, so it’s better it happened now. Besides, don’t you want someone close to you that can actually spend time with you and is not in another country? It will be ok, you just need to occupy your time with friends and activities.
Please don’t continue to waste your love on someone who lies to you. You can’t trust this one. Close this door and don’t look back. Chasing and whining will never win anyone back. Get involved in something new, a project or class or church or something that will occupy your time and attention. Even though you will always remember this person and what you did, you cannot live in the past.
pray to God and ask for help. Haha. Don’t get involve to another relationship yet because you’ll just remember your guy again. Do other stuff and focus on your studies first, do something that will make your guy regret the things that he had done. Find a new guy and be happy. Hehehe. I’m too young to give you advices like these but i know these will work.
Sounds like you’ve had a rough time of it lately. ok i’m no expert but 1 thing i do no is that no man is worth ruining your health over. he doen’t sound like the type of lad that you want to get too hung up about. he’s obviously moved on you need to aswell. you’re only 15 you have your whole life to meet new people and have new relationships. right now you need to concentrate on all the possitives in your life like family friends and new found freedom. have some fun and enjoy your life and try to do new things and meet new people. if you are feeling depressed you maybe need to consulte a doctor. i no someone who suffers fromit and it can be very difficult to live with without treatment.
I wish you the best of luck and that you can turn this situation round. all the best