Why do so many men suck the life out of women? Why are men so selfish?
I went out with my sister-in-law this weekend. She is a smart, talented, hardworking, BEAUTIFUL woman. Her ex husband sucked the life out of her and never appreciated her.
Now she’s dating, and the guys that she goes out with use her up and then want nothing to do with her.
I see this all the time; a phenomenal woman will get with a guy and within a few weeks he is treating her like crap. Once he’s sucked all of the life out of her, he moves on. It seems like once a man has a woman hooked, he starts doing shady crap and when she calls him on it, he treats her like she’s "crazy" and "insecure" and "needy".
It’s to the point that I hate men! A man will try to flirt with me and I’m absolutely DISGUSTED! The thoughts that come into my mind are, "Yeah…you want ME to give YOU my happiness and worth. You want in my pants; you want me to clean your house and cook your dinner, while you go out with your boys. If I complain, then I’m a B****. If I ask for help, I’m a nag. You want me to take care of you in bed and out and I get nothing in return. Yeah, keep flirting, Loser".
I pretty much think how DARE he flirt with me!?! On the other hand, I see women. I see how they’ve been hurt. "Sl*ts" aren’t bad women; they are women that have been hurt by men so many times that they don’t care any more. They get their physical needs met and move on, because you can’t expect anything from a selfish child.
I actually told this to my husband the other day. I told him that I like him and I love him, but I just HATE men. This is genuinely how I feel. Men find a beautiful, vibrant woman, use her up and dump her out with the trash.
I don’t even understand why ANYONE would want to pursue a relationship with a man. I think if my husband turns out to be a run of the mill life-sucker like the majority of other men out there, then I’m turning lesbian.
Behind every B***h is a man that made her that way!
Ok, to be less general: why are GOOD men such a rare find?! There are some out there; I’m actually married to one of them. I kissed a lot lot lot of frogs before I found him though, and I see my girlfriends (married and single) just get used and used and used.
And to the men with the rude responses about my question: You are exactly the losers that I’m talking about! I bet you left some beautiful vibrant woman miserable in your wake. Good job! See if you can ruin a few more lives before God finally rids this planet of you.
Tags: bad women, beautiful woman, crap, Dating, happiness, loser, Many Men, Men Suck, Men Women, phenomenal woman, quot, relationship, selfish child, Sister In Law, sucker, trash, vibrant woman, Women Men
"sucked the life out of her and never appreciated her."
this always happens to me..=’[
guys are so evil =|
Why do so many men suck the life out of women? Why are men so selfish?
We are trying to be more like women.
The only reason your husband has you around is so he has a human cumdumpster so he has a place to dump a load of hot cocksnot you whinybitch, face the facts, dumbass!
Jesus christ girl,
Just another pissed off lesbo or what?
like to blame all your problems on men? yhea thats real mature
why dont you take a look at yourself and realize that your are the one who needs fixing
With that kind of deeply offensive sexist attitude towards men
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Enjoy being the fat pissed off lady that never got married or had kids and no one talks to in 10 years because all you can do is blame your problems on "the men of the world"
What makes you think that its just men who do this to women,
give your head a shake and open up your eyes you sexist
It goes the other way around too. I guess I’m one of the few good ones. Good luck with the marriage.
I think you over generalize about men.
When I am attracted to a woman, I want her for herself and try
to enable her to express her true potential. Surely I cannot be
the only such man.
i totally know what you’re talking about. i’ve see this too much too, however i can’t agree that EVERY guy does that. losers do that, but not all guys are losers. i have a very sweet boyfriend and my friends and family members always tell me that i seem so much happier now that i’m with him. there are a select few men that are actually a good influence on their girlfriends, however those men are hard to find.
Women with your kind hate run men off after they see the real person.
The sooner all women realize how DUMB and USELESS men are… the better off they all will be! Pretty much sums it up….
I have been in five relationships with men who are very immature. I am tired. I don’t think i can choose anymore, or decide for myself. I am asking that God put me in the place he wants be to be and to heal my heart from so many disappointments. Men can be very cruel, but Cruel women made cruel men, and thus these cruel men make bitter women like myself.
@Poppa’s Girl I’m sorry that you feel that way. That is a very immature way of looking at things.
@the rest of the women here
From what I have seen in my lifetime being 34 now, is that woman are generally physically attracted to jerks. You never really get to know these guys and they figure they are so hot to trot that they can do anything to you(aka taking you for granted).
Then again, sometimes women of all ages can be just as smothering and as needy as men. That being said, men need their space to sometimes. Were not all mindless jerks either. What most of us are really is that we are victims of a vicious circle.
When I was about 13yrs old there was a 14yr old girl that I liked name Michelle and she was beautiful in every way. Great personality, average body and very lovable.
Then one day she meets this 23yr old jerk and dates him. Of course this guy has a job and a car etc.. probably moved out all ready.
However I was still friend’s with her and hanging out very frequently and saw her boyfriend haul off and punch her in the arm. Playful or not, I’m sure it left a bruise and it was just disgusting about how much she would take from this guy.
I’m sure he was a stud to if you catch my drift but still being a stud doesn’t erase the fact that he was abusive. Plus the age difference and the fact that it was totally illegal makes me more infuriated but there was nothing that I could do about it.
I was very young and thin as a rail. What about the parents though, why the hell didn’t they step in. There is no way in hell my daughter would date someone that is that much much older than she is while she is still in her teens.
My point of this whole post is that if you want a good and loving relationship is to stop going after the jerks. Money does not buy love no matter how you look at it.
The jerks are so busy being the self centered pricks that they are and buying things only for themselves and just thinking about themselves and not really thinking about you other than as receptacle for their disgusting ways.
If this guy is so self centered that instead of bringing you flowers, he decides that he needs to buy big fancy $800.00 rims for his p.o.s car or some stupid gold chain to go around is selfish self centered prick of a neck then he really is not right for you. Let him live in his fantasy land and find a nice guy. Sure we are a little boring but at least you can expect true love and devotion.
I have had the same experiences you speak of. I know I do not deserve to be treated badly but I give men a chance and get burnt every time. I do not come across as needy or clingy or demanding as I am independent and just carefree and trusting and they just take me for a ride. I feel the same if any man speaks to me. What is his history with women? Does he go on sex tours to third world countries? Does he watch porn on the net? Does he perve at 16 year olds? It’s all about sex and where they can get it next. They make me feel sick. Basically now I cannot trust any of them.