How to aproach my ex girlfriend about getting back together?
June 2nd, 2010 by admin | Filed in Getting Back Together
Me and my ex girlfriend have both had partners since and are now both single again and i still love her alot and really want her back. We hang out again, with a group of friends and i dont know how and when i should tell her how i feel (though i think she already suspects that i like her alot again).
But yeh: we are just friends at the minute and dont know how she feels and how and when to aproach her about the topic?
Tags: alot, ex girlfriend, just friends, love
Bring up old times. Like "remember when…" to start it off and then if she seems into it, go with the whole "I miss those days" implying that you’d like to be with her again. But ease into it and see how she’s reacting because you don’t want to look like a fool if she is totally over you.
Be honest and tell her how you feel BUT If she doesn’t want to get back together with you then leave her alone.
And don’t play the "let’s just be friends" trick to get her back cause us girls know that trick and it DOES NOT work.
Remember NO guilt trips and NO stalking!
spend a day with her and wait for perfect time
i agree with the answer below.
Approach her when you two are alone. If she knows you like her, half the battle is won. Just tell her that you miss her and have been thinking about her and go from there. If she blows you off then it depends if you want to put yourself out there and tell her more. But basically, just tell her and then ask her what she thinks. That’s what my ex did.
So much depends on why you broke up the first time. After my wife died, I got back together with a GF from a dozen years earlier. So far it’s working out. We split so I could find someone to have kids with (didn’t work out.)
After his wife died, my brother started dating a GF from before his marriage. "After a while you realize that there was a reason you broke up the first time."
There is some risk to the friendship in the asking. Some women feel threatened when someone wants them, enough to undermine the friendship. But I feel that the risk is worth it.
You’re seeing her among a group. You need to invite her to some kind of "two of us" event, during which you can raise the question. Since you knew her before, the tactic to get her alone, the way to raise the question and so on are all things you know more than us.
Why’d you break up before?
exes are exes for a reason so at first i’d advise a little caution but if you’re certain you want to try again then just go for it. i’ve gotten back together with a few exes and personally i thought it was easy. there shouldn’t be any need for a feeling out process. i’m assuming you’ve already been intimate with her so just man the eff up and handle it brotha.
Stay away from these other lame answers! You really have to ease back into things with your ex-girlfriend or you could risk scaring her. And then the even worse scenario of taking too long and she gets with another guy.
I take that you really like her and want to get her back the right way. This video at http://exgirlfriendmaster.com really helped me. It pretty much explains how to get back your ex girlfriend like I’ve been saying, the right way. Good luck my man!