Is it ever too long to get your ex back?
June 18th, 2010 by admin | Filed in Get Your Ex Back
It has been almost two years since my ex and I ended things. I have dated many girls since then and all have failed in comparison to her. I have decided that I want her back. However, we have not talked in many months and I have no idea how I can go about this. Is there a step by step process that I can follow to start to get her back in my life? Or has it simply been to long and not even think about getting her back anymore? Please Help!
Tags: back in my life, girls
To Be Honest not really. I am turning 32 this fall and I am getting back with my ex after 9 years.
I have changed a lot for the better . I have quit my partying and have grown up a lot since then. we both didn’t have any success with other people.
I hope it works out for you
Yeah there’s a chance… if you broke up with her, very little chances.
My husband and I had been on and off for six years before we decided to really be together. He chased me, I chased him, it was a neverending story. Needless to say here we are now almost three years of marriage all because he called me one day and made plans to take me out to dinner. If it truly is love, then nothing can stop it. If you feel this strong about her then go get her! Let her know how much you care about her and that you have come to the conclusion that no one can even come close to comparing to her. Be honest with her, don’t just try to sweep her off her feet. Good luck!
Does she have a facebook? If so, you can find out a lot from that so you know how to go about it, if at all (she may be in a relationship already).
Start off slow. Maybe a wall post or text message. You should be able to tell some things from her response. For instance, if she doesn’t respond, she’s not interested. If she does, see what her tone is. Women are usually easier to read when it comes to how they feel about a guy. If she’s all "Oh my God, I’ve been thinking about you non-stop since we broke up," you know you’re Golden.
Just play it by ear, but take it slow. The easiest way to scare a woman off is too rush in too fast. Try to get back into her life one step at a time. First, through conversation only. If she seems to be into your conversations, suggest a friendly meeting (lunch, movie, etc.) and take it from there. You guys have a history, so you should be able to tell fairly quickly if the spark is still there.
Good Luck.
You need to start off slow with some form of communication that leaves the ball in her court. For one thing you don’t know if she is with someone else. Calling right off the bat is a bad idea. I would go for something like email or a text message to say hello and hope you are doing well.
You want to come off as friendly not "Hey, wanna get freaky?"
Sending a short message like this is a good start. If you have friends in common, then this would be helpful as well. Asking that friend how she is doing will more than likely get back to her, at which point she will be expecting some kind of communication from you.
Just take it slow and see where it takes you.