Any tips on helping deal with getting dumped?
August 27th, 2009 by admin | Filed in Getting Back Together
My well ex girlfriend dumped me a few days ago to go back to her ex boyfriend. I don’t know what to do anymore everything i see reminds me of her and I can’t stop thinking about it. I am trying to keep myself from contacting her because I know she doesn’t want to talk to me anyway and I am not the stalker type.
Sorry for some reason it put my question in this section and i didn’t notice it in time to change it.
Tags: ex girlfriend, few days, stalker type
Take everything that reminds you of her and THROW IT AWAY. DELETE IT. Pictures, gifts, whatever; just dump it all.
Give yourself time. Emotional attachments fade, even if it takes a few weeks or more, but eventually you will be back to normal and not look back.
***EDIT
And don’t look at her goddamn Myspace/Facebook profile to see what she’s up to, you will only get more upset even if there’s nothing upsetting about what you see.
I’ve been where you’re at, so please heed my advice.
im sooo sry!…it does really sux but it just wasnt meant to be "/ i noe it really does hurt but wat makes me feel bettter is to do somethin i like or enjoy to get the person off my mind and sometimes crying does make u feel better (even if ur a guy)…also maybe find a new girl u can crush on so ur ex is out of ur head. she was dumb to dump u nd get back wit her ex..thatt means she isnt worth it. if she really had the courage to dump u for some other guy thats just rude and mean so i thnk the best thing to do is try and get over her…she really really really isnt worth it trust me!
Stay active. Do things to take you mind of her. Go out with friends, go on new dates, etc.
Do not try to rekindle things with your ex right away
Stop constantly calling, texting and trying to see your ex
Get out of the house and see other people
Use your common sense and keep your emotions under control.
By doing so you will find that time will be your best friend as your heart heals.
I’d agree with what someone said up there – chuck out everything you’ve got that belongs to her.
My motto is: “you can’t get over the last one, until you’ve found the next one”. So get out there are start meeting people again!