Getting dumped?
July 21st, 2009 by admin | Filed in Getting Back Together
Would it do any good to unload your feelings via phone/email to the person that dumped you or just forget about it, move on and start the healing process.
Tags: email, feelings, healing process
Forget about it and move on. It will just make you look bitter and you don’t want them to have the upper hand.
forget about it and move on!!
start the healing process!!
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well unloading your feelings may upset you more so try to get on
Forget about it and move on.
Move on and start the healing process.
dont worry about the people in your past,theres a reason they didnt make it to your future
Don’t bother, it only makes you more vulnerable than you already are.
They say it’s always best to take the high road, which I’ve did much of my adult life, but then I said, screw it….I have a right to my feelings too and they shared their opinion, and now they get to hear mine.
move on and start the healing process……….
how about you do it to their face…..email or phone won’t really express how you really feel. It’ll have more definition to the point you’re trying to get across. The healing process will go by much smoother. It worked for me and i hope it works for you.
tell him, then move on! just so he knows down the road what he missed…and then again he may realize right then and there and come back
yeah pretty much..
just wait a bit an see what happens
if you broke up then apparently he dont wanna be with you righ
now
and so give him time if he wants to he will
but for now like they said
start the healing process
i think sunrise is right. just for get her/him she/he will get the upper hand on you
Personally, I’d right the most heart-rending letter I could to the dumper, and I’d write every little feeling down to the last iota. Spare nothing, you need to get it out.
But don’t send it. Burn it up in a rite of acceptance or celebration, whatever works for you. You obviously know that it’s time to move on.
Don’t do it. Unload your feelings in a diary or journal or something that you keep to your self and not show anyone. It will do NOTHING except irritate your ex if you share your feelings with them.
i did that when i got dumped, i meet the person at there house and opened the flood gates, worst thing i ever did. move one, hang with friends, keep yourself busy. that’s the best thing you can do. start the healing now.
I would move on. I tried the whole.. please-take-me-back-because-I-love-you. It didn’t work and I felt much worse in the end. We don’t even talk anymore because of it. It’s going to be hard, but it’s for the best. Hope everything turns out okay for you.
Just forget about him trust me …..
I made the mistake of telling him my feelings …freaked him out even more, and scared him away for good.
If it’s meant to be, it will be ……if not ….live your life !
No , don’t phone or email , just move on even if your are falling apart inside don’t show it , be strong , living well is the best revenge .
NO. Don’t do it! Trust me, I’ve been there. It may feel good and you may think it’s valid and sensible, but you are under great distress and the things you say will only end up embarrassing you. You’ll look back on it a few months down the road and hide your face in shame.
The other person will probably only laugh, and it will do nothing but boost their self confidence as they go around to their friends (and maybe yours) saying stuff like, " You won’t believe the email I got from so-and-so. It was pathetic! They’re sooooo clingy, dude. Glad I dropped that."
It would be better to write down your feelings a personal journal or on a private blog or something. Whatever you do, do not confront the person who dumped you. It’s best to just forget about them and try to move on, even though I know that sounds hard right now.
Trust me. You can do it. I’ve been there.
Move on. Never put anything in writing unless it’s good news and you wouldn’t be ashamed to see on the front page of the NY Times.
in my experience, it ends up making you look like a fool in the end…write it all down in a letter. wait one week, then read it again (if you’re at all like me, you will spend the whole week writing it!). if you still feel like you need to unload, send it.
time may heal all wounds, but remember that the big ones leave a scar.
move on, it’s his/her loss, sorry to hear bout it
Just move on. Unless you really had some very strong feelings about the person and feel that there could be a chance in saving what you once had, by talking it out. If he dumped you in a messed up way, then that just means he didn’t care enough about your feelings to be kind to you, so in reality, he never cared enough for you to begin with, understand? But if he let you down kinda easy, and you cant figure out WHY, get at him and sit down and say your peace. This way you get closure and you can move on to the next phase of your life ok? Good luck to you boo. One love.
I disagree with everyone here actually…I think it’s important to be heard and express yourself. If it was a meaningful relationship, it can help get closure…if it was just something random and not very meaningful, THAT’S when I would say to move on. I recently went through a break up, and when I was angry, I let him know…when I was okay and wanted him to know that I’d always love him and I wished him the best…I let him know. Actually, we broke up like 6 months ago, and just 2 weeks ago I sent him a "thank you" email for everything that he did and didn’t do in our relationship b/c it has helped me grow and become who I am today. I’ve met someone else, and I found it to be very therapeutic to express my feelings to him…you can only express to your friends so much, or keep it inside where you’ll always carry unheard feelings…I say tell him, just know that you telling him won’t make him want you back per say, it’s just for you!
No, just move on.