GETTING MY EX GIRLFRIEND BACK?
September 21st, 2009 by admin | Filed in Ex Girlfriend Back
We went out all through college, a very great but back & forth relationship. We have been broken up for almost 6 yrs. She got out of a 4.5 yr relationship last year & I want to see if its still there. We hang out casually and keep in contact here & there. I have spilled my guts a couple of yrs ago when she was in her relationship…she denied me. She thinks Im great, but she might be judging me on how I was when I was much younger. Do I address the past of when i made her feel crapy? what do i do? I was thinking of telling her im coming on a 2 hr commute each way to see her for an hour. that action might be flattering & show her I would do anything for another shot.
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Hi
Winning back your ex girlfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
Here are helpful steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Her To Get Back Together
You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Being Jealous Is Not The Way To Go
You must understand that …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Be Flexible
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. It’s better to be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.
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I hope you will get your ex girlfriend soon!
Why not call her or even talk toher one day and tell her that you wanna try it again xplain to her how you know You made your mistakes when you were younger and you want to try and see how things would work out again… Take her to a nice dinner and a movie tell her just to hang out and then talk about it at the end of the night ya know
If you really want her back, check if she wants you back too first, before going all that way too see her. Its been 6 years after all. She could have changed as well, not just you.
So just make sure she wants you back too and show her how much you really mean for you guys to work it out again!
Good Luck!