I have been seeing this girl for about 3 months now. We started talking mid july and started dating early august. She is everything ive ever wanted in a girl. I have been dealing with idiots who lie and cheat the past few years and this one is the complete opposite. She’s honest, shes not dramatic, she tells me what she wants..shes just everything ive wanted. She’s 17 and a senior in high school and im 18 and a freshman in college. I moved away August 25th two hours away from her at a top 5 college. Before i left it was damn near perfect. When I explain it i say it was like a page out of someone else s life. It was great in every way.

After i left it was alright until about a month later when she started acting different. I asked her about it and she said it was nothing. Then i came home and she told me her feelings were changing only when im gone. When im home they seem to be fine, so she thought we should take a break until we were ready. Things were decent and then i came home again for her homecoming and she seemed to almost ignore me. So we decided to go from break to break up. immediately she started feeling like she missed me so much and wanted me home and she started going back to her normal self. We talked about how we were going to try and date around december because i would be home for a month for christmas break and even possibly thanksgiving break becuase i would be home for a week.

Today she was telling me about how she didnt want to date until the summer now, no matter what happens at home when im home for christmas or thanksgiving. She told me that her feelings didnt change at all and that she still misses me as much and that she still wants me to come home but that it would be beter to not date until summer. I understand that as i am afraid her feelings would go right back to changing for the worst after christmas. My problem is i asked her if honestly did she have any doubts about getting back together in the summer. The summer was supposed to be the fallback plan if the stuff in between we did didnt work. It might not work but as soon as summer got here we knew we’d get back together. All of a sudden she says she has doubts, she thinks it will happen, and doesnt see why it wouldnt but she said there is a small doubt.

My question is am i over thinking this? should i let her go completely before she gets worse, or will she go back to wanting to get back together a.s.a.p. like before. I dont want to get back together after christmas break becuase of what i said i was afraid of before, but summer was always the guarantee that got me through all this. I just want to get an opinion from the outside thats not clouded by liking the person on whether or not someone thinks she is saying that to keep my standby until she finds someone else or if its genuine. She is an honest person she would tell me straight up if she wanted to break up not talk etc. shes stayed this long. I am just wondering if its more probable it will go wrong and if i should let this go now or wait it out. thanks in advance for any help.
well we are able to "see" other people. She told me straight up you can make out with other girls but if you were to have sex i would probably not touch you again lol. She told me today that i can do whatever even though she most likely wont but told me that she would care, so we agreed that the only making out thing works. I have another question, should i have no contact with this girl or talk to her as much as possible. I already wait for her to text me, i almost never text/call her first.

Tags: Break, christmas, Doubts, feelings, freshman, homecoming, long distance relationship, pla, thanksgiving