I want my boyfriend to LOVE me again. PLEASE HELP.?
weve been together for 2 years and 4 months and the last years were very good. but we do argue alot like everyday. and earlier today we were talking and he said he does not want to be with me and he calls me fat and ugly and he also says that he wants a skinny girl like "JESSICA ALBA" so i wanna make him happy. and he also told me that he wishes i was dead and he hates me. i dont know what to do cuz my sisters tell me that they like him but he treats me wrong. i am obviously TOO blind to see that soo can anyone help me to make him love me again. please i really do not wanna lose him. he is the love of my life. he also thinks i am cheating on him but i will NEVER do that i love him. and besides i am not that kind of girl. i am very faithful. i really wanna be with him soo please help.!!!!
well he would also say that it is over but i dont want that at all. i also feel like i wouldnt be able to live without him its soo hard. i dont wanna leave him b/c it would just kill me to see him with another girl. ohh and that reminds me he also says that he gets girls numbers but i know that he is just playin but still…..i dont know he is just a MAJOR A**HOLE!!!!
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i hate to break it to you, but you just need to forget him. if he does all of that stuff then you really dont need him. he is careless to you and you can obviously do much better or you are desperate..no offense
Me and you are going through the same thing except my guy would NEVER tell me that I needed to look like someone else.Although, we fight like crazy..and he has told me he wishes I would just "go die". There is NOTHING we can do. I feel like I can’t leave because I have no idea how to live without him.I know I would..but I just don’t know how.I know this isnt helping..I just wanted you to know there is someone out there going through it too. Lets just not talk to them for a few days…then when we do see them..like be extra sweet and cook their favorite foods. haha.
Looks like he wants to end the relationship, but is too much of a coward to say it upfront. So he’s trying to anger you enough in hopes that you’ll be the one to end it.
Hate to say it, but you should probably just break up =/
Well it seems to me you already see it, it’s before you’re very eyes. If you want to save it and I’m not sure you should want too! I mean anyone who insults someone they love the way he does is just WRONG! But for you’re sake..if you want to save this..express how you’re feeling to you’re b/f..and start changing how you feel about yourself. Self esteem is a wonderful thing. Most men fear it..as a strong woman can do just about anything..and it keeps them on their toes. Sometimes we lose that spark that brought us together in the first place. Be the one he used to know..not the woman who is running around worried and living in fear of losing him. But always remember..one mans rubbish is another mans treasure. Life does go on after a breakup *hugs*
You say you love him….could you ever say those things to him? Do you think he really loves you? Do you think he’s capable of loving someone? Don’t torment yourself. Let him go. You’ll find someone better.