Can you truly get over having a broken heart?
I met & fell in love with a man younger than me. We had a solid relationship till my now ex-bestfriend went & told lies to him about me. She was jealous because all my attention was with him. She just didnt like the fact that she wasnt getting my total attention anymore. She had no one to use or scam so she went after my baby. She’s a really bad person &I tried to protect him from her evil ways but he wont listen to me. She has him believing Im a liar & more. When in fact she’s the one that uses men for money & does what it takes to get them to trust & fall for her & when she’s tired of them, treats them like dirt. My heart is broken cos I gave this man all my heart, love & soul. I just dont give that to just anyone. He’s a really good loving man. If anyone can help me heal this torn, broken heart, I really need some solid good advice. I dont want bad comments or mean things. I just need to get back my happy life that I use to have. Im just very torn up about this. Ty. TC & be safe.
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Yes, dear. You can get over having a broken heart. My advice to you is to pray and ask God to help you get through this. God said in His word to cast all your cares upon Him for He careth for you. I have been hurt so deep in my life until I actually thought I would never heal. There were times when I would try to forgive and forget and move on with my life, only to find out the hurt was still there. The reason it was still there was because I had no power to deliver myself from the hurt. There were times when I thought I was over it and then all of a sudden the hurt would come back and hit me like a ton on bricks. My emotions were so torn up. But after crying out to God and asking Him to help me to get over the pain so I could move on with my life, He done just that. God healed my broken heart and gave me inner peace about the situation I had gone through. And once He fixed my heart, it was fixed. There were no set backs, no more hurt, and no more bitterness in my heart toward those that had hurt me. I hope this will help you.
`A broken heart is a painful thing. But having your heart broken can make you a stronger, more loving and compassionate person. As time goes by, the pain will lessen, but may blindside you from time to time when you hear a certain song, etc…. but remember, suffering brings depth to the soul.
Wow!! That is a good question.Come from someone who has been there .You have to look inside yourself and ask if he loves you why is he still talking to someone who puts down his wife or girlfriend? And is he aware of what she is doing to you? Have you asked him to stay away from her?
Hi… First of all yes you can get over having your heart broken …. It just take time to heal… There are ways that could help you.. 1)don’t look back to old memories of you and your boyfriend… All you are doing are just making you more upset… Be positive.. It is not the end of the world for you …. Use your spare time and join some club, shopping, or go to new places to meet people… As for your ex, if he really really loves you he wouldn’t even believe your friend and believe you,…. I think it is his loss for him to believe your friend.. In relationship there are only two things that are most important.. One is loyal and the other is trust each other.. If he can’t even trust you and yet believe other people then what’s the point of having a relationship.??? I’m sure you will find another man that will love you.. It just take time
Just answering your questions without the details: NO. broken heart experiences just pile up! The freshest one is felt the most….the others remain but felt seldom.
I no the feeling i was with someone for 5 yrs n we just broke up last yr.
Since then I met a great man whom i love very much. Basicly what im tryin to say is that you obviously need to stop giving love or trust so easily. You see you gave that girl your friendship and trust and she backstabbed you, and you gave him your love and trust and he left you. What you need to do is first cal him up and let him no that he messed up a good thing becuz he believed a lie, and not you, how important was your love to him cuz he was quick to judge and give up, that will set up closure for you to start over and find someone that can accept that good love you have without breaking your heart. Trust me its hard but you will get over him, Unless he isn’t over you?
I would start with a few new friends. Perhaps a more mature man would be a better bet in the boyfriend department. Be honest in all your relationships and others will be loyal to you. Your heart is hurt a bit, but this relationship doesn’t sound like it was going to last anyway. Move on. Use the time you have now to evaluate your own actions and find happiness with yourself. Prepare yourself for a relationship with a mature individual by being mature yourself. Focus on growing emotionally from your experience and I think you will find that your heart isn’t broken and you will have happier, healthier relationships in the future.
your best bet is to just talk to your boyfriend about this. leave that other girl out of it. ask him why hes believing some other girl over you, the girl he loves? whatever happends, give him his space, let him think about what hes doing a little bit and let him come to you. if he doesnt come back, then its best to move on. if he cant trust you then you have no reason being with him anyway.
as for your question, i do believe you can mend a broken heart. it’ll hurt for awhile but you’ll move on and you wont even think of that guy. why would you want to break yourself up over some guy who cant even trust you? theres always another guy whos willing to trust you. move on hun, and pick your friends more wisely next time