is it possible for your wife to love again even if she says she’s not sure anymore?
October 15th, 2009 by admin | Filed in Save My Marriage
Together 15 years 2 kids of 10 and 8, and she’s not sure if she loves me anymore and if we should be together. However she has agreed to get counceling and we still sleep in the same bed.
NO there is no other man in the picture. But she says she has been feeling this for close to 2 years now. She is willing to see counseling but doesn’t know how that can bring back the love. Has anyone ever been in this type of situation and can counseling really help us out?
She says she is sure that she doesn’t love me …. could that be all the strees?
I’m willing to try to do anything to save our marriage. However she doesn’t see how it can be saved. She doesn’t beleive that you can bring back the feelings she once had!
Get the counselling. It sounds like she’s struggling with deeper issues or she wouldn’t be sleeping in the same bed as you. I think she still loves you. Make sure you support her through this or you may run the risk of losing her. Listen alot and don’t ever tell her that what she is thinking is stupid.
Sounds like she does still love you on some level. I am married and could never sleep in the same bed as someone I did not love. I think after awhile all marriages can beniffit from couceling.
no answer but my b/f feels the same way
She has shown you where the door is. Your job is to walk through it or stay. But she has shown you where the door is
she has another guy on the side!
Sounds like you need to communicate with each other and get down to business. What’s causing this sudden "lack of love". I don’t think people just fall out of love one day, all of a sudden. Communication is the key. Talk to each other.
The longer she has been feeling dissatisfied the less likely she will love you again. Saying she’s not sure might just be a way of sparing your feelings. Try counceling–but could you stay with her if her feelings never go back to the way they were?
ALL WOMEN GO THROUGH THIS… YES SHE STILL LOVES YOU OR SHE WOULDNT BE THERE..YOU NEED TO CONVINCE HER THAT YOU WILL TRY HARDER. SOUNDS LIKE SHE REALLY JUST NEEDS YOUR ATTENTION.
Well, there is always hope. She is still there and agreed to counseling so that’s a good sign. Is there another man involved?
I think you should find what you both fell in love with in the begining and try to get back to that point. Most likely is the lack of intimacy but do not mistake that with sex.
I would set one night a week that you both could do something you like togther but just the 2 of you. Like go to a movie, dinner something you both like to do togther and start there good luck.
sounds like you both need to get a way from the house and the every day hum drum of every day life. its boring 2 her is she stuck in the house all day watching TV and how its suppose to be . try a vacation 4 a week 7 hole days of just the two of you. feel her out about the hole thing. you don’t have to go all out just Mexico apple vacations should b able 2 hook u up with what ever funds u have. and if it don’t work out you had a great time saying good by. shell have to pay half. counseling is just blaming each other 4 stuff and excepting the blame when blame’s due.spend the money a better way.