Comments on: how do i prove that i will never hurt her again and my love for her is forever?

By: Scott L

Scott L — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 04:49:53 +0000

Man up, move back in and be there. Stop messing around show her you know what you want. You have kids and have made all sorts of commitments. Marry her.

By: chelsie

chelsie — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 04:49:53 +0000

give up. if she doesn’t want you, leave her alone

By: ~leaving traces~

~leaving traces~ — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 04:49:53 +0000

Unfortunately there is NOTHING you can do now. Except to keep letting her know you love her. People in the heat of the moment rarely think of the true impact of what they are doing in the long run. What makes us think a person will forgive us? Why should they? You messed up. You admit it. Now you have to give her the right of whether or not she can handle this, and look at you, seeing visions of what you were doing with this other woman in her head for the rest of her life. If she chooses to move on, she has a very good reason, and a right to do that. Give her some time to figure out what she wants. You chose what you wanted, and now it’s her turn. Either way, let this be a lesson. You see now what’s most important in this life, and NOTHING, not even a "piece of fine" is worth losing what’s most important. If she doesn’t stay with you, you still need to learn from this and never do it to anyone else ever again. (I had to learn this lesson on both sides of the coin, and let me tell you, neither side feels good. I learned my lesson. Will you?) You can hope and pray, but ultimately, you gave up your right to be with her, when you hurt her. If she takes you back, then you better scramble being all the things you know she needs you to be. You will spend the rest of your life trying to make it up to her.

By: Micheala G

Micheala G — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 04:49:53 +0000

"It better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all"

By: Frog M

Frog M — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 04:49:53 +0000

As a guy, I know you might want some support, but I was divorced 9 years ago from a woman that cheated on me. I took her back, but it was never the same, and eventually, it broke us up. Once trust is gone, you can never really get it back. Even if she took you back, she will always wonder, and can never trust you. There are no words that can ever erase that hurt.
Sorry, dude, but you really screwed it up.