my boyfriend is getting over me bcuz we fight so much about how he looks at girls and hes more descreet about it but we fight less now and hes still getting over me. then the next day he will tell me that he loves me. he says he wants to only be with me and to show me he loves me he will get a tattoo of the first letter of my name. but then the next day we fight again about how hes always looking at any females. i dont get it. how can i make him love me again.. and love me so much that he will forget about always wanting to look around at women

Tags: Cuz, females, First Letter, girls, love, tattoo

we have a big fight last 2 weeks. . after a week we’re now ok. . but its really weird that shes not into me
how can i make her fall in love again
today. . were long distance ,
shell comeback when the school starts
but what should i do today when she’s far from me?.
please help thank u

Tags: Fall In Love, girlfriend, long distance, love, shell

Well, her and I broke up about a month ago over stupid things, I guess I got a bit too clingy and she wanted her space, plus she’s been getting stressed with all the work she has in college and what not, so we agreed to take a break from our relationship.

Then she brought her ex boyfriend into the picture, and I guess I miunderstood what she was saying/doing and I ended up calling her something I do not want to repeat, and I regret doing now, big time. But basically she hates me for that now and before when I was getting all clingy and she’s been ignoring me ever since I called her a bitch basically. I would of never of intentionally wanted to call her anything like that or hurt her, but I was already hurting with the break up and what not, then her bringing her ex up, just kind of lost control of my emotions.

So now, I try to text her once a week to just see how her week/end was and she never responds, or when she does she’ll ask why I’m trying to talk to her.

Same story for if I ever call her, she’ll pick up, ask me why I’m trying to talk to her and I’ll just tell her that I serioiusly am sorry, I fucked up, I miss being able to talk to you and I would like to fix what I fucked up and she just hangs up on me. She won’t even give me a chance to talk about things with her or anything, and that just annoys the crap out of me.

So basically, what could I ever do to give me a chance to at least be her friend again. Because I still do love her, even though she doesn’t believe I do and says that I don’t, because I called her a bitch, but I made a mistake It’s like I’m stuck in a corner with her, she seems to think I hate her and don’t love her, while she also things I’m too clingy and I’m just clueless as to what to do. She’s a nice and unique girl, and I’d hate to have to see her completely walk out of my life, even if we can’t be together still, I’d like to be able to at least be her friend.

Tags: big time, bitch, Break, Clueless, crap, emotions, Ex Boyfriend, ex girlfriend, Guess, love, mistake, relationship, stupid things

Me and this girl have liked each other for ages now, she would always comment on my pics, and we would sometimes flirt but we never spoke really or met up, even though we known each other since school and were both 20 now.
She even asked me out at one point but I was like nah, was nervous I guess but we finally met up and she was really excited about it, then we started seing each other but never made it official, we would make out for hours on end and I’d treat her like a princess, she was open to me about how she been cheated numerous times in past, even abused and how she just hates being in love. So she clearly been hurt and its like she giving up or something, she also has sevre anxitey… I just wanted to hold her and take her problems away and I told her that.
After a while though she gets distant, saying how nice it would be if we could work out, or how I’m to good for her like she feels she ain’t worth me?
Next thing I know she is saying she just don’t want anything serious with anyone, and told me not to get attacthed and 3 days after her being beside me, she jumps in relationship with some 30 year old lmao? which that screams to me she is trying to run away from me or something, she even rang me to talk about it, saying how me and her are just different people, and she needs someone that can control her and lived a life like hers???
My mate asked her what happened and she said were just different people its ashame. And were not different people we have like everything in common, and when she was with me she was so lovley and cute around me like I bought out best in her, and she has liked me for ages and so have I, and I don’t understand why she just, switched off on me. The only explaination I can come up with is, she is scared to get close to me, she goes of with some random guy coz with him there is no dissapointments.
Well fast forward a month of zero contact, they break up with her saying to her friends it just didn’t feel right, maybe coz of me?
They broke up on friday and I msg her on fb on monday just to see if she would talk to me…simply saying "Ello you alright x" and she goes "Yeah why wouldn’t I be? x"…I didn’t reply till next day, and that next day she has a status about how she couldn’t sleep, maybe coz of me? Anyway I write back "I dunno, you just come to mind and wanted to see how my fave girl was doing x" and she is like "ohh lol, yeah not to bad thx you x"…then she got sent home from work coz she had a migraine or something, and I just write to her "k nice to hear hun, n if you wanna hang out sometime it be nice x"…and ain’t heard nothing yet. even though she was on fb, and at the end of the night she posted this video to her wall – http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BHkuFYZgH… – which explains a lot about the situation…I mean the break up with her not feeling right, her not being able to sleep, being sent home from work coz of migraine and that video, is any of that to do with me? is she afraid to get close to me?…or has she just switched off on me all of a sudden and even after all this time liking me, she just ain’t intrested anymore?

Tags: ashame, Break, Contact, Control, coz, dissapointments, explaination, Friends, Guess, lmao, love, Mate, Met, People, princess, random guy, relationship

I dated a girl for 11 years. We never married because she didn’t believe in marriage. I truly loved her completely and never doubted her love for me. I did everything for her, above and beyond most men. When I moved to take a job in a city she wanted to be in, she decided not to follow me and left me.

Shortly after our split, which was cordial although painful, she started dating and sleeping with my best friend. I am twice the man he ever will be and it just destroys my pride she would do this. Then she begged for me back and I took her back. Then she left me again and started dating my friend again.

It’s been over a year and I still can’t help but I still feel hurt and angry. And, I still have love for her. I can’t seem to move on to love any other woman, despite dating around. Should I continue dating? Will I ever get over her? Will I ever love again?

Tags: 11 years, best friend, Dating, job, Job Wanted, love, Love Girl, Love Woman, marriage, Other Woman, pride