My ex girlfriend of 2 years relationship treated me really bad, then decided to break up with me, she just woke up one morning and entirely cut me off her life, no response to calls, emails, doorbell, i mean everything. She said "she felt like she was trapped because i was her first boyfriend(took her virginity) and she wanted to have fun… then surely she went on and started drinking and messing around with other guys". I suffered so much when she left mainly because i had done so much for her. After 1 complete year of break up, she is back crying on the phone saying i am in so much pain without you, there is no man compares to you and i cant do this no more, i hurt on daily basis, i contemplate suicide a lot without you and on and on. This girl is driving me nuts, i just cant figure out what to do with her. I will confess i love her and i told her that but i lost respect and trust for her. She’s is saying she is truly sorry and suffering, and burning down like a candle with each day, she cant hold on anymore, she cant cope with the heartbreak pain no more, guilty and regrets . So now she asked if we can meet even for 30 minutes, for a breath of life. Please give me your best advice my yahoo friend, is she stuck in love, feeling guilty or what? Should i give her another chance
now thats she is talking about suicide, im worried. you never know some people. I would hate to have someone’s coffin on my conscience. please help

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we started dating in 2007.I got preg in 2008.I had the baby in 2008.I moved in with him 1 month before the baby was born.Xmas Eve of 2008 we got engaged.In June of 2010 we got married.when the baby was 2 months old, I was on his computer.I found a chat between him and some girl.I confronted him about it and he denied it.A couple days later he finally told me that truth and said that he was sorry.I forgave him. I understand that nobody is perfect If I even try to talk to my husband, before I can even say the first two words of the sentence/question he looks at me and says "Shhhh",I’m not in the mood to hear you right now.I can’t even have a convo with him because he never has time for me.The last time he changed a diaper was about 5 months ago and he only done it because his parents was right there. he wants me to take care of the baby, take care of him,(I don’t mind cooking for him and washing his clothes for him) but he wants me to and bring it to him in bed everyday, find his wallet,etc because he can’t keep up with anything.On top of all of that he expects me to keep everything clean.I don’t even feel like a wife, I feel like "the person that took his mom’s place". I don’t expect him to come home from his job (security guard) and clean and take care of the baby all day.I would just like 15-30 minutes to myself every once in a while.Once in a blue moon he will call me "beautiful", tell me I’m pretty or that he loves me.He always says that I’m not grown up or that "I need to grow up".He thinks because he has a job, he is grown up.I don’t even feel a spark with us anymore.Sometimes I find myself thinking about a divorce.When I think about a divorce I find myself daydreaming about going out with my friends, just being myself, smiling and having a life again.He doesn’t let me wear make-up, talk to my friends, well have friends for that matter, talk on the phone with any of my old friends from high school, and when I talk to my dad on the phone he rushes me to get off.He gets mad when I go and spend time with my dad.He says he doesnt trust me with our daughter when we go out without him. he doesn’t care if i go anywhere with his family because "its his family".He choses how I dress, who I talk to,and he just told me yesterday that he is putting me on a diet because Im gaining to much weight in such a short amount of time.I’m happy that im with him and were are together but im not happy with our relationship, anytime i have to go to the doctor he cusses me out and puts me down because i wake him and get him out of bed because he has to take me.I dont have a car, we are still living with his parents and we are using their car and everything like that until we can get a house for ourselves.I tried talking to him and letting him know how I feel but he laughs at me and says "oh yeah, i just make you feel so bad, don’t I".He always says that I’m a piece of shit wife and mom he doesnt want me to even be around my dad.sometimes he says that he trusted me but other times he says that he doesnt trust people around me.my dad has done some things to me that should not happen between a daughter and father but I forgave him.my husband doesnt know about all the things that happened there. but like i said nobody is perfect and everybody makes mistakes.i wont let my daughter out of my sight and my husband knows that.im so confused when it comes to him trusting me. when i go to see my dad, i have to fight with my husband, he calls me names, tells me im no good, and when he tells me not to come back,i say okay and when i go to get mine and my daughters toothbrush,he comes up to me and asks me if im staying all night and that I better be back in the house before the night is over.i just cant stand it anymore.even though my husband is in the same house/room with me,i feel like a single mother.sometimes when im out in town i look at other dads/husbands and when i catch myself doing it, i feel so bad.i love my husband and i said those vows for a reason but i dont even feel like im married or dating.i feel like im a mom and somebody that took his moms place.i feel like im in a prison. im really scared because i told my dad that i would go to court with him on tuesday and my husband doesnt want me to go and i know we will be fighting about it. when he gets mad, he will hit me, shove me, do anything to try to get me to do what he says. the day before mothers day(2010), he shoved me around and i had to go to the hospital. they put my arm in a sling and my husband wouldn’t even let me wear it because he didnt want to look bad in front of his parents.Ive been told over and over by people that i need to leave him but i cant.my parents are divorced and i know what the kid(s) go through and i dont want mine going thru any of that. i love him and even if i wanted to 100% I cant because i love him so much. we fight when w

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My ex left me because I wasn’t able to see him all the time. He lives 30 minutes away from me, and it was always him coming over to my house, but never me coming to his house. He left me about 2 and half weeks ago. Since then, I have been making every attempt to see him. I suprised him with a bouquet of roses at his work which he liked, I attended his award ceremony, and was very pleased to see me. He has an orchestra concert tonight, and I will be attending it. Afterwards, I wanted to talk to him. Before we leave, we always hug each other. he told me that he still has feelings for me, but they arent as strong as they used to be. Whenever he hugs me, can I kiss him on the cheek? I really care about him, and would like to get him back. Please help.

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My situation is such:
My ex gf after almost a year made contact with me. Now understand that we broke up because I hurt her by talking to another ex gf while with her.
Ok, so I have been praying to be with her again and in June she contacts me, and mid June we start to talk again building up from a Hi txt message to conversations by txt. She really wont do more then txt messages. We talked once on the phone for about 20-30 minutes about 2 weeks ago. Another bit of info is she has a bf, for almost a year now, and she said she doesnt want to hurt him, but she is confused. I am sure she is probably still seeing and talking to him, so of course he is getting more of a chance then I am with her. But when asked directly she said she wants to be with me, loves me, misses me, and thinks about me. She has also told me she wants this but it will take time and we will do this slowly. Also, she is not the type to play games or mince words. She wont say something she doesnt mean and wont do anything either unless thought out.
Ok, now over the last week or so, it seems like she is becoming distant. Txt’ing less, and when I tried calling on friday I got her voice mail and I havent heard from her since (not even a txt).
I dont know what to do. I want her to keep wanting me and I want to get her back. I love her dearly. But I am scared and I dont want to do the wrong thng either.
Some friends have told me to back off and let her come to me now, some have told me to go to her house and show her how I feel, and one has told me to give up (which really isnt an option for me). I have thought about the plusses and minuses of all those options

I am wondering what your advice is and what you think a plan of action should be to hopefully benefit me with my ex getting back together.
Please help
In addition, I have told her how I feel and she is aware of everything. I have told her how I pray for us. How I love her so much. I try to keep her aware of this. Of course not all the time, but it seems that if I do mention something to her, she is 50/50. Meaning she 50% of the time answers me like I said saying she feels the same, and 50% of the time she doesnt say anything. I have talked with her casually and at times she has brought up our past relationship, including how our "love-life" was, and also asks if I have dates and such. So it is obviously something that she is concerned with and has mentioned to me things like how would it effect me if we got back together knowing that she has been with this bf or questions like what if my ex gf or someone else came along. So she has made some serious thought, but now over the last week or so she has started to become distant it feels.
As advised I am giving her time, but after also talking to a couple of female friends I was also advised to sent a message letting her know what I was doing so she didnt think I just up and forgot about her. I hope you can let me know what you think? I wrote the following letter:
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I assume that the lapse in communication between us is really your way to give yourself the space and time you had talked about needing for us to be together again.

With that in mind, I am going to (with all my heart) honor that with a hope that you will talk to me when you are ready.

Know I think about you and love you so much.
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My ex girlfriend and I were together for 3 years and broke up cause she cheated…Then for a whole year, up until now, we were on and off getting back together then breaking up, with her telling me that she can never let me go, and that she still loves me…

Through the whole back and forth period, we still have sex occasionally because we’re strongly attracted to each other…She says that there’s no other guy in her life and that she wants to get back together, but right now she lives about 20 to 30 minutes away and we’re both out of jobs and unemployed trying to find work, so she says once we get organized we can live together…

But I asked her if she wants to be my girlfriend right now, and she said she does but she wants to wait till she moves closer cause she won’t get to see me as much living way over there…Is that just an excuse to not be with me? Is she just saying that she wants to be with me cause she only attached? Or does she really love me and will get back with me??? We still have sex cause we plan on getting back together…Is this a wrong choice? Should I stop having sex with her so she won’t use me?

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