My girlfriend broke up with me 4 months ago, and I maybe as miserable as when it first happened. I’m very stressed out and my brain just won’t stop thinking about her. I don’t have many friends and I’m losing my mind. Nothing goes my way. Does anybody have any tips? Anything would help

Tags: 4 months, brain, ex girlfriend, Getting Over An Ex, girlfriend, losing my mind

My ex and I broke up around 4 months ago. A few weeks after we broke up we decided me would go out on a date and see how it went, but then I went away for a couple of weeks during the holidays so it never happened. When we tried to organize something else I accidentally stood him up by sleeping in We are still close friends but he is now going out with one of my very close friends. I had a new boyfriend but recently broke up with him because I wasn’t over my ex. I still love him and I want him back. I dont think his relationship with my friend will last and some of my friends have told me that he is always talking to me and never her. How can I get his attention? How can I make him want me? Bear in mind that I cannot dress up as I mostly see him at school and we have to wear a uniform. Should I make him jealous?
Please help!

Tags: 4 months, close friends, Ex Boyfriend, holidays, love, new boyfriend, Organize, relationship

Would really like to know how to get my ex back? I really love him a lot but it seems like he hate me now. I Should tell you the scenario and our problems.

About 4 months back, i found out that he had knowing girls through facebook, etc and i was really fed-up by his actions so i confronted him. But he lied whenever i asked him. He even scolded me for being sensitive. It was then, our relationship started to drift little bit. I started to invade his privacy, like logging into his msn, facebook to check, he found out about it and was angry with me.

We broke up in between. but he forgave me in a month later. we were back together but he was still treating me cold, like didn’t want to meet me, or chat with me every night like what we used to do. He only texted me in every 3-4 days. I felt very uncomfortable and decided to ask him, and whenever i asked him that, he was pissed off with me.

He finally broke off with me when he found out i invaded his privacy again. he said he gave me a lot of chances and i did it over and over again. he won’t give me any chances anymore.

I’m really very afraid now. It’s been a month since we broke up, he didn’t contact me and i contacted him like every week, but he didn’t reply my messages.He still read my blog everyday as per normal, like trying to find out what i am doing, but 2 weeks back, i found out he stopped reading my blog. I tried to call him 2 weeks ago, and he scolded me. He asked me to stop disturbing him.

I’m really very afraid to lose him. I really want to know how can i get him back, how can i get his love for me back again? My school summer break is almost over and i have to leave my country to go back to study in a month time and will only return in 5 months later. I feel that he no longer want me back anymore. He was never the first one to start contacting me for almost a month. He ever told me once that he decided to break, he won’t want to patch back. Can anyone tell me how to get my ex back? I’m really lost and afraid.

Tags: 4 months, 5 months, bf, blog, facebook, girls, little bit, love, Msn, Privacy, relationship, School Break, school summer, summer break

So me and my ex liked each other for about 4 months. After an argument over why we hardly ever got to see eachother she cut off alot of contact and said she wanted to be friends for now we didnt hate eachother it was just a sort of its the best thing for now move. So we kept talking daily as friends but not near as much. After about 2 weeks she ends up dating her 6 year best friend. I asked her what happend and she said she didnt know. she said it wasnt about me or how i looked or treated her or my personality that it just happend. I was upset but i told her i have no hard feeling that shes with him and that i wish them the best of luck.

Whats weird though is daily if she sees me on facebook she’ll ask me how ive been and whats new and just casual talk as friends. its been 6 days since theyve been together and she still talks to me. But whats weird though is that she didnt change her text signature to his name like she did mine first day we got together. And she doesnt post smiley faces on his facebook like she did mine. Could this just be a rebound relationship for her? Im pretty sure she still does have SOME feelings for me. But the signs ive seen is that she doesnt like him as much as she did me when we got together. And im pretty sure that i wasnt her rebound relationship when we got together. the last guy she talked to was 3 months before me and tried to use her for sex so she kicked him to the door.

Does it sound like shes in a rebound relationship? Im ready to move on but im going to still try to limit contact with her. She ALWAYS initiiates it. My current plan is to start talking to other girls and continue to try to give my ex time while i search for someone. If she comes back before i find anyone ill take her because i still like her. But if i find someone im completely moving on. What does it sound like shes up too? And whats the best thing to do to get her back? Talk to her? Be a close friend? Use no contact? What should i do?

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Me and my ex had a really deep and passionate relationship, and the break up was hard for both of us. But we broke up 4 months ago, and after a month and a half he got a new girlfriend who he still has, and I am still single. There are several guys that want to be with me, but I can’t seem to decide if I want to be with any of them. I like them all in different ways. I wasn’t having any thoughts about my ex for a while but then some of his female friends(not his girlfriend though) added me on myspace? Which I still don’t understand, I’m not sure if they are just curious, or if theres something suspicious going on or what. But anyway, them adding me just brought him back into my mind, which I hate. I try to think about other guys but he always pops back into my mind. I feel like the only way to get over him is to have sex with someone and become emotionally involved with them(even though I’m sure that isn’t the best way)… Can anybody help me? It’s been 4 months! I just want to finally be able to say truthfully that I’ve gotten over him.
We only dated for 5 months! Its been 4 months since we broke up! I feel pathetic!

Tags: 4 months, 5 months, different ways, female friends, month and a half, myspace, new girlfriend, passionate relationship