My wife says she doesn’t love me the way a wife should love me but rather as a best friend. She says she doesn’t feel a spark anymore when I kiss her even when we have sex! I would do anything to get her to fall in love with me all over again! She is speaking about getting a divorce because she feels she never got to live the single life and just do whatever she wants whenever she wants. We got married right after she finished school and we have two kids and I am 6 years older than her. We have been together for 6 years and married for 4 years. I can’t loose her she is my everything and I show it to her on a daily basis and I complement her on a daily basis, I look after the kids at home while she relaxes and watches her favored shows on tv, i bath the kids wake them and dress them and take them to school in the mornings and don’t ask her for help at all. I have started letting her go out alone without me but the problem is she said she doesn’t want to have to worry about if a guy chats her up that she has to hold back, she wants to not care if something happens then it happens if not then it doesn’t. And although I trust her when I let her go out that statement makes my stomach turn so bad that I actually get sick and can’t eat for a day or two! What do I do how do I save this? I really love her and i can’t bare the thought of loosing her. Please help!
Tags: 6 years, Bath Kids, best friend, Chats, daily basis, Fall In Love, getting a divorce, Kids Dress, kiss, single life, Stomach, watches
I have been w/ my gf for over 6 years, we have been through everything and she has just told me she dosnt love me anymore 
Im so down i dont feel like doing anything, all i can do is cry, we where due to be married in september and now its over i just feel so down please i need advice.
How can i get her to love me again, how can i get over her, will i ever find love again?
Thanks heaps
Tags: 6 years, Advice, gf, heaps, Will I Ever Find Love
I’ve been with my husband for 6 years (inlcuding dating). I’m in my early 20′s and so is my husband. I love him deeply but don’t know if I want to be here anymore. I met someone else last week and spent most of the week with them, hanging out all day and getting to know each other and eventually sleeping together.
I convinced myself to leave my husband (so I tried) and then I slept with him, came home and admitted it. Now my husband is considering taking me back.
But I don’t know if I want to work things out. I’ve developed feelings for this other person and can see myself living a good life with him. But I’m afraid to hurt my husband again. I don’t deserve my husband after doing this to him and if I could do this to him, I mustn’t be "in love" with him. People tell me you can cheat and still love your partner, but how can you. How can you hurt that person so much? I don’t understand and I don’t want to stuff him around. What do I do?
I don’t want to continue on with this guy if I decide to stay and I’m not seeing him right now. I know I need to work out my shit, but what I guess I’m asking is does a cheater deserve another chance. My view is he deserves better than this, but on the other hand I don’t want to be a quitter (even though I did quit the second I decided to cheat).
Tags: 6 years, cheater, Dating, feelings, love quot, M 105, Met, quitter
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years. I need advice on where to go from here. Problem is, we jointly own a home together, all our bank accounts, etc are in both our names, etc. etc. (We were on the way to getting married… ) How can I get over him and not walk away from OUR stuff that I have worked so hard to get too… Also, any tips to keep me busy so I can quit thinking about it!! Must be CHEAP things to do and perferably something my wonderful dog can join me in, as I don’t want to leave her home everyday so I can go sit at the bar or whatever… Thanks for your help.
Tags: 6 years, bank accounts, Getting Over A Relationship, thanks for your help
I have been dating this guy for 6 years now. We have a 2 year old daughter together. I decided that I wanted to leave the relationship when I was about 7 months pregnant because I was really unhappy. At that time he was finishing grad school 2 hours away from the home that we shared, so even though we "weren’t together" I continued to live in the home that we had together. When he finished school. I was in my Junior year of Undergrad and decided that it was not financially possible to leave while finishing school with my little girl. So in order to stay on track with school we now lived in the same house but in separate rooms. We called ourselves dating other people and like most girls while he was actually out dating other women I simply lied about seeing other men for about a year so I didn’t seem like I could’ t move on. I was so hurt that the mother of his child could be less than 20 feet away from him and he could actually carry on a romantic conversation in the next room. He had been completely unthoughtful of my feeling and what he had at home. So one day I started to see this really great guy. He treated me like a princess and understood my position on things in my life. He never pushed me to do anything that I wasn’t ready to do including meet my daughter! This guy took a job 5 hours away because I wasn’t ready to fully commit to him though. After my little girls dad realized that I had really moved on and might really like someone, he decided that I was the one that he wanted in his life. I can most definitely see his efforts in trying to turn things around. He still doesn’t cater to the romance that I need from him, but he does make an extra effort to give me all the simple things that I used to ask of him. We have been trying to make it work for about 3 months now and I am really having a hard time trusting him. I am constantly having to tell myself that it is okay to let my guard down but the simple thought of going through what I have been through with him again makes me want to cry. A simple hug from him almost makes me cringe. I am so emotionally disconnected from him. However a small part of me says if he is sincerely trying I should give him the benefit of the doubt. Could I ever fall in love with him again?
Tags: 6 years, 7 months, dad, Fall In Love, Finished School, finishing school, girls, grad school, hard time, job, little girl, little girls, Live 105, princess, relationship, romance, separate rooms, simple thought, undergrad
