Hello, a year ago, i broke off a 3 year relationship. The breakup was pretty bad; lots of crying and lots of drama. Then I started dating this guy shortly after the break up (in few weeks, or maybe a month). That relationship lasted for 9 months and the break up was mutual; we are still good friends. So I am convinced that, that relationship was a rebound. Now, few weeks after this break up, i’m starting to date again…would you consider this a rebound too? Is it too early to date again, even though i have moved on emotionally?
Tags: 9 months, good friends, Hello, rebound, rebound relationships, relationship
It’s been about 9 months since I’ve been with my boyfriend he’s great and treats me the way anyone should be treated. Not to mention he is so gorgeous. Which makes me wonder sometimes why he’s with me when I have nothing more than average looks. Anyways…. I love him very much and he tells me the same everyday. But there are times where I feel like there is something wrong. I don’t know why but I sometimes get the feeling that he would leave me for someone else. I’ve told him a few times before that if he were to leave me it would be for someone better. And when I say better I mean physically and someone who has a better lifestyle than I do, because I grew up in a semi-impoverished background. And I feel like if I lose him that I wouldn’t be able to love again because I went from such a horrible relationship to a great one and it would just hurt me so much. I don’t know what to do and I know if I keep feeling like this that he will leave me. How can I supress this.
Another thing is I wanted to get a job and at the time we were living in separate dormitories in different locations. And I told him I wanted a job and he said there would be no point of him going to the dorms I was at. And now he is out looking for a job which leaves me to be confused. I know if he gets a job he’s never gonna have time for me or anything. And that doesn’t help me any. I’m just so confused and helpless in this.
Tags: 9 months, Background, dormitories, dorms, feelings, lifestyle, looking for a job, love, relationship
So me and my ex recently started talking, he just broke up with his recent gf but still "loves" her. we hung out this weekend and he tried kissing me! he says he does’nt have feelings fer me but that there is a possible way that he can get them back. and i want him back so much! i still have feelings for him after 9 months of being apart :/ help? what can i do to make him get feelings back? make him jealous? idk, im so confused :/
Tags: 9 months, Ex Boyfriend, feelings, gf, quot
Im 23 years old and I just went thru the toughest stage of my life, after been with the most amaizin man for 31/2 years he got killed in a motocycle accident. I took it very hard, since he was and still is the love of my life.. 4 months after his accident i decided to go out and try to smile.. I met someone that almost automatically called my attention, he was unique and very goofy, maybe thats what i needed all this time someone to make me smile.. we met at a bar and we danced all night long, towards the end he asked me for my phone numbers and even though to everyone alse i would say no.. To him i just had to.. After that we kept seen each other and getting to know each other, he had been thru a very bad brake up and i had lost my boyfriend. so in part we were helping eachother out.. after a couple of weeks of us been hanging around, i felt like i was catching feelings and i backed away – i was scared and plus i felt wrong because in my heart i felt like i had to be faithful to my boyfriend. he was catchin feelings for me to but since i backed off, he felt like he had to as well to not get hurt..
9 months have been since i last seen him – and i cant stop thinkin about him! i feel like we left somethin that could of been special, and at the same time i feel much better now and i understand that i have to move on and be happy.. the problem is i dnt know how to get to him.. i dont want to scare him off. since he problaly thinks i will reject him again. we have friends in common but we never hang around. Lately i cant have him off my mind and i dnt knw if the power of the mind is great but last week.. he called my best friend and after a long conversation with her. he finally asked her about me.. "tell her i said hi" to alot of people thats nothin but to me is.. "he is thinkin about me, he didnt have to ask"
Now the question is, what should i do?
Tags: 23 years, 4 months, 9 months, best friend, catching feelings, heart, love, Love Of My Life, Met, phone numbers, power of the mind, smile, somethin
he told me about this girl while we were in a "discussion" he said he loved her because she cared about him and was nice to him. anyways he started talking to her on face book. and he wants to go out to lunch with her. they haven’t even spoken for months, and hes been with me for 9 months, and they broke up when he was 15, hes now 19. i don’t know if i should we worried, but in the past when we’ve argued he wishes i was more nicer, and more appreciative. which i am but it seems like hes expecting so much of me.
Tags: 9 months, face book, first love, hes, lunch
