We’re both in highschool. We dated for about 8 months, but had a thing for a long time before that, and he’s my first love. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me 1 and a half months ago because he said he didn’t feel the same way about me and just wanted to be single, and also because at that time we were arguing a lot. He started drinking a lot now, and using drugs. He used to act like a complete dick to me after the breakup, saying that I was a waste of his time, and that he never loved me, so I told him that until he changed and started acting nice to me, we couldn’t be friends. So now he is nicer to me. Anyway, long story cut short, he phones me sometimes late at night now for no reason.. They’re reaaally long phonecalls sometimes, like 4 hours if they’re late at night. He always sounds sad, but he just says he’s really tired because it’s like 12/1 am when he phones. He usually talks about girls he’s met and stuff, but not really as much anymore, and always questions if I’ve done shit with guys. He always says he’s confused and doesn’t know what makes him happy anymore, and says that he misses being truly happy with someone he cares about. I asked if he missed me then, and he said ‘I do, but you only made me feel like that sometimes because of the arguing (we only started arguing a month before we broke up). We’ve only had one emotional talk about why we broke up, and it just led to apologies, and us telling eachother how much we care about eachother and such. He used to say he was over me, but now he says things like "I still have feelings for you, I havent moved on", and when he said it I responded with "I still love you", but he always tells me I don’t. He also says things like "Maybe in the future we’ll date again, but not now", or he’ll say "I bet you don’t even think or talk about me.." I don’t know, it just seems weird.. And I’ve become kind of interested in his friend, and he’s noticed I’ve started talking to him a lot, and that we gave eachother nicknames, so when I’m on the phone with my ex he bad mouths his friend, saying that his friend says bad things about me, and all the shit he’s done with girls recently. And he commented on the nicknames, and I said "Ahaha, are you jeaaalous?", and all he responded with was "Don’t even flatter yourself."
Like all of these things comming from his mouth, like all the feelings and stuff started from 2 weeks ago. I know this sounds like he just wants to have his cake, but not be monogomous, but do you think he’s sincere and wants me back? I’m so confused..

Tags: Act, Acting, apologies, dick, drugs, feelings, first love, Frie, Friends, girls, late at night, late night, Led, long time, Night Sounds, phonecalls, quot, Sad, Shit, Weird

ive had a thing with this guy and we go to different highschools but in the summer it was so perfect. sense highschool started weve grown farther apart but weve talked on and off and hes tried to see other girls but he always ended up coming back to me. he always says he gets caught up in highschool and its hard becuase he cant see me everyday, but he says he wants to be with me and i do want to be with him. he was talking to this girl and then on friday he came over to my friends house because she invited this guy over and he came unexpectidly. towards the end of the night he was acting so sweet to me and i would kind of ignore him just because everything and he would say "dont act like this your gonna make me cry" and he was telling me how pretty my eyes were and laying his head down on my chest and trying to get close to me. he texted me after that and told me he was confused and he told me about the other girl (i had already known but i acted like i didnt know) and he told me and my friend he didnt have the same feelings for her as he did for me. shes not very pretty at all and he told me i was alot prettier then her, thats besides the point cause looks dont matter. but anyway, i told him who ever makes him happier to be with them and he told me he would have to pick her becuase its easir because he sees her everyday. i know that they wont last long because shes really quit and shy. im just confused and i really like him alot, when im with him i feel like nothing else matters and i know he feels the same way. i jsut dont see why he has to be so stubborn. so what should i do? ignore him for a little while and wait for him to come back like he always does or what? i need suggestions or what you think about the whole situaton. thankyou!(: p.s. if i didnt already mention i really like him

Tags: Act, Acting, becuase, Ex Boyfriend, Ex Girl, feelings, Girl Friday, girls, highschools, nothing else matters, perfect sense

I know that I should play hard to get and act like i don’t need him.
But I just want some more personal tips from real life experiences instead of googling everything.

Tags: Act, life experiences, personal tips

I am 25 years old and I have been in love with the same boy for over 8 years now. I fell in love at 16 and have never fallen out. He was my first love, first everything, and we were in a relationship for 3 years, then on and off, and everything in between for a couple more years. I still talk to him every once in a while, and since he’s gotten a new girlfriend, I haven’t seen him in months. I cut off all contact with him a few months ago, because it hurt too bad to just be friends, but then I couldn’t stop thinking about him, and decided that I’d rather have him in my life as a friend then not in my life at all.
I thought I had moved on… I was in a serious long relationship from 2007-2009, and even had a child with that person, but we are no longer together. I have dated a few guys in between, but nothing has never compared to my first. I am still, and have always been deeply, deeply in love with my first.
I am having a terrible time coping and dealing with the fact that he is in love with his current girlfriend, who he has talked about marrying. I try to act happy for him, because we are good friends and will always support each other and be happy for one another. I don’t think he still has the same feelings for me as I do for him, so that makes it hard for me to express how I feel about him, and also because he is in a relationship and I feel it would be inappropriate for me to have the "I am still in love with you" talk with him now.
Truth is, I cry myself to sleep every single night over him, and don’t remember the last day I didn’t shed tears over my heartbreak and how much I miss him and long for the past when we were together. I have tried to move on, accept the fact that that was then and this is now, but I can’t. I feel like he has a huge chunk of my heart and I am so incomplete. All I want is him. We have not been together in over 4 years now, just good friends, and I feel like 4 years should be plenty of time for these feelings to die down, but it really feels as though my pain gets worse every day. I don’t know what to do anymore. They say time heals all wounds, but this pain is not going away. Will it ever?

Tags: 3 years, 8 years, Act, broken heart, chunk, Contact, couple more years, Express, feelings, first love, good friends, heart, heartbreak, new girlfriend, quot, relationship, Shed, sleep, truth

So..he broke up with me for another girl. but he told me it was because my parents didn’t know. but now my parents are ok with it but different story he already made up his mind so that doesnt matter. Anyways:) we have all the same friends so i see him all the time but i don’t know how to act around him. I really want him back but ya, just dont know how to act or what to say. any suggestions?

Tags: Act, different story, Ex Boyfriend, parents, Ya