We dated back and forth for 4 yrs. He finally broke up with me when I was 6 months pregnant of his child. He contact me every now and then to see how I was doing, My baby is 2 months now and still calling me. But he doesn’t touch the getting back together part or anything that says that he still have feelings for me. I feel stupid after talking to him because I act nice to him and giving clues to ask me to see each other.
People have told me to ignore him and not being friends with him but we have a child together and he wants to be involved in her life; besides I think I’m still into him, so it’s impossible to do that. or it isn’t. What would you do in my place. Please I need help.

Tags: Act, being friends, Contact, desire, feelings, Stupid, T Touch

My ex boyfriend asked me if I wanted to have lunch with him. I said yes but I am too sick right now, so it will be in a few weeks.

He broke up with me 6 months ago. We weren’t friends after but I think… he cares about me and..yea…

He knows I still love him. I told him two weeks ago that I’ll wait for him till I can, but I wasn’t begging him at all. He said he can’t be friends with me and he erased my number. So yes I respected his choice. I didn’t bother him afterward.

Soon someone told me he’s in a relationship with someone. It hurts but that was when he emailed me about the lunch appointment.

I don’t want to ruin his relationship at all even though I love him. I am just afraid that he will say " oh well, Sung, you gotta move on seriously. I have a girlfriend" I get easily hurt, so I don’t wanna hear it from him again even though i do know it. Plus I want to act mature toward him and I don’t wanna look desparate.

How can I be ready so I won’t get hurt a lot and how should I behave at the lunch? I just have no experience having other ex’s before:(

Tags: Act, appointment, cares, Ex Boyfriend, girlfriend, Gotta Move, love, lunch, quot, relationship, Ruin

I studied for 4 months in Rome, Italy, from August-December. I broke up with my boyfriend about 2 months ago (October) because I was discovering a lot about myself, and realized that our relationship was going NOWHERE and I just wasn’t very interested in him. Well, I returned 2 weeks ago, and he’s been talking about hanging out with me since he hasn’t seen me in nearly 5 months. I agreed to meet him for lunch. He seems to think that once I see him, all my feelings will come back for him, when I know for a *fact* that they won’t because they never were really there, you know?

How should I act? Is it wrong for me to see him?

Tags: 4 months, 5 months, Act, Ex Boyfriend, feelings, lunch, relationship, rome italy

Me and my ex haven’t always gotten along, but whenever I try to make friendly conversation he turns it around to a rude conversation. I don’t see if we are past all of our problems and he is over it why he needs to be bitter still. Any ideas?

Tags: Act, Ex Boyfriend

Messy breakup in June, together 5 yrs, minimal contact after breakup til now. We had sex this past weekend and he didn’t call til yesterday to see if I wanted to get something to eat. I’ve heard many mixed ways on how to act…I want him back but I also want him to want me back, please mature answers only. I’m 26 he’s 27

Tags: Act, Dinner Tonight, Mature, Messy