Please Serious Answers Only, I am in need of some real and honest help.

My boyfriend broke up with me 2 days before Christmas. He says he is not happy with me, and we are not meant to be. I know he loves me, and he even said he still does, but it’s somthing he has to do.

We met on Jan 1st to talk and swap things. I wrote him a heartfelt letter and read it to him. He really had no emotion at all. I totally ruined my chances with him because I begged for him to not leave me, but I felt that it was the last chance I would ever see/talk to him at all. I was devastated.
We agreed to be friends, but i told him i just dont know if i can do that.

I have been really calm about everything lately, we casually talk on aim and hes actually pretty nice to me. But then yesterday somthing was really bothering me, so I brought it up. He was fine with the first statement, but when I said somthing else he totally ignored what I said. I feel that I just ruined my chances of ever talking to him again! I went ahead and apologized over message and I told him that I agree with the breakup, i know it’s for the best. I even went to say that I had some good news that I would like to share with him sometime…(which I thought would spark interest).
But he didnt respond to the message. So then I said " Well im going to get off here, have a good day" . I waited a minute and still no response. Now I feel completely stupid!

Did I ruin my chances of getting him back with that message I sent him? What do I do know? Do i just totally ignore him and wait to see if he ever says anything? Now I feel that I lost all hope, I know we are meant to be together, and we were even getting along this past weekend…what the heck do I do know? All hope is gone!

Have any of you went through breakups and got your ex back? If so, HOW?

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Things aren’t going so well with my girlfriend right now. We’re not communicating, talking seems…well…we don’t have the hour long conversations of past, my friend is telling me that shes worried but when I ask her if something is up she doesn’t tell me. Basically we live two towns away from eachother and usually talk over aim and cell. Recently there was a death in my house (family member who lived with me) then we kinda lost touch…I’d love to try to bring the relationship back to normal but it doesn’t look good…any advice on how to end this safely without making it a war between our two towns would be much appreciated.

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The source cited is Daily mail in UK.

I noticed a question on so called "High flying " wives dumping househusbands or rather dull husbands who are devoted fathers .

Is this what was the aim in the end for equality???

How can a woman like this talk of responsible equality ?How can men be blamed for for dumoing dull wives who are devoted mothers then?

How can she walk away with the kids when the man is the one taking care as a househusband and should be given the rights that are given to a houswewife in case of divorce?

If a career woman dumps a man who takes care of the house and faimly because they had an agreement to begin with now dumps him because she wants excitement then why cant men do the same?

Poooh Poohing this by saying that this is about celebrities is not an answer please.
The source is:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=467390&in_page_id=1879

Juniper dear lady your inputs are greatly appreciated but i still cannot beleive that this could be an increasing trend when women have just acheived equality especially in the work force and NOW THIS!!!!
Hiuchus you are not answering the question how come a career woman gets the same rights as a housewife in a divorce while a househusband does not?

And if men do this does that justify women doing this and then say women are better or wronged all the time?
Heartoffire Familial need did you say?

In that case a woman can dump a devoted father just because he no longer excites her and you think that is intellectual.

Where was intellect when he was taking of the house faimly and kids ???

And that means a man can also dump a devoted mother if she no longer satisfies him intellectually as you say?

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a 10th grade dates a 7th grade he’s known for years and were great friends before they dated. after a week they break up. he blocks her on aim and even ignores her myspace comments/messages. he practically doesn’t want her in his life. right after his breakup he dates this girl he has only known for 2 days. i think he’s trying to get over the pain since he’s not the type of guy to do those things. do you think i’m right?

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