we dated 3 years ago.. we were young and we were immature.. right now she likes me again and wants to be friends with benefits. she says she is not ready to date because she is emotionally not right, not from me but from her last bf that treated her badly, we have been talking and spending alot of time together and we get along great. i just need a good plan to get her to take a risk an date me

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I like her alot and she told her friends that she thinks im hot. I was at a party and she was there too. It seemed like everywhere i went she would come there eventually. Then a group of girls started dancing and she took me by the hand and we started grinding. Now she keeps talking to me on facebook and talks to me everytime she sees me. But the thing is, her and her boyfriend broke up after a year and she took it hard. Shes still not over him. Any advice?

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me and her have been togheter for about 5 years, the reason we broke up the first time was because she caught me cheatin on her. we were seperated for about a year then got back togheter again. not so long ago i did the same mistake again and we have been seperated for about six months. i just dont get her cause one month she wants to be with me then the next she doesnt. i dont know if she is just playing with me or what. but i really do love her alot. when i ask her if she wants to come back with me she says she dont know yet to give her time. i live out of town so i dnt know what she might be doin back at home. also we have a 5 yr old daughter that is stuck in the middle of this. so please, what can i do to fix this?

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So me and my ex liked each other for about 4 months. After an argument over why we hardly ever got to see eachother she cut off alot of contact and said she wanted to be friends for now we didnt hate eachother it was just a sort of its the best thing for now move. So we kept talking daily as friends but not near as much. After about 2 weeks she ends up dating her 6 year best friend. I asked her what happend and she said she didnt know. she said it wasnt about me or how i looked or treated her or my personality that it just happend. I was upset but i told her i have no hard feeling that shes with him and that i wish them the best of luck.

Whats weird though is daily if she sees me on facebook she’ll ask me how ive been and whats new and just casual talk as friends. its been 6 days since theyve been together and she still talks to me. But whats weird though is that she didnt change her text signature to his name like she did mine first day we got together. And she doesnt post smiley faces on his facebook like she did mine. Could this just be a rebound relationship for her? Im pretty sure she still does have SOME feelings for me. But the signs ive seen is that she doesnt like him as much as she did me when we got together. And im pretty sure that i wasnt her rebound relationship when we got together. the last guy she talked to was 3 months before me and tried to use her for sex so she kicked him to the door.

Does it sound like shes in a rebound relationship? Im ready to move on but im going to still try to limit contact with her. She ALWAYS initiiates it. My current plan is to start talking to other girls and continue to try to give my ex time while i search for someone. If she comes back before i find anyone ill take her because i still like her. But if i find someone im completely moving on. What does it sound like shes up too? And whats the best thing to do to get her back? Talk to her? Be a close friend? Use no contact? What should i do?

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So me and my ex girlfriend were together for 6 months and it seemed to me as if nothing could ever get us apart. Untill about 3 days ago she just break up with me. I found out from one of her best friends that she said she was tired of my shit. I guess by what her friends says I was treating her right whenever I felt like it. Although I cant recall treating her bad. So i tried asking her out and tell me the reasons why she broke up, I even promised to change that she would never have to regret going out with me. Yet I always got a no from her. This is our myspace convo
t a no. and i know we been through alot but it has to come to an end.!. nd stop trying to kiill yrself its pissing mi off.!relax. srri but i have a feeling that we were goin to break up anyway. srri. ndit a final no.

—————– Original Message —————–
From: From this day on, Im a brand new person
To: cOokiE-cHip ;]
Date: Jul 14, 2009 2:00 AM
Subject:

is there any chance of us being back together? Yes or NO tell me..
** reply from her **
it a no. and i know we been through alot but it has to come to an end.!.relax. srri but i have a feeling that we were goin to break up anyway. srri. ndit a final no.

people please help because I have such a bond with her that me looking at other girls just makes me brake into tears. I love my ex so much that I cant possibly know where to find my place. At work I always think about her at home, outside..everywhere..at night I cry my eyes out. And theres no way I can forget her

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