How do i get my ex back.. the first time we broke up was 2 months ago because of his brother &nd i thought we’d never go back out again and i was so depressed. so he ask me out last month and i said yeah but watever because i kind’ve moved on because i was talkin to someone else at the moment. then i broke up with him because me n my ex bearly talked so i told him i had a new boyfriend.. I wasn’t worng but now im hurting. it seems he doesnt care anymore about me because he’s always talking and flirting with other girls in frnt of me. I find it funny but i know its not. &nd i want to ask him back out on Monday in school before we go on summer vacation so we can keep in contact.
:’( should i ask him back out??? and how???? ( im a female )

Tags: amp, bearly, brother, Ex Boyfriend, frnt, girls, new boyfriend, summer vacation, worng

Both guys are my ex’s, and I’m not over either of them. Guy #1 is not around right now (rehab & school), but he says he still loves me. I have no contact with him at the moment, but his mother tells me everything he says about me. I trust him with everything I have. We broke up about 5 months ago, but only because he couldn’t handle a long distance relationship at the time. He will be back home by the end of this year, and I can’t wait to see him and get to know him again. Guy #2 is living in my town. I talk to him often. He tells me he loves me and that he would love to be with me again. He was also my first, so that is another reason this is tough for me. We broke up almost a year ago, and for the past few months, he’s been trying to get me back. I know I have the option to choose neither of them, but I feel like ill be losing more if I do. I tried listening to my heart, and it told me guy #1, but now I’m not sure. Both guys are incredibly amazing and sweet to me. I just want another person’s opinion about my situation. I know a lot of people go through this problem. Thanks in advance!

Tags: 5 months, amp, Distance Relationship, heart, long distance relationship, love, problem thanks, thanks in advance, two guys

We’ve been getting together over the past 2 months. We share a house with a few friends & she told me she’s not looking for a serious relationship. She’s a nice girl, attractive and could easily pick up another guy but she doesn’t. In fact we went out a couple of weeks ago & she said "I want to be with you without feelings". Then she opened up a little saying she’s afraid (last boyfriend..she loved him but he wanted a child, she didn’t as she’s only 24 so he ended it). That was a year ago & they were together for a year. I decided to travel alone for a couple of weeks, even though we had a loose plan to go together.  Just got back & we went with friends to a club, she seemed a little distant with me, avoiding me. SHe left with another girl & 2 guys then arrived home 1 hr later & told me nothing happened. I asked her why she avoids me in the house. She said the truth is that she has only loved one guy her ex, she gave it once & can’t again. It was v emotional for me. She wanted me to look into her eyes at that moment & I couldn’t. Anyhow she was a bit drunk (she drinks 3 times a week, sometimes vomits & one time urinated in my room). Then we made love, she looks at me, tells me how goodlooking I am & how the sex was so good & she said that she does feel something.

Tags: amp, Club 115, Fall In Love, feelings, Last Boyfriend, love, nice girl, serious relationship, truth

call me crazy but i have a problem. my boyfriend and I were really good friends. then we started going out. and after around 3 months he told my best friend that he loved me. and i already knew i loved him. and at the 4th month we had our first kiss. the reason why he waited so long is because he said he wanted to go slow and not rush things because he didnt want to loose me. its now 6 months that we have been together. 2 of my friends think ever since we started going out we both have changed, and his bestfriend wants us to break up because of it. also in the last month too was kind of hard for me: his parents got in the way of our relationship, he flirted with this girl like crazy right infront of my eyes, & because he had done something that almost ruined our relationship totally. I told him it would be awhile before i trusted him again when it happened. recently though he hasnt talked to me as much on the phone and he has stopped texting me. alot of girls seem to like him too. he tellls me he loves me and all but can i really believe it? and worse i really am in love with him. i am so lost and confused and its even worse to think about if he might break up with me because hes getting tired of us or something. and i know that if he is he really doesnt love me at all. so i figured if i could make him love me more or even get him to love me or care about me more maybe i could fix everything. because i dont want to just sit around and iqnore all that could be coming, especially if i had a chance to fix it or change it. So tell me what should i do?

Tags: amp, best friend, bestfriend, Fall In Love, first kiss, girls, good friends, infront, kiss, love, parents, relationship, rush

i am interested in a guy who just got out of an 11 month relationship with his girl… he insists they are completely over.
i do believe him, shes a (unt & cheater
i know hes interested in me too, we’ve talked about it.
should i go for it? or are rebound relationships doomed to begin with?
he’s 21.
and i like him, a lot. im just not ready for heartbreak and such…

Tags: amp, cheater, heartbreak, rebound relationships, relationship, unt

my boyfriend of a yr & a half broke up with me this past week & the week before. the week before he decided he wanted to work on things.

i’ve been trying to not contact him but i failed & called him the other day & he asked how have you been doing babe & talking to me. i went to see him at his work yesterday & asked if he would get back together w/ me & we could do things slowly.

he still loves me but we were fighting alot. i am likely to see him at a mutual friends birthday tonight. i wrote him a letter but don’t know if i should give it to him, since i cried my eyes out in front of him at his work.

he said hes just been focusing on himself for now…hes not interested in being with anyone else & hopes i don’t do the same. i told him i can’t wait forever & put my life on hold. our relationship was good when we didn’t fight. i love him so much still.

i want us to get back together before Valentines day. i want this badly because last year this time, we weren’t together. he had broken up w/ me after 2 months, but since then we’ve been back together since last march 08.

what should i do to make this happen? i’m just so heartbroken.

Tags: alot, amp, babe, friends birthday, mutual friends, relationship, Valentines Day

I’ve been separated for over a year from husband, he was recently laid off lost insurance coverage. I have outstanding bill with doctor so he refuses to see me, the emergency room runs the same tests and says go see your doctor- So, what I am asking; Does anyone know of Care Treatment facilities that may treat me? I want to go to work! I think I’ve been given a death sentence with no hope. I’ve also been dating a guy (I’ve had a crush on for 28yrs-Iwas15 the first time I saw his beautiful green eyes-and perfectly chiseled face-but never told anyone until this past November when we crossed paths again-as we have thru the yrs-and he turned around to give me a very warm firm hug and invited me to dinner with his friends-he doesn’t want to believe I am…ill and his people are telling him to drop me because there is "something" wrong with her. I feel like he should too-I have nothing to offer him but pain and misery and loss eventually death in my heart I believe he loves me and would do anything he could to help IF there IS any help out there) I have three children 22,11,8-&5yr old granddaughter, that I have been in so much pain and NO energy But my mind says GO!!! so much to say and so many questions-I have looked up pancrepancreatic I’ve seen some surgical precedures and have heard one doctor say if they get to it too late the surguries will not prolong life expectancy-only removal of the painful dead cells that block the ducts that secrete the enzymes, but with no car,job, money, insurance All I have is God. and I’ve been a terrible Christian, making promises with all good intent and falling short every time one thing or another I do not deserve a miraculous healing from God but I do need One (or about a million little miracles) to pull something together so my son can have a chance at life-he is mamas’ "BOY" he loves his mom and wants to go with me when I go-He can play piano, drums, guitar and praises God-Loves Jesus but the friends he has do not go to church my estranged husband refused to pray with me or surrender his lustful greed (I"LL just stop there) he was not a positive influence for either of us, I have regrets I got away last year-because I wanted to take one more chance at having a good life and pursue happiness less hatred around me more happy -doesn’t look like that is going to happen. How can I find out if anyone has an insurance policy on me? I am curious as to how from sept to now I am in so much pain-agony words cannot describe-I am sorry I am not practiced at the art of short n sweet and keep emotion out of it-I have no clue where to turn, the hospital told me to see my doctor, the doctor wants his money (I don’t blame him I just need to get to work so I can pay him

Tags: amp, chiseled face, Dating, dead cells, death sentence, drums, emergency room, enzymes, god loves, granddaughter, green eyes, insurance, insurance coverage, life expectancy, Lost, miracles, miraculous healing, mom, money insurance, pain and misery, Pancreatitis, Promises, Room 101, Room Visit, surguries, time one

This guy works with me. I fell in love with him a long time ago. I dream of him sometimes and smile constantly when he calls me. Maybe he doesn’t undersand. I never wanted to tell him and look dumb.

Last week he wrote me messages saying he hard I want to date him. I avoided the question and asked him if he wanted to. he said "sure so do you" I didn’t say yeah, cause I got afraid.. but told him I thought he was sexy and we should hang outside of work. He said sounds good. After that though, he hasn’t spoke to me. I’ve tried to text him 2 times, but I’m not going to anymore. I don’t chase guys.

I feel like him asking me about dating was just to play with my mind and feelings. My heart is pretty much broken now. I just want to forget about him & the feelings I’ve developed.

How do you move on from someone you work with & have to speak to daily? How do I get him to view me as a strong woman? Did I do something wrong or what kind of game was he playing?
I’m in love with him. I have been for a year. He gives me these huge butterflies that my ex fiancee or nobody ever has.

But I want to move on since he’s no longer talking to me for no reason. It’s hurting me.

Tags: amp, broken heart, butterflies, Chase, feelings, fiancee, hasn, heart, kind of game, long time, love, smile, strong woman

And don’t hand me that protecting marriage crap either. If you want to save marriage, ban divorce!

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=A9FJui4.UhtF8ngBzQHsy6IX?qid=20060927211016AAt7Equ

During my last post Christians complained I was judging them by the actions of a few. Or they claimed that ‘those people’ are not true Christians–funny that’s not how ‘those people’ tell it. Yet, Christians pass judgment on gays, Muslims and Jews, etc ad nausem all the time.

The only difference is when someone gay does something stupid…they are ridiculed by they gay community. Religious people greet stupidity with silent approval and allow it to continue in their name.

So if I’m not supposed to judge you on the actions of a few and we really do have freedom of religion, what makes it okay for you to do it to me or an entire community? Why do you feel so righteous when you vote away potential privileges for others?
papaof whatever….I don’t live that far away from dry ridge…don’t make me come up their and smite your pc TRY ANSWERING WITH SOMETHING OTHER THAN CUT & PASTE FOR A CHANGE.

Tags: amp, crap, divorce, entire community, freedom, freedom of religion, gay community, gay marriage, Gay People, Gay Person, Gays, jews, Judgment, marriage, marriage ban, Marriage Divorce, muslims, privileges, question index, stupidity, true christians, Vote, yahoo, ylt

Im 29 and engaged to my fiance who i have been with for 8yrs, engaged for 2, she is 26 and had our first baby in december. I am crazy about her and cant imagine my life without her or my son. She comes from a very dysfunctional family who are alcoholic’s & many of their marriages have ended from cheating etc, they basically had to raise themselves, she never wanted to be like them but growing up she told me she was very rebellious. She dated this certain guy when she was 14 and they are still friends now, they broke up when she was 17 and i was told from some of my fiances friends that he was crazy in love with her and he was her first sexual partner, was always hands on her etc. I only started to get to know her when they dated and when they had broken up. I told her 2yrs ago that i couldn’t stand him & his cockiness’s she agreed to remove him from her life but from the stories her friends told me i questioned her which led to arguments and she eventually became friends with him again, I got really pissed off with her and she told me that i have to trust her with him that they are just friends. I can see how he looks at her and i overheard him tell some guys that he never stopped loving her, never fully got over her when she dumped him & that she was the best he had,. He is very arrogant & a player but seems to still be protective of her which he always has been, I want to punch him when he gets too close to her or touches her arm in passing, checks out her ass or when she is sitting down and he leans over the table talking to her like he did when they dated has a smirk on his face when he looks in my direction, i even hate when he holds my kid. I work shift hours as im a firefighter & I love her so much but deep down from her families past having bad reputation’s and the history they have together & i hate myself for saying it, i don’t know if i fully trust her & if she knew that she would definitely leave to make me make up my mind. I cant help feeling this way and its driving me crazy. Any advice?

Tags: Alcoholic, amp, bad reputation, Checks, cockiness, crazy in love, dysfunctional family, fiance, fiancee, Fiances, just friends, love, Mature, relationship, sexual partner, smirk

I met this guy & we’re teammates in the call center we’re working for.He’s cute, charming,witty,funny,was a High School teacher,Computer Science grad,a musician(he’s a bass player)& a hopeless romantic.The prettiest girl in our team even had a crush on him(she told me that since we’re close friends).But then,i never expected that someone like him would show interest to a shy & simple girl like me.He was so friendly to me that he always wants to talk to me,very caring & sweet to me.I was even amazed that when we exchanged seats, he sat next to me.He’s great to talk to & he talks to me about his fave music,asked my birthdate,where i live,other basic info,my cell number & even asked me to be the lead vocalist for the band that he will be forming.He said that he was sure i was the right person since they heard me sang in our training class(we’re still on the 2nd week of our training) Now,i just couldn’t imagine that this guy would adore me! He made me feel like the most beautiful, interesting & admirable girl in the world. His friends would subtlety tease me whether i have a date & i said no and his friends would look at him. My other female friend whom i told bout this told me that this guy would steal glances at me.I felt that this is what i have been waiting for bec. i never had a boyfriend ever(I’m still 21; he’s 23 & single).
But there’s a big problem: He smokes & drinks. You may raise your eyebrows & say "So What?" well, it’s bec. i have had enough domestic abuse in my family bec. my dad had a smoking & drinking problem. I even live separately now from my dad after i graduated College coz i just couldn’t take all the garbage & wastedness that my dad becomes whenever he was drunk.He just can’t quit. The guilt,anger & shame over our situation was too much.Bec. of my dad’s alcoholism, my mom left us even when i was still 6 years old.But i still love my dad,he’s the sweetest guy when sober but very emotional & argumentative when drunk. So now, i am so so afraid that my history would repeat itself & this time i’m afraid it’s going to be my own family that someday i will have. I don’t want to be judgmental, i just can’t help being careful & wise before making any stupid decision that i would regret for the rest of my life. It really confuses me bec. i am starting to fall for this guy & would actually want to go out with him. But the relationship i want to build with him if ever he asks me out will be a serious one & that someone i would consider marrying. But now i am struggling with so much fear in my heart, it’s so hard trying to deny that i am starting to fall for him bec. i don’t want to get hurt & find out what if he is just like my father who cares about his drinking more than his family,wife & kids. Now, i can’t help imagining about my fears and future regrets in my mind & i picture myself ten years from now:a battered wife,haggardly taking care of her little kids & here’s this guy whom i fell in love comes home drunk every night & fights with me alot & that he’s jobless or couldn’t find a decent job & he had no money but has money for his drinking sprees. I know i am a bit overboard but for me love is a choice not just a feeling or else i would end up being the victim stuck in a dysfunctional family line the rest of my life.I prayed to God about this that He will lead me the right way. I badly need some good advice from you guys…i don’t want to make the same mistakes all over again that my parents did that they ended up separated,it really is not a happy thing…I want to love but i don’t want to risk if it’s not worth it in the first place…Your opinion is very much appreciated & will help me realize many things before its too late…tnx
pardon if my question is bit long.Btw,i will still observe and know how often he smokes and drinks and figure out if he’s addicted to it or not.:)

Tags: 6 years, alcoholism, amp, bass player, call center, close friends, computer science, domestic abuse, Drinker, eyebrows, Fall In Love, fave music, female friend, girl in the world, guilt, high school teacher, Met, Musician, prettiest girl, simple girl, Smoker, subtlety, teacher computer, teammates, vocalist

and, is it the same? I made myself get over my boyfriend of 7 years last year in about 6 months. Then, he got his stuff together & we are back together, for about 6 months now, but it doesn’t feel like love anymore (on my end); he treats me much better, and I know he loves me, but once you fall out of love, can you really ever fall in love with that person again?

Tags: amp, love

Im just got dumped. And all because he liked someone else. So how do you mend a broken heart [not literally of course] because i can’t get my mind off of him && i don’t know what to do.

Tags: amp, broken heart, How Do You Mend A Broken Heart

im really really sad. my bf broke up with me with no explanation why. all he told me was that we arent working out. i still cant think of why he left me though. i really did love him, which makes me sad on why he left me. i dont wanna cry about though, but tears do come down. idk how to deal with it. i dont even want to LOOK at him anymore. i ignore him. i have this one friend & she says i should get revenge. but i decieded not to because ill seem desperate & i dont want him back anymore. he didnt deserve anyways. but i still cant stop thinking about him. how should i go about this? okay well another question:
should i get revenge or just forget about him, what do i do?
i appreciate anybodys advice & words of wisdom =)

Tags: Advice, amp, bf, love, revenge, Wisdom, words of wisdom

My B/F of just almost 8 yrs is now at the end. We have a home together & he wants to own it by himself. He still wanted me to be a roommate, but couldn’t offer how he feels for me beyond that (love,girlfriend etc). I still love him, but made the choice to move out since he won’t commit after all of this time & wants us financially separtated from the house with bought together. It was a very hard decision, but the right thing. It’s not fair for me if he can’t decide what kind of relationship he wants. He is bitter (which I expected), when I gave him my decision not to stay. Although I spoke w/him prior about this & said I needed the respect on this choice, especially since he didn’t leave much for me after wanting me separated from our house. He said he would respect, and now when it’s really happening, he isn’t. I had really hoped we could stay involved, because I still have feelings. I know I deserve more and many say this. How do I get beyond??

Tags: amp, F 111, feelings, girlfriend, love, relationship, roommate

I love my ex & me & him have not talked in a while, but since February, we’ve had a little click. Now all of a sudden, I’ve fallen completly in love with him & he seems to be falling out cuz he thinks that I just want him for sex or something but how can I get him to like/love me again & how can I prove myself?

Tags: amp, love

Anybody know how to?

Why is it that most women are so sensitive & fall for the wrong guys who end up taking advantage of them.

How does she break herself free from this kind of guy?

Why do the good women fall prey to these bad guys?

Is it too much to ask for a real, loving, truthful, genuine guy these days?

Serious answers only, share your experience, what you’ve learned from it & how you managed to move on.

Tags: 100 Women, amp, bad guys, broken heart, Fall Prey, prey, wrong guys

First group: M&D, still trying… need advice on surviving wounds and arranging new strategies. no flirting allowed in this section.
Second group: M&D, given up… need advice on getting out and recovering. people encouraged to email each other with pick up lines.

Tags: amp, Divorce Section, Groups, marriage, Marriage Divorce, second group, wounds

Hi everybody. i am a male newly married, and i am facing some intimate issues in my relationship with my wife. She is a very hot woman and she wants me all the time which i can not afford. we make love sometimes more than 3 times a day EVERYDAY. and honestly it’s killing me day after day, it making me very cold. and she does not understand this even when i explain to her. at night when it is 9 or 10 o’clock she always takes me in her hands to bed with the excuse of helpinh her to sleep and i know she just want to make sex. i can not stay at night watching TV or doing something to enjoy my time and in the morning she wakes me up by touching my sensual part just to make love again and the worse thing i am not attracted to her body.
anyone has an advise ? please i am in a critical situation.
Hi everybody. i am a male newly married, and i am facing some intimate issues in my relationship with my wife. She is a very hot woman and she wants me all the time which i can not afford. we make love sometimes more than 3 times a day EVERYDAY. and honestly it’s killing me day after day, it making me very cold. and she does not understand this even when i explain to her. at night when it is 9 or 10 o’clock she always takes me in her hands to bed with the excuse of helpinh her to sleep and i know she just want to make sex. i can not stay at night watching TV or doing something to enjoy my time and in the morning she wakes me up by touching my sensual part just to make love again and the worse thing i am not attracted to her body.
anyone has an advise ? please i am in a critical situation.
this is making us argue so much. she refuses toys & movies, she even don’t let me watch TV if there is nice women on the show. example: the biggest loser…
This is making us argue so much. she refuses toys & movies, she even don’t let me watch TV if there is nice women on the show. example: the biggest loser…

Tags: amp, biggest loser, Clock, critical situation, excuse, Hot 105, Hot 97, Hot Wife, hot woman, intimate issues, making love, nice women, relationship, sleep, toys, Wakes, watching tv

Hubby works a lot & then he goes to a garage to work on cars almost every nite. I have tlkd to him about this b4 and he blames me for everything. Tells me the kids dont like him b/c of me, we are broke b/c of me, our marriage sux b/c of me, I feel that sometimes I am at the point to where there is nothing he can do to make it btr, but I dont want to give up on us either. He use to be so attentive to me and kids and now there is nothing. We went thru some bad times last sumr, he wldnt come home until 4-5 in the a.m. or not at all, and of course nothing wld be going on with him, now he tells me to get over it and I am having a hard time with that. I am scared to be myself around him for some reason. I have always been loyal to him, sure I have done dumb things I am not perfect, but living everyday knowing that someone blames you for everything and I mean everything breaks u down and its hard to deal with. I dont want a divorce but what can I do? I am just scared & hurt. Advice??

Tags: amp, b4, btr, cars, divorce, dumb things, hard time, hubby, M 111, marriage, Rope

My wife of over 20 years has renewed her Love interest in a guy from her past. She told him that she would return to him, but she never did, when she married me. We have 2 kids. She went back, and made the mistake of seeing the guy 6 months ago, and now she is deeply in Love with him again. Webcams, emails, and phonecalls back & forth every day, and if I mention it to her I am an intruding security guard! What can I do to get her back to me as her only love again? She is already planning the rest of her life and for them to be together and it terrifies me! I Love her today as much as the day we first married! PLEASE HELP ME before it’s too late!!

Tags: amp, love interest, Love Triangle, mistake, security guard

Can someone else comes along & heal a broken heart from a long past relationship of the seperation of death’s love.

Tags: amp, broken heart, love, relationship, seperation

Ok we dated for two months & a month of it was long distance because he goes to college like an hour away & we completely trusted eachother! We never fought, ever! The other month of our relationship he was home for Christmas break and let’s just say he took my v card but he wasn’t a virgin..and on new years eve he wanted to go to a party where he went to college & asked me to go but i said no i wanted to stay home with my family & friends..so he comes back the next day and says we need to talk and says he seen his ex at the party and it brought back feelings and it wasnt fair to me and i was completely broken. They broke up because they fought nonstop and never really were happy I guess you could say but they were eachothers first so he says he loves her. A month after he breaks up with me there dating and its been like a week into it now and they are already fighting and i was talking to him tonight and he told me why they were fighting basically because he doesnt trust her and its long distance for them too and he told me that he knows he screwed me over but he loves her with his whole heart and no matter how much shit she puts him through he will always be stuck with her even if he does deserve better..and he told me i know you wouldnt do something like that but im with her and its not going to change..will he ever realize that he does deserve better and that he can actually trust me and want to be with me again???
They dated over 2 years ago and she just got out of a 2 year relationship is she just using him for a rebound??

Tags: amp, christmas, feelings, Guess, long distance, new years eve, rebound, relationship, Stay Home, Virgin, whole heart, Years Eve

K well like many out there i got stupid a year ago & had to take a Payday loan out to Survive, Well now im paying for it big time. Now i got several payday loans…& i cant keep this up.
I learned my lesson But now i need to find a way to free myself.

Im reacently Married & this has become a burden on both of us, If you read some of my Other questions you can see my Marriage is breaking apart, & the biggest cause are the fact we have few reasorces because of these Payday loans.
Now I have already tooken many Steps:

#1 I have already Closed my Old bank account to keep then from Withdrawing fees.

#2 i have changed my cellphone number to stop them from duing the annoying calls BUT i still try to keep in touch to update.

#3 I have TRIED to takeout a Loan with my Bank to pay these off but BOTH my wifes AND my Credit are Crap.

#4 i have repetedly Called them trying to set up a payment plan With them but there Refusing to work with me or AT LEAST work with my budget.
#5 i have basiclly completely Defualted on at LEAST 3 of them. so i can TRY to pay the others but our Budget STILL wont let me pay MORE then the fee’s & charges.

#6 we have set a budget & sold EVERYTHING we can afford to sell or can sell<including painfully enough pawning our Wedding rings.>

#7 We BOTH have tried looking for a 2nd job but neather of us can find one. to make things worse our current jobs have DRASTICLY cut our pay AND hours back.

#8 we both live in Texas, & i have TRIED to Reaserch texas laws but i dont understand all of it.

#9 I WAS thinking of Bankruptcy, Because we do NOT own a car or a house We rent from her In-laws, We have NO kids, Were both young in are 20’s, Her Parents WILL NOT help us & I my Family gone…
If i do file Bankruptcy i want to do it in a way that will NOT involve my wife in any way!….If i can. Mostly i dont know how to nor do i have the money to File Bankruptcy.

can ANYONE help us consolidate? or know a way we can conslidate these loans?….Im so lost & WE NEED help….I knwo what i did was stupid in the past, I have learned my lesoon about payday loans, Now i Just want to escape & get a chance. PLEASE HELP..any Adivce wil lbe helpful.
Please i dont need ANYMORE payday loans, I need help Do not Answer this if your solution is another payday loan!! or a loan that i cant get. Again i have crap Credit

Tags: amp, bankruptcy, big time, budget, cellphone number, crap, job, jobs, lt, marriage, money, neather, Old Bank, own a car, parents, payday loan, payday loans, texas amp, Tooken, wedding rings, wifes

Hello everyone….

I’m posting this question because I’ve reached
a real low point in my life.

I’ll be 42 in July and…. I am desperate to get
married & have children.

Some background…..

Had a serious relationship from age 23 to 26.
Mutual (and friendly) break-up….. We both just
grew apart.

Dated another guy from 27 to 28. Liked him,
thought he was a nice guy, but was never actually
in love with him. We parted ways, again on friendly
terms.

Dated yet another guy from 29 to 30. He, too, was
nice, but he had been married before, and he told me
he didn’t want to have any more children.

So I broke up with him, too.

And now….

From age 31 to this day (10 years later), I have
NOT been in a romantic relationship….

(My, but the time has gone fast!!)

I’ve tried just about everything….

— asking friends if they know anyone for me

— going hiking with the Sierra Club singles group

— taking golf lessons, sailing lessons, tennis lessons
(mostly other WOMEN there, looking for a man, too!!)

— trying online dating sites (match.com, eharmony, etc.)
(Have had about 18 or 20 blind dates through these, but
not met anyone.)

— trying church groups for singles, and even "all-church"
events just to meet people, in general.

— volunteering with a number of charities, in town.

— getting to know people at work, etc.

NONE of it has "worked" (resulted in being asked
out on a date.)

(Although, I have made an awful lot of nice friends,
in the process.)

About me…. I am 5 foot 7 inches tall, slender, no
stunning beauty, but not bad looking, either…. kind,
funny, nice (enough) personality, etc.

I just don’t know where to turn, now…. All my friends
(and cousins) my age are all married with multiple kids
by now….

Does anybody have any ideas for me??

Thanks so much, in advance, for your help.

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