Just curious… today I found out I have been basically cheated on for the past 4 years. This feeling I have is so painful and I know that people say time & distance are the only remedies for a broken heart, but I really don’t want to feel like this for a long time.

Any advice? Thank you so much.

Tags: Advice, amp, broken heart, long time, People, Time And Distance

How do i get my ex back.. the first time we broke up was 2 months ago because of his brother &nd i thought we’d never go back out again and i was so depressed. so he ask me out last month and i said yeah but watever because i kind’ve moved on because i was talkin to someone else at the moment. then i broke up with him because me n my ex bearly talked so i told him i had a new boyfriend.. I wasn’t worng but now im hurting. it seems he doesnt care anymore about me because he’s always talking and flirting with other girls in frnt of me. I find it funny but i know its not. &nd i want to ask him back out on Monday in school before we go on summer vacation so we can keep in contact.
:’( should i ask him back out??? and how???? ( im a female )

Tags: amp, bearly, brother, Ex Boyfriend, frnt, girls, new boyfriend, summer vacation, worng

Both guys are my ex’s, and I’m not over either of them. Guy #1 is not around right now (rehab & school), but he says he still loves me. I have no contact with him at the moment, but his mother tells me everything he says about me. I trust him with everything I have. We broke up about 5 months ago, but only because he couldn’t handle a long distance relationship at the time. He will be back home by the end of this year, and I can’t wait to see him and get to know him again. Guy #2 is living in my town. I talk to him often. He tells me he loves me and that he would love to be with me again. He was also my first, so that is another reason this is tough for me. We broke up almost a year ago, and for the past few months, he’s been trying to get me back. I know I have the option to choose neither of them, but I feel like ill be losing more if I do. I tried listening to my heart, and it told me guy #1, but now I’m not sure. Both guys are incredibly amazing and sweet to me. I just want another person’s opinion about my situation. I know a lot of people go through this problem. Thanks in advance!

Tags: 5 months, amp, Distance Relationship, heart, long distance relationship, love, problem thanks, thanks in advance, two guys

We’ve been getting together over the past 2 months. We share a house with a few friends & she told me she’s not looking for a serious relationship. She’s a nice girl, attractive and could easily pick up another guy but she doesn’t. In fact we went out a couple of weeks ago & she said "I want to be with you without feelings". Then she opened up a little saying she’s afraid (last boyfriend..she loved him but he wanted a child, she didn’t as she’s only 24 so he ended it). That was a year ago & they were together for a year. I decided to travel alone for a couple of weeks, even though we had a loose plan to go together.  Just got back & we went with friends to a club, she seemed a little distant with me, avoiding me. SHe left with another girl & 2 guys then arrived home 1 hr later & told me nothing happened. I asked her why she avoids me in the house. She said the truth is that she has only loved one guy her ex, she gave it once & can’t again. It was v emotional for me. She wanted me to look into her eyes at that moment & I couldn’t. Anyhow she was a bit drunk (she drinks 3 times a week, sometimes vomits & one time urinated in my room). Then we made love, she looks at me, tells me how goodlooking I am & how the sex was so good & she said that she does feel something.

Tags: amp, Club 115, Fall In Love, feelings, Last Boyfriend, love, nice girl, serious relationship, truth

call me crazy but i have a problem. my boyfriend and I were really good friends. then we started going out. and after around 3 months he told my best friend that he loved me. and i already knew i loved him. and at the 4th month we had our first kiss. the reason why he waited so long is because he said he wanted to go slow and not rush things because he didnt want to loose me. its now 6 months that we have been together. 2 of my friends think ever since we started going out we both have changed, and his bestfriend wants us to break up because of it. also in the last month too was kind of hard for me: his parents got in the way of our relationship, he flirted with this girl like crazy right infront of my eyes, & because he had done something that almost ruined our relationship totally. I told him it would be awhile before i trusted him again when it happened. recently though he hasnt talked to me as much on the phone and he has stopped texting me. alot of girls seem to like him too. he tellls me he loves me and all but can i really believe it? and worse i really am in love with him. i am so lost and confused and its even worse to think about if he might break up with me because hes getting tired of us or something. and i know that if he is he really doesnt love me at all. so i figured if i could make him love me more or even get him to love me or care about me more maybe i could fix everything. because i dont want to just sit around and iqnore all that could be coming, especially if i had a chance to fix it or change it. So tell me what should i do?

Tags: amp, best friend, bestfriend, Fall In Love, first kiss, girls, good friends, infront, kiss, love, parents, relationship, rush