Today is my 2nd marriage anniversary, and I feel like I have made the biggest mistake of my life. I feel very low today. Half the time we have been fighting over nothing. My wife does not like my mother or sister. She is very selfish. I was very discipline in my sex life before marriage and after marriage even till now, I want to cheat on my wife just to feel happy that at least she does not get a husband who does not cheat.

Tags: anniversary, biggest mistake, discipline, half the time, marriage, Marriage Anniversary, mistake of my life, sex life, Sex Marriage

My boyfriend of a little over a year broke up with me over the weekend stating that he felt as though we were more like friends and that he’s felt this way for a while. He told me that I was perfect for him and that he didn’t know why his head was telling him to do this. We celebrated our anniversary a month ago and he said at that time he didn’t even love me. I knew that something was wrong for the past month and asked him about it often but kept being told that everything was fine, that he was just stressed out with work and his health.

I love him so much and miss him a lot and can’t understand what it is that I did wrong to make his feelings for me change. He says I didn’t do anything but I must have as people don’t just decide they don’t love one another anymore for no reason. He says that he feels like he lost his best friend and that he’d like for us to be friends if and when I’m able to do that.

What do I do? I love him with my everything and want him in my life but I know that I’d never be able to handle hearing about a new love interest, a new relationship or see him with someone else.

How do I get over this? I can’t remember who I was without him. I just want to stop crying all the time. I don’t know how much longer I can do this for.

Tags: anniversary, best friend, feelings, Friends, Health, love, love interest, relationship

So, I am bisexual. I was going out with my ex boyfriend in September 09. He asked me out; we’re in the same school and he is the reason why I came out to the entire school. He lives kind of far away and I understand we couldn’t see each other as much as couples should, but I noticed that he never tried his best at school to show affection; He was out to some of his friends, but not everyone – not out like me. We either had to meet up in the bathroom and just hug and kiss, but that’s it. So one day my parents decided to take me and my brothers to Starved Rock [some really nice attraction in Illinois] and i remember that day because it was our anniversary. [it was in November] My parents made plans about going there a week before the way we actually had gone and so I let my ex know about it, i asked him if he wanted to come but he refused because he said he would feel uncomfortable being with my parents and stuff and I asked him why and he said because we’re a couple, and i told him it’s not like they’re going to know. I respected his decision and just left the situation alone. So, the day came and I sent him a message through facebook congratulating ourselves cause it was a month being together. I left to starved rock with my family [it's like 2 hours away from my house] and that was my day. By the way, he has no parents, he was deported from Colombia to Chicago and he lives with a friend of his, and he does not have a cell phone. The phone he used when we spoke was his friend’s. So, i remember coming back home at night and he sent me a message on facebook telling me that he was mad that I didn’t call him or anything. [i tried contacting him from starved rock, but there was no signal and i wanted to do it in the morning before i left, but i remembered him telling me to never call his friend's phone cause his friend didn't know about him] so I was hurt because it was not my fault that i couldn’t communicate with him, and plus he chose NOT to come with me to starved rock which would have been a PERFECT place to spend an anniversary at. Then, he was telling me how he fantasized about my straight brother, who also goes to our school and that he thought my brother was cute and everything. That wasn’t the only time he told me that. I was really mad and i ended the relationship that same day. Every since, til now, he sends me a message through facebook again and he tells me how he wishes he can go back into time and how he would make a great boyfriend; he basically wants me to give him another chance… but I’m not sure if i should buy it or not. I don’t know. He has a history of telling people at school that he thinks they’re hot and stuff, and I also heard that he’s asked people out but they said no. What should I do? I am so confused. He was my first boyfriend, and i still have feelings for him, but i don’t want to get hurt.
HELP!

Tags: affection, anniversary, Boyfriend Help, cell phone, colombia, couples, entire school, Ex Boyfriend, facebook, kiss, parents, starved rock

I dated my girlfriend for 14 months. We went through ALOT together. To get started, we began our relationship on January 18th, 2008. In march of that year, i came very close to losing my life in a ski accident. I ended up with 7 broken bones and was out of school for about 3 months. The night that the accident happened, i told her i loved her while half conscious, ha. From that point on we were perfect together. She helped me all the way through my recovery. She ended up breaking her leg that same summer and i helped her with that too. We were completely in love. And yes, you may be thinking that this is the young, lust type of thing that people mistake for love. Im not the guy that said i love you after 2 weeks of dating. It took something serious, and life altering for me to fall head over heals for this girl. We kept getting closer and closer together, even throughout our periods of fighting. But overall, we knew that we could never let eachother go. I talked to my little girl from the first thing in the morning, to the time i fell asleep. My life revolved around her. It was perfect. I had everything i could ever want. Our anniversary, and valentines day of 09 were days i will never forget. In march 09, she ended our relationship. There was no one real reason. I broke down. I couldnt function. I lost everything. And over the next 4 months, i was so screwed up in the head. I always thought about her, i tried talking to her, begging her to come back, confessing my love to her again and again. Until one day her parents put a stop to it. No more contact. I was on anti depressants, started drinking a little, didnt want to have a social life. Our group of friends was pretty close. There were guys and girls and we did everything together. After the breakup, everyone didnt seem to hang out together anymore, it all ended. I finally got back under control of myself about 2 months ago. I didnt break down as much but i still loved her more than anything in the world. Even seeing her talk to other guys as a friend made me sad. Im around her everyday in school now. The no-contact period is pretty much over. She’ll talk to me now and then, smile, say hi, and so on. We’re on good terms but i want to be more than friends more than anything. I want someone to care about. Someone to give my all for again. I want to make her the happiest girl on earth. I NEED a way to convince her mind that im ok now. Now may i remind you that i havent talked about our relationship with her in about 2 months, so its been quiet lately. Please help. Ive been to therapists, talked with my parents, and just about everyone else. Its impossible to let go when you would die for this person. I want to show her that i can do this. She means the world to me.

Tags: 4 months, alot, amp, anniversary, anti depressants, broken bones, ex girlfriend, first thing in the morning, girlfriend, girls, head over heals, little girl, love, mistake, parents, periods, Real Reason, relationship, ski accident, young lust

my fiance and i were together solid from 2001-2006 even had a house together. we broke up in 06′ were apart from may of 06-jan 08 but on again off again in between. we’ve been together ever since and are planning our wedding. my question is tho our anniversary was on march 26 2001. can we still use the annual anniversary date or is that weird?

Tags: anniversary, fiance, tho, Weird