been with my bf for 3and a half years. great reltionship. broke up for a few months – he did the breakin up. we got back together. after 4 months of being back, i started experiencing anxiety when i was around him. i love him so much and i’ve been trying to push through these feelings b.c i know i don’t want to not be with him. sometimes i’m fine and wonder why i worry. other times i get physically ill…most of the time it is anticipatory anxiety….anxiety about anxiety. will i get it today? will i feel anxious when i see him? we are moving in together, and i am freaking out that i’ll be in a constant state of anxiety once i move in. i know i wnat to do i though b.c i want to ove our relationship on to the next step. i want to conquer my fear…how can i move past this anxiety and cherish and value what i have and stop worrying about- what if’s? help.

Tags: 4 months, anticipatory anxiety, bf, fear, feelings, half years, love, relationship, worry