I am infuriated. My ex-boyfriend passed around several naked pictures he took of me to a bunch of his friends, and I never once gave him my permission. I just broke up with him and need to come up with a way to make him pay dearly for this. Anyone have any good ideas to truly embarrass him so much that he won’t be able to come out of his apartment for months?

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I am breaking up with my ex-boyfriend because now i know for sure he is cheating on me. The thing is we were planning on moving in together and I had bought some items which he has stored in his father’s apartment. I have receipts for all the items I purchased. How can I get these things back from him before he destroys them.

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Do you want to know how to win your love back? The key is allowing your ex to have a little bit of time to figure out what they want from the relationship. Tim and Rhonda learned this from Tim’s friend Joe.

Rhonda stormed out of Tim’s apartment one day saying she never wanted to see him again. Tim was stunned. All he could think about was how to win love back.

He called his buddy Joe and asked whether he should send flowers or candy.

“Neither,” Joe said. “And don’t call, email, or text her either.”

Tim was stunned by this advice. He wanted to win love back right away before Rhonda had a chance to “look around” and find someone better.

But Joe told Tim that giving Rhonda the space to “look around” was just what she needed. There was a small chance that she would go forever, but the probability was that she would settle down and come back to him. She must come to the conclusion that their relationship was special on her own terms.

Further, Joe advised, it would be bad if Tim looked too desperate. This gave Rhonda the upper hand in many ways. It would lead to further grand gestures in the future. If he wanted to get the relationship back on track, Tim needed to give Rhonda space.

Tim and Rhonda both had a lot invested in the relationship. They had been together 18 months and had even talked about marriage. This was why it was such a blow to Tim when Rhonda walked out.

But Tim took Joe’s advice, as painful as it was, and waited for Rhonda to call. It took her four days, but she finally contacted him.

The first thing she wanted to know was “why didn’t you call me?” He told her “I was waiting for you to call. I knew you needed space.”

He was right, and she knew it. She actually appreciated the fact that he hadn’t called. She knew that he had found a way to win his love back.

As they talked about hwere their relationship had been and how to get it back on track, they discovered that one of the problems was that they had been crowding one another. The thought of getting married had been suffocating.

So, they decided to back off. They would still see each other exclusively, but they would make more time for friends and solo activities. They wouldn’t talk about marriage again for six months.

Tim restrained himself from pursuing Rhonda when she needed space. This allowed her to reevaluate her relationship with him on her own terms.

She initially thought that he would call her all the time. She was actually surprised that he didn’t. But, because he refrained from contacting her, she was able to see what her life was like without him in it. And, it wasn’t as pleasant as she had imagined it would be.

So, if you’re determined to win your love back, keep in mind that sometime what is needed is a little space.

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weve been together for 2 years and were engaged to get married, for about a year. im 20 and shes 18 but it felt sooo right. i know we were young but we wur soulmates. i went to jail for 5 months and come home to find her moved out of my apartment and talking to a new guy. we still live about 2 miles apart and we still talk but it hurts and weve become strangers and she acts like we havent had a history. ive tried to patch things up but i dont think its working. i still see her around town and it kills me. i try not to call her but its REALLY tough. i want to move to NC to try and get away from all the memories. is it a good idea? or am i making a big mistake? we still deeply love eachother and shes told me on many occasions. she said shes confused and shes made me confused. do we still have a chance? am i making a big mistake moving from orlando to north carolina? PLEASE help me…

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Would you stay?
I found an email from 4 years ago in a folder he saved to his ex-wife pouring out his remorse/guilt that he left her and the kids when they were very young. He said tears were streaming down his face. I always knew he had guilt but not enough to say this. It is a long long story and I won’t get into the exact details but when I told him to get to know his kids again little by little he started to call. They live 6 hours from us. His children were 20 and 18 back then not 7 and 8 years old. He told them he remarried and his ex wrote him back saying he should have never told them. They didn’t even know they had a 1/2 sister that lived in another state who is 18 now. This child is not from me but from his ex girlfriend who died in 1993.
But he writes to his ex-wife the email I follishly sent to our kids, was, in hindsight, very insensitive and way too informative… What on earth was I thinking? I just thought it was best to come clean but now I realize the potentially damaging information I foolishly shared with them.. I guess I will remain a fool until the day I die since I have such difficulty distinguishing right from wrong. She is 8 years older than my husband and she definitely made him feel even more guilty then ever.
She never remarried. She has been going on and on in her life that he will go back to her.
He got an email birthday card from her saying Hopefully we will one day celebrate anniversaries, birthdays as a family.
They can’t stand me and never met me. I also found something to his mother who lives out of state and is 83 years old after the father died that in her will she will make his ex-wife the executor. (see my husband is away for the next 5 years). He will be 55 when he is home and his ex will be 62.
I have been married to him for 15 years. I have all his things at the apartment. I have his visit list with all the dates they go to see him which is very rarely and his kids go up there with her. I am up to see him all the time. He calls me 30 times a month. We are able to share intimate moments together. Now this.
He is a very strong man & even strong men can get teary eye and last week he said to me god forbid something happened to you that would be it for me. I couldn’t handle another love lost like I did with my beloved Linda which I knew he loved very much.
But he tells his mother in a letter in 12/2008 after his dad dies I want you to leave the urn that you and dad are in with (his ex-wifes) name and have a spot for me and my brother. Well where does that leave me?
He always said I want to be buried with you or be with you in the same urn.
So here he is telling his 83 year old mom a different story from me. They all speak and no one speaks to me. It is just unreal.
What do I do from here? 15 years of wasted marriage? I have been with him through so much.
I am in charge of his account, his money, there is money in the bank so that is no problem. But also he wrote to his exwife (referring to her smoking and having 2 heart attacks) I want you to live a long well deserved life and be there to see how I turn all this mess around someday…
She even wrote me an email 2 years ago saying you will never know the truth or he can say whatever he wants and when he called me that night I was crying and he wrote to her in this letter what did you write to her, she was crying and it took me an hour to calm her down. My husband said to her I am very insecure and why is she making it harder for him to get to know his children.

What do you make of all this?
He wasn’t married to the lady that has his child in florida. He was married to the lady in the early 80′s with his two oldest kids.

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