we lived together for about six months before she told me this. she now wants no communication at all and told me to move on and date others….but when I di, she saw me and got very angry with me….I truly love her and would go back to her in a heartbeat….but how can I get her past the death of her husband and help her to love again. They were married for 14 years and he died suddenly. He has been gone for over two years now. She also lived with another man before me for approximately 6 months before she told him it was over. Her family and friends all liked me and we never had any arguements or conflicts….other than a business venture I tried and it failed….but I picked myself up and got on with the job I had before the business venture. She says that she just needs space to find herself and not have to "ANSWER" or be "RESPONSIBLE" to anyone. How should I go about getting her past her past and start living again?

Tags: arguements, business venture, Conflicts, Dating A Widow, family and friends, heartbeat, job, love, six months

so my boyfriend broke up with me last week because we had a few small arguements within a few day period. he said it faded and was still fading. he was the first guy that "stuff" happened with and i still really love him! we’ve been best friends for a couple years and started dating in october. our relationship wasnt long but i still have really strong feelings for him! 2 days after the break up he started hanging out with other girls one on one. now hes been hanging out with this one girl ALOT for long periods of time. (shes a major stoner and i dont want him getting in to that) how do i get him back?!?!

Tags: arguements, best friends, feelings, girl alot, girls, long periods of time, love, periods, relationship, stoner

here’s my story…..me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years now and this whole year(2008) was the worst for me because we had alot of fights and arguements but one day i met another guy who just treated me so well and i really loved the guy and once i told my boyfriend what was going on(i wasnt scared to) he really got upset because i was so tired of him treating me so bad so after that he started to treat me good again (it lasted for 2 weeks) since that time its been hell….he changed and we began fighting and everything i really cant take it no more i once made a fake myspace page of a girl to catch him in the act….and i did and i was the one hurt all he did was yell at me and he told me that we wasnt meant to be together and he wasnt in love wit me but he says he loves me….my heart is sooo broken and i want 2009 to be better for me….what should i do….

Tags: arguements, heart, hell, love, wit