me and my ex were together for 2 years.he was my first love and i was his first love. in the relationship, he was the one more "sprung"..than me..i loved him too…but he showed it more. 2 months ago he broke up with me because he didnt like my attitude. we dont talk anymore. about once a week..he calls me…but now i refuse to answer because he doesnt want to get back with me. i see him with other girls…going out…while im just missing him 24/7. i need serious help!! i feel like im going crazy without him..when he doesnt seem to miss me at all??? please help=] thanks

i wanna know how to get over him??

Tags: attitude, first love, girls, relationship

My boyfriend just left me. He said he wanted to see other people and now is in a relationship with some guy. Hes gay… I need some really good breakup, heartbreak songs about love and just how hard it is? And also I need some good attitude songs that will help me make it through. Nothing weird or too old lol. I like newer music mostly. Name as many as youd like. Like your favorites or what u have on your ipod. Thankyou !

Tags: attitude, breakup songs, heartbreak songs, love, Love Songs, music, relationship, thankyou, youd like

I really don’t get why women who reject men or women who dump men then turn around and say "but we can still be friends" or in the case of the horrible friend zone "i don’t see you that way; but we can still be friends" why don’t women understand that to many men, who ask women out a friendship is nothing more than a consolation prize…i mean why the hell would you be friends with a woman if theres no chance of getting sex? They don’t share the same interests as men, they nag, they whine, etc…so whats in it for the guy? The girl uses him for emotional support and to whine about the bad boy thug she is screwing….is it no surprise men don’t want to settle for just friends…and whats with the break ups? You dump a guy romantically and have the NERVE to think he should still want to be your friend? You don’t often see men telling a girl "i don’t want to have sex with you; but lets be friends" or "i don’t see you that way; but id like to use you as an emotional tampon" it only seems to be a WOMAN thing…So why is it women cant understand that if a guy is interested in you he DOESN’T want the consolation prize??

PS NO IM NOT BITTER—I just dont understand this clearly illogical aspect of women.

Tags: attitude, bad boy, break ups, consolation prize, emotional support, friend zone, Friends, friendship, hell, horrible friend, just friends, Many Men, Men Women, nerve, quot, surprise, tampon, thug, ups, Whine, woman thing

I broke up with him because I just felt like he didn’t want to be bothered. I wasn’t sure if I should have but idk. When I brought this up to him (when I was only on the verge of breaking up with him) he said he didnt mean to act that way and i know he had priorities that should always come before a girl. I honestly can understand where he is coming from because I would never put a boy first on my list unless he was dying or we were "in love" or something but at least I gave him some of my time.
After I broke up with him my friend called him and asked him all types of stuff about our break up. (I know it wasnt very mature of me to have her do that but I knew he would tell her.) So anyways this is how the converstaion went:
My friend: What happened with you and?
Him: She dumped me. (He said it quick and kind of with attitude)
My friend: Why?
-Idk. I didnt even bother to ask. I was tired.
-Oh do you think yall are gonna get back together this summer?
-Idk. Maybe. No. I dont have enough time for gf. I have (listed all of his activities and then was like…) Im plannin on messin around anyways.(Okay idk if he was saying this because he was angry or what but it tore me up!)
-What about when school starts again?
-yea. maybe. idk. How do u know I wont go into the year with a gf already?! (He was rude about it. 4real!)
(then she pops the question)
-Do you still like her?
(Okay i coulda swore he said no. But she claims he said yeah. I doubt it. and that was the end of the conversation)
First I was convinced that I didnt need him but after sitting back and taking a look back at everything that happened (no im not saying that i need him) I realize how childish I was. Plus I didnt even know him that well. Okay I know thats not the best way to start a relationship but we met in school like everyone else I’ve ever dated. I just didnt know him that well to expect so much out of him (like deep conversations about life, affection, and a whole lotta stuff that i wasnt gonna get right off the bat). But thats the thing for some strange, unknown reason I still like him. He told me the things he was going through at home and pretty much with his life and honestly I wanted to cry for him. It was so sad. And sometimes I sit and think maybe he was just going through alot and wasnt really worried about a gf..maybe it was just his hormones or something kickin in. Or maybe he just didnt trust me enough to open up to me, which is also understandable. I dont plan on goin back out with him or anything but i dont want him dating anyone…esp someone i know. Is that weird? Maybe it’s just because I feel like the guys that have tried to tlk to me are not of my interest u know? they dont fit me. But yeah could you please tell me somethin.

Tags: affection, attitude, Break Up, conversations, converstaion, gf, idk, lotta stuff, love quot, Priorities, relationship, verge

I’m sick of his attitude towards me and his self-pitiness.
I love him, but I can’t take this anymore. I’m no longer happy with him.
He is a mental abuser and an accuser.
He’s always thinking I’m cheating on him and that I do not want him because he says he is too ugly for me. I’ve tried several times to save him from this pit he is burying himself in but he isn’t letting me anymore. And he even dares to question the number of boyfriends I’ve had in the past, because he thinks I am "too pretty". Damn it, he doesn’t even believe I am a virgin, because according to him, "I seem to have experience" whenever we were intimate.
So, what do you think I must do? Work this out with him like I’ve tried a million times in the past? Or let this go?

Tags: attitude, Boyfriends, Cheating, Dares, million times, relationship, Self Love, several times, Virgin