Hubby works a lot & then he goes to a garage to work on cars almost every nite. I have tlkd to him about this b4 and he blames me for everything. Tells me the kids dont like him b/c of me, we are broke b/c of me, our marriage sux b/c of me, I feel that sometimes I am at the point to where there is nothing he can do to make it btr, but I dont want to give up on us either. He use to be so attentive to me and kids and now there is nothing. We went thru some bad times last sumr, he wldnt come home until 4-5 in the a.m. or not at all, and of course nothing wld be going on with him, now he tells me to get over it and I am having a hard time with that. I am scared to be myself around him for some reason. I have always been loyal to him, sure I have done dumb things I am not perfect, but living everyday knowing that someone blames you for everything and I mean everything breaks u down and its hard to deal with. I dont want a divorce but what can I do? I am just scared & hurt. Advice??

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Why would i leave someoen i feel happy with? I do really feel happy and alive with a woman i have been with for the last 8 months. Happy all the time..well no…liek any relationship their are those times.
But just the fact that she needs residency here in australia, and doesnt want to go home to nepal has made me think a little too much till my little brain starst to hurt. She has 2 kids, and ha sbeen married for 15 years b4 and the pain of that breakup and the urgency to stay in oz is unbelievable. I cant just have a relationship with her anymore as she needs to stay and wants to move to next phase. Pressure yes…my head in sore and nerves are shakey to a point that i may not be able to work if i leave her. OUCH!!!…I dont have tiem to be with her and find out more…….her boys 13 and 16 are comign here on a student visa here this year..well the older on eis first then the second one when he is old enough…she rings me every single hour of the day…we have issues…hurt

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