my boyfriend of a yr & a half broke up with me this past week & the week before. the week before he decided he wanted to work on things.

i’ve been trying to not contact him but i failed & called him the other day & he asked how have you been doing babe & talking to me. i went to see him at his work yesterday & asked if he would get back together w/ me & we could do things slowly.

he still loves me but we were fighting alot. i am likely to see him at a mutual friends birthday tonight. i wrote him a letter but don’t know if i should give it to him, since i cried my eyes out in front of him at his work.

he said hes just been focusing on himself for now…hes not interested in being with anyone else & hopes i don’t do the same. i told him i can’t wait forever & put my life on hold. our relationship was good when we didn’t fight. i love him so much still.

i want us to get back together before Valentines day. i want this badly because last year this time, we weren’t together. he had broken up w/ me after 2 months, but since then we’ve been back together since last march 08.

what should i do to make this happen? i’m just so heartbroken.

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I’m seeing this guy but we are not involved in a relationship. After a year and almost a half, I finally told him about my feelings and he said he loved me too. The thing is when we see each other it’s so passionate, we talk a lot, watch movies, lay down in bed all day, kissing, confiding thigs, snuggling, I met his parents a couple times.. but that nite, when he tols me he loved me, he also said that he is so afraid to love again, he feels like if he couldn’t invest himself bcuz of his last one. But he says, baby, you know I’d love to, I just can’t for now I don’t know… I love you I love being w u, u know I luv you.. I’m confusing myself. FUuckckk Don’t tell me this babe.. And we fell asleep, and 3 hours later he woke up and said Babe, I love you..

THen I tried to call him back after that and he never replied to me, he also asked me to call him when I get home, and etc.. but.. its like if he was afraid or I dunno.. it’s always like that, we have intense and passionate moments as if we were a couple, but then after, I never know when we are going to see each other.
Sometimes do think I’m just a booty call but the way he is sumtimes tells me it’s not… realy confusing bcuz he didnt have to tell me that to keep me around or to have sex..

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My ex boyfriend wrote an email to me stating that things had gotten to be to much for him to handle with work and personal, and that is why we are not together. We broke up three years ago. He wrote taht he is sorry for the way things have gone. Doe that mean hi regrets breaking up with me? I know that he has not dated or been with any one since me. He came over to my house the other night and kissed and hugged me when he walked in the front door. Sat close to me on the sofa talked, kissed, help my hand and rubbed my shoulders. Tried to get me to lay with him on the sofa. He told me that we were good together. He also told me that he has missed me and has been thinking about me a lot. During this visit he called me babe a few times. We agreed to spend Valentines Day together. I guess we will see about that. From all of this I am now confused. He must still be interested in me otherwise he would not have come over to visit. Right? Who does all of the above if you don’t like or care about the person? I could still be interested in him. Communication is very hard with him now. He never checks the computer, no land line, and the only cell he has is a work phone. Please answer this for me someone why would you go to your ex girlfriends house three years after the fact and say all of this? I know he was very busy last week. Why hasn’t he called? Whats up with this? What should I do? Help?
How do I get him to talk to me? I don’t want to be pushy.

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Just recently i’ve been seeing a change in my wife’s behavior.After constant arguing over the lack of sex, huggs and kisses I was able to get her to tell me the truth. She admitted that she does’t love me anymore. This of course broke my heart. I was there for her from the day we met. I helped her through so manny of her personal problems with her family and finances. I work hard with the thought of her and the baby in mind. I only want the best for us, but we are struggling.When i first met her i was more of a hot head. I hung out a lot, went out drinking. Is it possible that she fell in love with me in the past but the new calm me is not what she wants. She doesnt like to talk about this, she refuses to see a counselor, but at the same time she wants to stay with me. She tells me that she cant leave me. That im her best friend and im all that she has. She still refers to me as babe, and that messes with my head.She swears that it has nothing to do with another guy. And this is the tr
I tryed to get her to come with me to see a marriage counselor but she wont go.She say’s she knows what she feels and she doesn’t need them. Its so weird, she found a new apartment for us to live in. When i told her i couldnt live with her she cryed. She can easily move in with her sister or mother. They’re all financially secure.But she still wants me to stay with her. But just as friends. I told her that there is no way i would accept her going out on dates while im living with her and she continues to get angry over that. Constantly reminding me its not about men.And she’s not interested.How can i get her counseling if she wont go.
i really appreciate all of the responces. It really means a lot.

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I have three kids, and the oldest one i have to admit is turning into quite the babe. Her bf just dumped her should i take advantage of this once in a lifetime opportunity?

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