My ex broke up with me two months ago, we have just started being friends again, she is being really nice and we text a lot, can she ever Love me again?
Tags: being friends, Friends, love
So my ex-girlfriend of 4 years called me today wanting me to meet up with her tonight so we can talk (public place). I have a feeling that she wants to get back together.
She broke up with me on Wednesday and the reason being that she feels like being friends rather than bf/gf. This devastated me as it came from nowhere with no signs of any problems. She kept using the terms ‘break’ and ‘break-up’ interchangeably. She said she still cares for me and loves me as a friend. Also that she has felt like this for a couple months.
I’m wanting to believe that the reason was that she just wanted a break for a while. Troubles with school, recent family death, and stress from everything else. But I could have given her time apart so she can relax without even having to have a ‘break’.
I’m getting over it rather quickly, but it still hits me at night. For the 4 years that we have spent together, we talked on the phone almost every single night. I’m not sure if I still love her though. I told people that and myself that I don’t want to be with a person doesn’t want to be with me.
Our relationship before wasn’t bad at all. In the beginning, things were rocky, but as time passed we rarely fought. Yes there would be the occasional argument about tiny things now and then, but over all things seemed like they were going great.
So I’m not sure what to do, and I’m meeting up with her in an hour
Tags: being friends, bf, Break Up, cares, ex girlfriend, family death, occasional argument, relationship, signs, stress, tiny things
He wants to stay friends. I said no.
But now i am worried – will being friends help us get back together?
Tags: amp, being friends, Stay Friends
So I’ve been dating this guy since about May. I have fallen for him so hard, its a little scary. I recently had a dream that prompted me to ask what it was that he wanted. A relationship, friendship, or what? He proceeds to tell me that he is not looking for a relationship. He doesn’t want to have to worry about anyone right now or have to deal with the responsibilities of a relationship. Meanwhile this whole time I have met his Mother Father Sister Brother Grandma Grandpa Aunt Uncle Cousin Best Friend and business associates, spent whole or half of my days with him, drove countless miles to see me or to see him. All of this was leading me to believe that I was someone special to him and that he was potentially thinking of being in a relationship with me.
His explanation of it was that he always intended on us being friends, but he fell hard for me and began to like me a lot. He didn’t intend on it getting that far but he feels like getting in a relationship with anyone would distract him from his grind because he would be slacking on his business matters etc. Like he did in his previous relationships because he focused on keeping the relationship functional and didn’t give that much attention to other matters. I told him I feel like he just doesn’t like me like that, and he told me I was reading too much into it and its not that he does like me a lot, he just feels the need to concentrate on business matters so that he can get things together to have the time for a relationship. Be it with me or with anyone else. I don’t know how I should feel about this.
Should I go with it as we were carrying on before I found out how he felt, I don’t really have time for a relationship either but I care for him a lot and I enjoy his company, and the way he always has my back and ACTS as though we are together. or should I just abandon it totally and let him get his stuff together and potentially get in a relationship with me in the future. Although when I think of it, a relationship isn’t really my goal at the moment, the thought of being exclusively with him has grown on me and now that I know it won’t happen anytime soon, I’m hurt…HELP!
I’m just not sure what’s really going on. Guys please give me the business about this…
Tags: being friends, best friend, business associates, business matters, countless miles, cousin, friendship, girlfriend, grandma, grandpa, mother father, relationship, relationships, sister brother, whole time, worry
Ok, so I currently have a boyfriend, but I am still close friends with my ex. I have no problems with being friends with him, but he keeps bringing up the fact that he really wants to be with me, and that he wishes that I had never broken up with him, and stuff like that. I don’t want to say something to rune our friendship, but I do want to somehow tell him that I’m not interested in him anymore. Any suggestions as so what I should say?
Tags: being friends, close friends, friendship, rune, Stuff
