I am hart broken and don’t know what to do with myself. My husband of 17 years just walk out on me without any explaination, took our 10 year son with him, filed for divorce. I was served papers 2 months ago, was totaly shocked! Now I am in court every other week fighting, to get my son back.Yes, we had our fights and stuff. Now he is seeing his brother’s wifes daughter, his step niece, who is 29 with 3 kids. I am 44 and my husband is 41. And we are not even divorced yet. He made sure that all my friends hate me and nobody is talking to me at all. I have no family here at all. My family is 9000 miles away and I have not seen them in 20 years.So, I have no emotional support of any kind except my beautiful australian shepherd dog is now my best friend. What am I suppose to do with my life?
Tags: 17 years, australian shepherd, best friend, brother, divorce, emotional support, explaination, Friends, marriage, shepherd dog, step niece, wifes
My wife says she doesn’t love me the way a wife should love me but rather as a best friend. She says she doesn’t feel a spark anymore when I kiss her even when we have sex! I would do anything to get her to fall in love with me all over again! She is speaking about getting a divorce because she feels she never got to live the single life and just do whatever she wants whenever she wants. We got married right after she finished school and we have two kids and I am 6 years older than her. We have been together for 6 years and married for 4 years. I can’t loose her she is my everything and I show it to her on a daily basis and I complement her on a daily basis, I look after the kids at home while she relaxes and watches her favored shows on tv, i bath the kids wake them and dress them and take them to school in the mornings and don’t ask her for help at all. I have started letting her go out alone without me but the problem is she said she doesn’t want to have to worry about if a guy chats her up that she has to hold back, she wants to not care if something happens then it happens if not then it doesn’t. And although I trust her when I let her go out that statement makes my stomach turn so bad that I actually get sick and can’t eat for a day or two! What do I do how do I save this? I really love her and i can’t bare the thought of loosing her. Please help!
Tags: 6 years, Bath Kids, best friend, Chats, daily basis, Fall In Love, getting a divorce, Kids Dress, kiss, single life, Stomach, watches
Well me and my ex were going out for a really long time. Untill he started to talk to these other girls. We ended up breaking up and he still told me how much he loved me, well I didnt beleave it. I always thought he was such a big lie. I love that boy so much thats not even a lie. But he called this girl his sister and they ended up going out. And that was my best friend. We spilt apart now. I mean yeah I miss her so much but ill never be as close. I still talk to my ex but we get in so much fights. We still do stuff like kiss make out and krap like that but I want him to be my boyfriend what should I do?
Tags: best friend, big lie, girls, kiss, long time, time untill
Well I love my wife and I know that inside her she loves me but there all kinds of things against me, for example my little brother who sat there and seen all of the things happening is now pursuing her with no regard to me and she thinks that it would make her happy, she has a best friend giving her nothing but negative advice, and family doing the same as well, I love her and have since the moment I saw her, we have an 18mth old little girl and all I want to do is save my marriage, she knows that by talking to me she would come back so she got a restraining order and filed for divorce, all of which I believe were outside influences, I need help I can’t live without her.
Tags: best friend, divorce, little brother, little girl, love, marriage, Odds, regard, restraining order
So me and my ex liked each other for about 4 months. After an argument over why we hardly ever got to see eachother she cut off alot of contact and said she wanted to be friends for now we didnt hate eachother it was just a sort of its the best thing for now move. So we kept talking daily as friends but not near as much. After about 2 weeks she ends up dating her 6 year best friend. I asked her what happend and she said she didnt know. she said it wasnt about me or how i looked or treated her or my personality that it just happend. I was upset but i told her i have no hard feeling that shes with him and that i wish them the best of luck.
Whats weird though is daily if she sees me on facebook she’ll ask me how ive been and whats new and just casual talk as friends. its been 6 days since theyve been together and she still talks to me. But whats weird though is that she didnt change her text signature to his name like she did mine first day we got together. And she doesnt post smiley faces on his facebook like she did mine. Could this just be a rebound relationship for her? Im pretty sure she still does have SOME feelings for me. But the signs ive seen is that she doesnt like him as much as she did me when we got together. And im pretty sure that i wasnt her rebound relationship when we got together. the last guy she talked to was 3 months before me and tried to use her for sex so she kicked him to the door.
Does it sound like shes in a rebound relationship? Im ready to move on but im going to still try to limit contact with her. She ALWAYS initiiates it. My current plan is to start talking to other girls and continue to try to give my ex time while i search for someone. If she comes back before i find anyone ill take her because i still like her. But if i find someone im completely moving on. What does it sound like shes up too? And whats the best thing to do to get her back? Talk to her? Be a close friend? Use no contact? What should i do?
Tags: 4 months, alot, best friend, best of luck, Contact, Current, facebook, feelings, Friends, girls, personality, rebound relationship, signature, signs, smiley faces, theyve
