We both had a mutral break-up; He was always busy, and i was always mad that he was always busy therefore making him mad. BUT My ex an I are still best friends and can talk about almost anything together. THE PROBLEM is that I’m still in LOVE with him, and he likes another girl. He also said that going out with an ex of his would be awkward, and that he just wounldn’t do that.

What do I do?

Tags: best friends, Fall In Love, love

I dated my best friend for about 3 years. When my life was spiraling out of control he came out of nowhere and helped me. I never saw him that way until we got super close and then one day we went from best friends to dating. But we stayed friends and well we just clicked and got along. He was good for me. But not for long. We had a rocky on and off relationship and it really messed us both up. Made him more colder and angrier and made me more sad and distant. We began to fight more and soon we would spend weeks apart, pissed at one another. But I never stopped loving him. I loved him so much. Too much I thought at one point. And we kept trying to save the relationship by going back out and giving in one last try, saying this would be it and we’d make it. But…we never did. And he made so many promises to me. I’m 17 and still in high school so I have to see him all the time and it tears me up. About the third year he got more distant even while we were dating. He stopped calling completely, only texted me when he was bored, was always busy and never really talked to me much but since we had so much history and cause I loved him so much I brushed it aside and stayed. But it got worse. Really worse really fast. We broke up because he was treating me badly so I dumped him and yet we did things together which though it’s my fault only made me love him more oddly enough. But then I found out he was only using me. For about the last year we were together he was using me. It meant nothing to him really. And then it all happened in a sort of domino effect. One right after another he betrayed me with something that felt like a slap to the face. And before he did all that to me he just stopped even talking to me. He ignored me, barely looked at me and would avoid me and I was so confused! I thought we were still friends, still trying to work it out, but apparently he was already ready to move on, forget me. But he never told me until I asked him and he just said he was over me. And that was it. I was shocked but surprisingly okay. I guess I was just too tired to care anymore. But still. We went out seperate ways and I wished him well and told him I’d always miss him. But then the betrayals came and he broke my heart. I couldn’t believe it, wrap my head around how he could do that to ME. The person that was always there for him, always loved him, always honest and loyal to him and he betrayed me. I confronted him twice about two things that he did to me and I just lost it! I freaked out on him. And he said he never meant for it to happen and that he would leave me alone. We parted again. And for weeks I was getting better, okay without him, and he ignored me like always only this time it didn’t hurt as much. But then I started thinking about him more and started missing him like crazy. I just couldn’t erase 3 years of history. Couldn’t let it be over. So with advice from my best friend I pulled him aside to ask him if he was okay. He wasn’t. He was very sad. So like a stupid girl I assumed it was because he missed me. But then soon enough a week after that we started talking again, like magic. And we began to act like we used to, like good friends, teasing and joking and he even seemed to go back to his old self and treat me well. We even started flirting. And I knew in the back of my mind I couldn’t be with him after all he’d done with me. But I couldn’t stop falling for him. Again. Or at least…liking him. I began to feel things again and then…I began to realize one night that I shouldn’t care about him, after all he’d done to me. That it was time to let him go. So I did. I began to ignore him, pass him by in the hall. And it sucked. But I felt better day by day, and I thought I was okay, I was finally getting better again. But then just last night my friend called me and told me that he was dating someone else and it killed me! I don’t know why or what to do! I know I don’t love him but three years is so much time to just forget and erase to me. He was the first person I ever loved, or let in, we did everything together and we close mentally and physically, so this has really left me messed up. I’m humiliated and broken hearted because I hung on to every promise he made me only to find out he found someone else and I never meant that much to him. It cuts me up. And I just want this pain to go away so I can finally move on with me life. But even though I’m strong and I have great friends I feel so alone and betrayed and hurt and he’s the only one I want. I don’t know why he did this to me. Why he thinks it’s okay. Why he just stopped even talking to me, like we never meant anything. And I know it’s life and time heals all wounds but honestly I’m scared it won’t. Three years makes an impact especially when you never felt that way before. He came into my life at the best time and really saved me. So now my heart feels a

Tags: 3 years, best friend, best friends, domino effect, relationship, slap

So me and my ex girlfriend were together for 6 months and it seemed to me as if nothing could ever get us apart. Untill about 3 days ago she just break up with me. I found out from one of her best friends that she said she was tired of my shit. I guess by what her friends says I was treating her right whenever I felt like it. Although I cant recall treating her bad. So i tried asking her out and tell me the reasons why she broke up, I even promised to change that she would never have to regret going out with me. Yet I always got a no from her. This is our myspace convo
t a no. and i know we been through alot but it has to come to an end.!. nd stop trying to kiill yrself its pissing mi off.!relax. srri but i have a feeling that we were goin to break up anyway. srri. ndit a final no.

—————– Original Message —————–
From: From this day on, Im a brand new person
To: cOokiE-cHip ;]
Date: Jul 14, 2009 2:00 AM
Subject:

is there any chance of us being back together? Yes or NO tell me..
** reply from her **
it a no. and i know we been through alot but it has to come to an end.!.relax. srri but i have a feeling that we were goin to break up anyway. srri. ndit a final no.

people please help because I have such a bond with her that me looking at other girls just makes me brake into tears. I love my ex so much that I cant possibly know where to find my place. At work I always think about her at home, outside..everywhere..at night I cry my eyes out. And theres no way I can forget her

Tags: alot, best friends, Brand New, Break, ex girlfriend, girls, Guess, love, myspace, Night Eyes, original message, Relax, Shit

-i had a boyfriend for 2 years
-we were very happy, like perfect for eachother. our moms were best friends, our familes hung out together and everything…it was perfect
-i met this guy, he was diffrent. i really started liking him. my bf had a lot of trust in me and wasnt the jealous guy to begin with
-i go to the movies with this new guy…he kissed me.
-i started making up excuses for why me and my bf "were not good for eachother anymore"
-i DID tell my bf about the kiss. he said that he still loved me and wanted for me to be happy, so he let me make up my mind
-i ended up breaking up with my boyfriend and 2 days later getting with this new guy.
_things were great for a while. then we went back to school..my new bf changed schools, to my school so that we could be together. the first day was horrible. i kept seeing my ex and i just wanted him so much! i didnt want to hug my new bf :/

i love my ex…and i want to be with hiim..but i have no idea how to end it…HELP!!!! PLEASEEEE
also, my ex just told me he still loves me. today he told me.

Tags: Back To School, best friends, bf, jealous guy, kiss, Met, moms, New Love, quot

we were best friends.
he knew everything about me.
we both knew were into each other like "that".
he started messing withh other girls so i told him i needed a lil space and
asked him to back off for a few days.
then he totally turned on me.
unfriended me on myspace.
making bets with his friends.
refriending me again.
unfriending me.
wtf??
im so done.
should i try to solve the problem with him?
or cut him out of my life completely? since now ive seen his true colors..
meanwhile, my heart hurts.
how do i get the f*ck over him?
any suggestions would be greatt..(:
thanxx in advance..(: xxoo

Tags: Advice, best friends, bets, ck, few days, girls, heart, lil space, quot, true colors