Okay so on March 1 I broke up with my best friend named Beth. I broke up with her because she always lied to me and she stole my money. Once she was dating a guy named Jacob who did drugs. I told her that she should break up with him. She told me that she did. A couple days later I found out that she still thought she was in love with Jacob and that she wanted to run away with him to Canada and that she never broke up with him. After that I forgave her and didn’t talk about it anymore until she stole my money. I showed her were my money was because we were going to Starbucks and I needed some money to go. Two weeks after that a hundred dollars of mine were missing. She was the only person who knew where my money was. She said she didn’t take the money which was a lie… so on March 1 I broke our friendship. My heart has been breaking very since. We were friends for four years and best friends for three years. I have thought about suicide but that would heart my family to much. So I don’t know what to do and I really need help… please tell me the best way to heal my broken heart…cause I still love her with all my heart.Thanks for the help!!
P.S. Please don’t call my lesbian because I loved my best friend which just happened to be a girl… I like guys so I am straight. I’m not dissing those who are gay or lesbian I’m just not going to be one.
Tags: best friend, best friends, broken heart, Canada, couple days, Dating, drugs, friendship, jacob, love, march 1, money, starbucks, suicide
Ok my ex girlfriend came home from a year in France a few weeks ago. Since she has been home we have been hanging out a lot and are best friends. Our break up was not bad at all. We had been going out for 5 years and decided we need t break up due to the length but we still both like and love each other.
Since she has been home we have kissed and had sex and my feelings for her are still there. I do want to get back with her but not right now. Both of us just want to enjoy being single for a while and have fun. But I know I would want to get back with her someday and she would to.
While she was in France she was seeing this french dickhead (we had broken up at this stage) and I asked her about it and she said it wasnt going to progress into anything. She is going back to france for 3 or 4 weeks and I think she mite see this frenchy again.
I want things between me and my ex to get better and eventually get back with her. But how do I go about it? I am not dwelling over anything so dont say move on because I know in my heart I would love to get back with her someday. PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE???
Also my parents are going away for a week next week and I was thinking of asking my ex over for dinner and to watch movies and stuff.
Tags: Advice, best friends, dickhead, ex girlfriend, feelings, frenchy, Fun, heart, love, mite, parents
my aunt, shes a 42 year old divorced women that lost 127 pounds. she eats diet pills like candy. and her ex husband gave her no sex, she has people over at her house at different times of day she finds them online and since she has told me that these men mean nothing to her and not to be attached (as well as her children) she wants nothing to do with my mom (her friend for over 30 years!!!) she isn’t even my real aunt shes just been my moms best friends since middle school. she wants nothing to do with me, she said she HATED ME! for no reason and said she didn’t want me around anymore because i was a bad influence on her kids, she told my uncle not to let me see my baby cousin (i spend every day of my childhood with my cousins, i walked over to there house every day after school and that was the way it was for 9 years!) only to get back at my mom! my mother only told her that she needed to spend more time with her kids. she wants nothing to do with her kids that are 10 and one is almost 13, when my cousin "beau" went to his moms house last she replaced his bedroom with her "craft room" he sent me pics on his phone. got rid of his bed and throw out all of his stuff! he cried and he NEVER cries! so my aunt took him to his dads house and they see their mom like ever 4 to 5 weeks, i haven’t seen my baby cousins in 8 months and i feel like im going to die! but god damn it i love my aunt sooo much! im tide between my hate and love for her.
but the thing is i am home schooled and don’t know other kids. i loved going to pick them up so i could play with the other kids before their parents picked them up, i have known my baby cousins for my HOLE LIFE and its like as if they died, i can’t see them!!! i am acting as if they are off the planet and im morning their deaths! its terrible, how can i see my baby cousins again! my mom won’t tell me talk to my aunt there for i can’t convince her to let me see them!!!!!
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Tags: baby cousin, baby cousins, bad influence, best friends, candy, cousins, craft room, Dear God, deaths, diet pills, different times, divorced women, hole life, mom, moms, parents, tide
My boyfriend just broke up with me, we were best friends before and really loved each other but he just got so busy with after school activities… and he just stopped loving me… we had like really deep conversations while we were going out too… and i really want him back, he was really sweet… and handsome… and just overall perfect… how do i earn him back? how can i make him want me? answers pleeeaaasseee. and i’m not willing to stoop low as to dating his best friends or anything because his best friends is also my best friend… please help? 
he still wants to be friends… but i don’t know if i can talk to him… and it was really sudden too… and all my friends think i can get him back but i really don’t know, i’ve been so miserable for the past few days that i haven’t even been able to eat anything… and i’ve been close to puking several times… like i’m literally sick to my stomach and the heart ache is unbearable… but he was still really happy after we broke up… like the day after i was holding back tears all day and he was just all happy. but he keeps looking at me… like he did when he was with his old girlfriend… back when he liked me… now he’ll peek over and see what i’m up too and if i look over and catch his glance, he turns his head really quickly and goes back to talking to his ‘other friends’ and i just invited him back into our old group… even though people are mad at him, i felt bad… because his best friend is also there… but idk how to deal or get over him…
Tags: best friend, best friends, conversations, Ex Boyfriend, few days, girlfriend, glance, heart ache, peek, several times, sick to my stomach, Stoop
I’ve been dealing with a breakup from a girl I’ve been with for the past three years. We met at the end of senior year in high school. I went to school 10 hours away freshman year and we stuck through it. I felt stronger and stronger about her each day. I decided to come back home and go to school with her for sophomore year. Again, it was a fantastic year and I loved every minute I spent with her. We were best friends, inseparable and we connected on a very deep level. I knew I loved this girl but I felt like I needed to go back to my first school to get a significantly better degree. At the end of sophomore year I told her I wanted to go back. She began to pull away until I told her I was doing it for us and to better my future. That made her feel better but she still pulled back. I kind of changed too as a result. I felt weird about her actions and I knew she took my leaving as a slap in the face. I began to be more short with her and our relationship took a turn for the worst. I thought everything was fine until one day a couple weeks before I left that she came in my bedroom as I woke up and said she wanted to be single the next year. She said the way I had been acting, the distance, and everything made her want this. I went through many stages of falling apart, anger, upset, numb, happy, just every emotion. A few weeks ago I got to school and my feelings stabilized. I realized that this is a girl worth fighting for. I took a look at myself and the way I had acted to push her away. I think God forced me to make the decision to leave to better myself and now I feel like I can be the most amazing boyfriend to her. I’m now going back home because I don’t feel this is the place for me right now. This decision was not because of her, but it doesn’t hurt that the love of my life is there. She’s been kind of seeing somebody now. She says she likes him but still loves me. She asks me why I’d deserve a second chance after hurting her. She says maybe in a few years we can try again. I know I’ve changed and I know that our relationship is right. I know I can be everything this girl could ever want. I know her better than anyone in the world. We are still best friends. I’m afraid she’s already written me off because she is unsure and doesn’t want to be hurt again, even though she hasn’t told me this. I’m going back in a few days and I’ve gotten her to go to dinner with me this upcoming weekend. She says its strictly as friends. I want to show her I can be a great boyfriend but how can I do this as just a friend? How can I show her I’ve changed and will always make her happy? What about this other guy, I’ve been supportive but how do I approach it? If you’ve read this far then I really appreciate it and I look forward to hearing back. Thanks.
No need to be a dick Linah. Thanks to everyone else who’s taking me seriously
@ LM: correction, shes not with another guy just seeing him. she says she doesn’t want to be his girlfriend even though hes asked…makes me think even more shes confused as to what to do
Tags: anger, best friends, couple weeks, Dealing With A Breakup, emotion, Fall In Love, feelings, freshman year, girl worth, god, Love Of My Life, relationship, second chance, senior year, slap in the face, sophomore year
