my ex boyfriend and i broke up a little while ago but the next day even, he acted as if he was already over it and over me…we were together for two years and keep in mind he has ADD ADHD is and is on antidepressants (some people think that he may be bipolar)…upon talking to him a few months ago..i told him he really changed..and my tone of voice made it obvious that i didnt mean it in a good way..only he was like "oh i know ive changed for the better" and went on talking about how wonderful he is..although, ive heard within the past month that he got a speeding ticket for going 130 and might lose his liscence..he got a dui, he drinks every day and night, and he is into cocaine..of course i want nothing to do w/ him and id never be with him again, but i dont understand why for the past 5 months(how long weve been broken up) he acts as if he has some wonderful life and that he is always happy and over me..even tho his life has gone down the toilet..whats his deal?
Id just like to add i havn’t talked to him for months yet, the other day (2 days before i leave for college) he randomly IMed me the second i got on trying to squeeze out every detail of what i have been up to and who ive been dating..then he goes on to say "hes getting some wonderful job that pays so much money" even tho he just got fired from his job…the kid is obviously a screw up but he knew i was leaving for college so did he purposely IM me right before i left just to get one last "bang" in of how wonderful he is.. i dont understand..? please everyone give me as much information as possible, thanks!

Tags: 5 months, Add Adhd, adhd, antidepressants, Bipolar, cocaine, deal id, dui, hes, job, liscence, much money, Narcissists, relationship, Screw, speeding ticket, tho, toilet, tone of voice, wonderful life

My husband has been getting angry at me over small things. I’m not sure what to do when this happens. Here is the latest example, and had I known it was going to send him into a rage I wouldn’t have done it.

Two days ago I thought I’d joke with him. So I sent my friend a text and told her I thought it would be funny if she send him a facebook message telling him to get offline so I could use the computer… So, she did, which I knew I wasn’t going to go online and I told him so. So, he responded to her "Well, I think she was going to take a nap, but ok." and then he got off of the computer and I responded to his response by saying "I always take a nap because he’s always on the computer! Just kidding!!" So then later he saw what I said, which I was totally joking and he got really angry at me and said I was disrespectful. I didn’t get mad because I thought it was silly to be mad over such a small thing. So, I did not react to his outrage. It made him more angry and he said I was cold, that I was raised to be a hard @ss. Every time we get into any SMALL fight it turns into something greater from him, how I’m a terrible person, how my whole personality is screwed up. How I’m not a woman, how I’m not what he wanted. I’m not sweet enough (but I make sure supper is ready and he has a cold glass of water when he walks through the door after work, I clean the house and work). He even threatened me with divorce over it! I said I was sorry even though I don’t know what I did. He only seems to calm down and love me again if I get upset enough to cry….

So my question is, is this something he really should have gotten angry about? Was I disrespectful even though I thought I was only joking? Could it be that my husband is bipolar? How should I handle these situations? What should I say? What should I do? Should I leave until he calms down? I just don’t understand why he gets angry over small things, and once he does get angry it turns into cut down after cut down about how I am a bad person. What should I do?? Could he possibly be bipolar???

Thank you.
Thanks a lot guys. ANd Kevin, he’s not into that.

Tags: Bipolar, Clean House, cold glass, divorce, glass of water, joke, nap, outrage, personality, quot, rage, ss, terrible person, Woman

I have a thing for someone that was with their ex for many years.. the ex is psycho and bipolar and seems to keep leaving and coming back. Plus there is a baby involved. Is there any possible way I could make this work?

Tags: Bipolar, Getting Over An Ex, psycho

My exwife has bipolar and borderline personality disorder, all I want is her to take me back so I can go home. Part two of this is her Father hates my guts. I really would like a way so that my ex would come live with me.

Tags: Bipolar, Borderline Disorder, borderline personality disorder, Ex Wife, exwife, guts

My husband’s family believes he was fine until he met me, and I am starting to believe it as well and I cannot live with myself if I did. It wasn’t until a friend of his got involved that his family began to doubt me and now they have convinced him he doesn’t want anything to do with me. The only people he has left in his immediate family are his brothers and uncle neither live here. I am in nursing school and understand the disease process but did not know he was bipolar until a recent diagnosis so we argued.Now I know what he has and he is very delusional and has been ordered to commitment up to ninety days. Everyone is against me, his doctors never talked to me, I had medical power of attorney and he revoked it verbally while in the hospital. Theses doctors didn’t put him on Lithium until last week almost a month after I had pleaded with them to do so. They had him taking 800mg of seroquel once a day and cymbalta and ambien.I did some research and when his brother talked to the doctor they realized their mistake and changed his meds and the dosage from 800 to 300.Then they finally listened to me about putting him on Lithium. Of course his friends have convince him the problem is not that he has bipolar but our marriage. Yes, we have had our share of problems but looking back on things maybe it was because I was disagreeing with him during a manic phase where I know I cannot win that argument. Or before I knew he was bipolar maybe it was because I saw him spending everything he had on drums, ebay etc. What I want to know is from someone who has gone through this what can I do other than hire an attorney and fight like hell for him or leave. I want to save this and will take on the daily tasks of caring for him but I feel it is too late because he will not talk to me and his family blames me. I tried to get guardianship over him but after his "friend" got involved they sent emails to my attorney saying I was out to get him. I guess the errot with the meds, paying all of his bills, and not running away don’t count for anything. They actually think it is stress and the sad part is, since he is taking his meds in the hospital, and staying away from me, the medication is beginning to work…and they attribute his recovery with me not being there…What do I do? Thank you

Tags: ambien, Bipolar, cymbalta, diagnosis, doctors, drums, ebay, hell, immediate family, lithium, manic phase, marriage, medical power of attorney, meds, mistake, ninety days, nursing school, power of attorney, seroquel, theses