I admitted two nights ago to my husband, I slept with someone else twice (see my previous two questions for the back story, not going to retype it again) and screwed up. I prayed he would understand and give our marriage a go but instantly flew into a rage and made me sleep on the couch.

The next morning, he had packed my bags and clothes were all thrown into boxes and he said I best be gone when he gets back. So I had to go my sisters and today I called to talk reason with him and he said hes filing for divorce. I am heartbroken beyond words and wish I could repair my marriage. I was in a low place when I slept with my brother in laws best friend and I know I screwed up. I was just heartbroken over a series of fights me and my husband had and the lack of attention he has given me over the last two months (we married in November 2009). I just hate to think I am now going to 20 (my birthday in Saturday) and a divorcee’.

Anyone got any advice? Like how I can make my husband see that I love him still and want to form a family with him? I have thought about working on my 6 year old stepdaughter but he has refused me from ever seeing her again and I loved that girl like she was my own and now my world has come crumbling down.

If I get divorced, I will lose my whole stable world. My family is far aware and we had carved a life together. I will not get a thing out of this because my adultery will be used against me and he owns his house legally. So can anyone help me save my marriage to my soul mate?
I already feel guilty enough. My husband has made it clear hes heartbroken after providing me with so much and being faithful to me.

And DO NOT tell me I am too young to be married. I love my husband and thats all that matters. My question is not related to my age but a call for advice. If you tell me I am too young to be married, I will downrate and report for not providing an answer.
Daughter, my husband owned that house since he was 18, years before we married. I never had a deed to it and my state still has adultery as a ground for divorce and is still not liberal in divorce. I am up sh*t creek property wise because the house is legally his and his familys (been in it for 110 years).
Daughter, my husband owned that house since he was 18, years before we married. I never had a deed to it and my state still has adultery as a ground for divorce and is still not liberal in divorce. I am up sh*t creek property wise because the house is legally his and his familys (been in it for 110 years).
Daughter, my husband owned that house since he was 18, years before we married. I never had a deed to it and my state still has adultery as a ground for divorce and is still not liberal in divorce. I am up sh*t creek property wise because the house is legally his and his familys (been in it for 110 years).

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I do not know what is going with my wife now. We have problems when I was deploy. I was over there for 15 months. It was over bills that came up when I left and she wanted to divorce me and I thought we were fine until when I got back I find that she cheating on me. I forgive her and she knows that. We have 2 yr old son. We were taking slow and were doing good. Now she about go over there now. She is in army reserve. I am active duty. She is Ft. Dix training. She have her cell phone up there. I admit I was calling alot at first. Now, she acting like something is always wrong. She want divorce again. It says it over money and i was calling to much. We talk and she want me to tell her if I am going to spend money on something that I want not need. She talking like she crazy again. I cannot deal with this. I am giving her my all. I sent boxes. I sent her anything that need or wants. No love. I am trying my best to give her my unconditional love. But it getting hard. Nothing going change. I do not want to divorce her while she doing her thing. I do not want to do that to her because she treating do it me and do not want to do that. I need help because I am going recruiting duty in TX. I want be best man I can for her. I wish i know how but it so hard. Please help. I am solider. I am not trying to leave her behind I want to get attention to stop.

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