I been with my bf for 3yrs and we have a baby together.we been having problems for awhile now,problems that I feel like anyone with half a brain could catch on to. He don’t call me when he’s out with friends,n I don’t mean call me every hr.but we have a kid and I expect for him to at least check up on us.I’m always calling first becuz if I didn’t he could go days without hearing from me.he say he wana marry me but idk.when where together things r great but once he’s gone I’m outa sight outa mind.I’m trying so hard with him and when I get upset he gets mad at me and flip it on me like he’s the victim.he don’t even try to make things righths just let it be so I piece the rElationship together.he gets paranoid and insecure thinking I’m cheatin and idk if it’s guilt cuz he could be cheating or because he know he’s not doing right.I really want us to work but I feel like he’s taking me for granted.what should I do because I really need Advice?
I spoke to him about this plenty of times and he’s says he’s gona change but it haven’t happened yet,he’s a great dad whenever our baby need something he’s there and he spend time with her when he take her on weekends,he just suck as a bf and Iknow he’s a good man and he wana change but something not allowing it. Idk if I’m settling because we have a kid but is hard finding someone who have the same values and morals as I do.and I feel like I’m giving him my all and I’m receiving nothing back.
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