When we first started dating a year ago, she was sexy and curvy and lot’s of fun. Then after a few months, she putting on weight and went from 125 to a monstrous 197. I reached the breaking point when she hit that weight and I couldn’t have sex with it anymore. I tried to help her but she really wasn’t doing much. I would see other girls and how attractive they were and think: Wow, you’re a f*cking whale, lose some weight’. I got tired of her stuffing her face and getting so big, but I’m compassionate, so I also care about some of her feelings. Should I help her get a diet plan so that hopefully she can get back to normal so I can love her again?
I tried motivating her by calling her names but she didn’t seem to get it.
Tags: breaking point, diet plan, Face, feelings, girlfriend, girls, Lose Weight, love, putting on weight, whale
I have been married for 3 years and together with my Husband for 7 years. I am 26 years old. Everything was going great until a month ago. I felt as though my whole world collapsed. I couldnt decide if i loved my husband anymore. this broke my heart. i kept looking at him and trying to decide. I am off sick from work with depression because of it and i just want things back to normal i keep telling myself.
I decided if i didnt want to be with my husband anymore i was going to end my own life. i am so scared of failing my marriage because i made my vows and told myself i would never stray from my hubby.
i had a turbulant childhood, always moving around and i went to 11 different schools. my dad was never known to me so it was always just my mum and siblings who had different fathers. I explain this as i am trying to put my problems down to my childhood. Perhaps i am just ready to move on as i have never been stable? i knew i loved my husband but i dont know now.
we bought a wonderful house and i learnt to drive and got a new car of my own and got a dog and a good job and eveything i have ever wanted but now i dont want any of it. I hate the way i am feeling. I know i have to stay and try and sort things out with my hubby but i cant even go home, i am staying with my in-laws as it upsets me to go home.
as i have said i wanted to die because of these feelings taking over me but i dont know what to do. He hasnt done anything wrong and is the sweetest guy in the world, i just dont feel that buzz any more and how do you know if you truley love someone?
My mum was married 5 times before she died when i was 16 and she had 7 children. I dont want to be like this and have worked really hard to avoid it but I am now at breaking point.
Please help, I need encouragement to stay and battle through. I dont want to run away again.
Tags: 3 years, breaking point, buzz, dad, depression, encouragement, feelings, good job, heart, hubby, love, marriage, new car, siblings, sweetest guy, vows, Whole World
I have been with my boyfriend for two years and we have a baby boy who we both love very much. We fight a lot about little things, well I fight he just looks at me like I’m crazy… He used to lie to me about everything and now that he says he’s being honest I don’t believe anything he says. He is very selfconfindent and likes attention from other women. I know there has never been anything physical with anybody but emotionally I’m not so sure. There have been a few instances where I have found calls that he has made to his ex (it was once when we had been together for like 3 months, he said it was nothing he just wanted to confirm that he had no more feelings for her. and the second time was about 7 months ago, his mom gave him her number and urged him to call her cause she was going thru a tough time). Also he had a friendship with one of his coworkers that he kept hidden but I found out about.. I confronted his coworker who assured me that it was just a friendly work relationship but my b/f admitted that it might have been "inappropriate". This has caused me to be very insecure and jealous, I have turned into a neurotic defensive crazy person. He recently told me that if it didn’t change that he could no longer be with me. I love him very much and I know he loves me too. I want to save my relationship and go back to being the cheerful self-confident person I was… But how do I let go of all that horrible history between us. I want this relationship to work out I need help.
Another thing that is really against us is that he works from 10 am to 10pm… so we barely see each other. I dont want to waste the little time we do have fighting. Its kinda dramatic but i feel like he broke me and now that im a wreck he does not want to deal with me anymore. I know i pushed him to his breaking point like he did to me, now we both agreed that its time to fix this relationship cause we really do love each other. Im just not sure how.
Tags: 7 months, baby boy, breaking point, confident person, coworker, coworkers, crazy person, feelings, friendship, horrible history, instances, little time, love, mom, second time, work relationship
