my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 months for now, he said he wanted to be serious with me because he’s tired of ”date and breakups"-kind of thing. But we are in distance relationship.
So, I just wanted to know what are some signs that a guy is getting serious over a relationship?

THANK YOU

Tags: breakups, Distance Relationship, signs

i wanna become heartless but nice i wanna still have the nice sweetness about me and the way i am but i just dont wanna fall in love and i dont want to feel really really bad and sad after a breakup dont matter who i date how do i do this ?

Tags: breakups, broken heart, love, sweetness

I just got out of a serious 5-year relationship. I broke up with him, but there was no big incident or drama that led to it. He’s a good guy, and I still love him, but he’s just not the right guy for me.

Anyway, after 5 years, I’m used to talking to him every day, and sharing everything with him. Without that now, I’m feeling lonely and I miss him very much and can’t stop thinking about him. I know that breakups are painful and I’m not looking for a way to avoid that; I just want to know what I’m supposed to do to help me cope. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Tags: Advice, breakups, good guy, love, relationship, right guy

I recently got dumped by a boy I had been with for 7 months. I am ok and have been strong and will continue to be strong. I am just wondering how other people deal with it. Are you a boy basher? A friendship maintainer? A cryer? Or are you the type that forgets it ever happened?

Tags: 7 months, breakups, friendship, People

Please Serious Answers Only, I am in need of some real and honest help.

My boyfriend broke up with me 2 days before Christmas. He says he is not happy with me, and we are not meant to be. I know he loves me, and he even said he still does, but it’s somthing he has to do.

We met on Jan 1st to talk and swap things. I wrote him a heartfelt letter and read it to him. He really had no emotion at all. I totally ruined my chances with him because I begged for him to not leave me, but I felt that it was the last chance I would ever see/talk to him at all. I was devastated.
We agreed to be friends, but i told him i just dont know if i can do that.

I have been really calm about everything lately, we casually talk on aim and hes actually pretty nice to me. But then yesterday somthing was really bothering me, so I brought it up. He was fine with the first statement, but when I said somthing else he totally ignored what I said. I feel that I just ruined my chances of ever talking to him again! I went ahead and apologized over message and I told him that I agree with the breakup, i know it’s for the best. I even went to say that I had some good news that I would like to share with him sometime…(which I thought would spark interest).
But he didnt respond to the message. So then I said " Well im going to get off here, have a good day" . I waited a minute and still no response. Now I feel completely stupid!

Did I ruin my chances of getting him back with that message I sent him? What do I do know? Do i just totally ignore him and wait to see if he ever says anything? Now I feel that I lost all hope, I know we are meant to be together, and we were even getting along this past weekend…what the heck do I do know? All hope is gone!

Have any of you went through breakups and got your ex back? If so, HOW?

Tags: aim, breakups, Calm, christmas, days before christmas, emotion, heartfelt letter, last chance, Met, what the heck