I came home from work and my wife of 19 years was gone. She didn’t take much except some clothes and a few things. She left a lengthy note which was dated a few weeks ago telling me that she’s in love with someone else and is pregnant with his child. She says she’s sorry but she hasn’t loved me for years and it’s all been a show until the girls grew up. She says she’s not coming back and I’ll get divorce papers in the mail. I called her work and her boss said she gave her notice a couple of weeks ago and she’s been gone for a week.

I feel like I’m going to throw up. Our twin 18 year old girls are away at college and don’t know she’s gone yet. I don’t know what to say to them.

I feel like just driving off a bridge. I feel like drinking until I pass out. I feel like emptying my bank account and spending it on hookers or just trying to pick up some girl at a bar and screw her. I just want to feel something good. I can barely feel anything except agony.

I did virtually nothing at work today but fight back tears and hope nobody came by my desk or talked to me.

I don’t know why this happened. I loved her to death. She was everything to me. We laughed and spent wonderful time together. We almost never fought, we talked, flirted, went out dancing just like we did 20 years ago and had a wonderful time… all the time. She always had a huge smile, ran to me when I came home, and did everything I thought a loving wife did.

How could I ever love again? I can’t tell the difference between someone who loves me and someone who doesn’t. Can one of you ladies in here explain to me how someone could masquerade as a loving wife for so many years and never give me a clue that she was unhappy? Why wouldn’t she just tell me she wasn’t happy and then maybe I could have fixed whatever was wrong.

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Sorry if this is too long. So I was dating my past boyfriend for about six months, but recently I broke up with him because a whole bag of ****. He was always working and we never had any time to even see each other, and he wasn’t even willing to give me any time, and when we did have a scheduled time to be together, he always stood me up and had some excuse for why he couldn’t make it. I was wanting to move in with him but I didn’t have a job yet, but now I do after I broke up with him.

And here’s the problem. Now that I ditched him, he will not let go of me. He is always calling, always leaving me messages, and talking about how we need to get back together. I told him I am done with him, and that I want to move on, and that he needs to also. But he tells me he will always be waiting for me, and that he will never give up hope for us. I want to be nice, as I have tried to be during this entire situation, but I can’t get the point across that I don’t want us to be together ever again that he has lost me. Now don’t give me **** about it not being his fault, because he showed almost no interest in us while we were dating, and now he is all over me like white on rice.

Also when we first started dating everything was going well, and we always were together and he always had time for us. Now he is always busy with something else, and I always say that if you are too busy to find time at least once a week to be together for a little while, then you are too busy for a relationship.

I’m mentally exhausted from him, and I was wondering if anyone has gone through this same thing, and what did you do to let them know that they just need to leave you alone and move on? I have tried everything almost, except from telling him **** you and go jump off a bridge. I also feel that if I find someone else, that he might be scared away from my ex calling and leaving messages all the time. UGH
Horace, go suck a god damned bag of dicks.

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