i am so in love with this girl..i feel like she is the girl i am ganna spend the rest of my life with…im 25 years old..ive never met anybody who makes me feel the way she does..i saw her out wed night at the bar..and she was talking to all kinds of guys…my friends bailed on me so i asked her for a ride home because i live 20 mins away..in her direction…she told me she didnt drive her friend did and walked away from me..i walked up to her and told her sh emade her point..than bailed..later she text me with f.ck you..i ended up having to take a taxi home..we talked the next day she said she was in a fight with her friend thats why she would ask to get a ride home 4 me..i told her i would have never left her hanging like that when she was stranded..anyway…i dont know if things are working out or not….but i feel i could never love agirl like i love her..will this happen again?does this happen to alot of people?how do i get over this.i feel like my life would be empty without her

Tags: broken heart, love, rest of my life, taxi

I was with this guy for three months, I really liked him so much. I never felt this connection with anyone before.

I was very distant I admit but it’s because he was the first and this is my personality, it takes me time to get comfrotable with a person. And then I started becoming comfrotable. A few things happened and we decided to break it off, mostly he decided. But he said we should stay friends. I can’t stay friends, I tried but I can’t – I like him way too much to think of him as a friend only.

I tried getting back together, I thought we were going in the right direction but then he insisted it was only friendship.I decided to stop calling him, but it is so hard. It’s been two days and I cannot stop crying.

I really thought we clicked, and I think I had started to fall in love. Now I have to live with the idea that he’s probably going after some other girl and that he moved on while here I am constantly thinking about him. IT IS HARD. Especially when it is not easy to find a good guy where I come from, they’re all immature players.

For anyone who has gone through this, how long will it take for me to forget, I can’t stand this feeling anymore!!
and BTW, I can’t even make myself go out at night or anything. I know I will be in a bad mood only thinking about him, and it won’t be fair for my friends to endure with me.

And every place remind me of something about him. I would just rather be home being sad, than going out and thinking about him constantly.

How can I get over this??

Tags: bad mood, broken heart, friendship, going in the right direction, love, personality, Stay Friends, three months

Does anyone know of some sort of spell or ritual i can do that will actually work and help heal a broken heart?

Tags: broken heart

my heart is broken, and i dont know what to do !

how can i get over someone , and mend a broken heart ?

help please .

Tags: broken heart, Heart Broken

i wanna become heartless but nice i wanna still have the nice sweetness about me and the way i am but i just dont wanna fall in love and i dont want to feel really really bad and sad after a breakup dont matter who i date how do i do this ?

Tags: breakups, broken heart, love, sweetness

I am so hurt right now, and I just need to figure out how to feel better.

My ex boyfriend is from missouri, his entire family lives there but he moved out to maryland and stayed with his aunt and uncle for a year where i live. I met him when he first moved out here and we fell in love and were together a year and a half.

but about a month or two ago he broke up with me through a text message and moved back to missouri without even saying goodbye.

I am so hurt, I cry every single day and no matter what I do or how active I stay I cant ever feel better about it at all.

He wont even talk to me, he wont tell me why he left me at all and never even said sorry once,

He was the only person that I have ever loved and the only person that I ever felt like I fit in with. I still dont know what I did wrong and i ask my self why every day,
why I wasnt good enough for him,

I feel like I will never ever meet anyone like him, he was my bestfriend in the entire world, we did everything together,

we even took a trip in the summer to missouri just me and him to see his family, I had the best time of my life just riding through mountains and sight seeing with him,

I just want him to come back, but hes not,

someone PLEASE tell me how to feel better,

I dont want to cry myself to slee anymore.

Tags: best time of my life, bestfriend, broken heart, entire world, Ex Boyfriend, love, Met, mountains, Saying Goodbye, single day, text message, time of my life

I been dating this guy over 6 months online…i used to spend all day with him on msn video calls etc but one day i really got crazy for him and he loved me and i convinced my parents to go to germany (im from romania) so i can meet him in real life … he is 16 and im 15 and i got to met him we spent a month together and i had my … "1st time" with him after i had to go back home … we kept on talking for like 7 months and i was supposed to meet him again this summer but…he started to lie and i …got pissed off once and i messed up everything …. i pushed him away and that was one of the biggest mistakes i think i could ever do cause he was the only one who made me so happy who made me feel great and the only one that understood me … and he was hurt but he got over me so fast and after some days i tried to apologize but …he was already dating someone else and honestly that really got me down and i regretted what i have done so much …i became suicidal he was still my friend…but it was a huge difference …than he changed he became colder and distant and tried to push me away and he started to lie a lot and i just cant forget him even thought its been almost 4 months from that i miss him so much and i still love him even thought he hurt me and lie to me and pushed me away i want him back but now he doesn’t even talk to me he ignores me and made it such so i cant get to him anyway … i deadly miss him im getting in depression again i love him so much still … i didn’t eat for 3 days now and couldn’t sleep again just like the time after i broke up with him….i don’t want to get suicidal again because my family needs me but i cant go on like this and i have tried to replace him but its so impossible to be with someone else when all i do is think of him …please help me =(

Tags: 4 months, 7 months, broken heart, depression, germany, parents, quot, romania, sleep

What were his main tips? I can’t afford to buy the book, but I am interested to know what he said, cause I am suffering from a broken heart and unrequited love at the moment and I like his other books. Thanks!

Tags: broken heart, Paul Mckenna, unrequited love

i’m 18 years old. i’m a Filipino
I’ve been in a serious relationship w/ my gf but then we broke up. how will i forget her,? how can i able to move-on? it’s very difficult for me to lose her but i have no choice but to stay apart from her. we broke up because she don’t like me anymore. i Don’t know what’s the reason. i did all my best just stay her from me.. i cared for her a lot. i gave all my love .. i gave all my time. i gave all my attention a gave everything!!! she didn’t appreciate it all….. i’m very dissaponted because i promise to myself that whatever happen i won’t give up on her because i love her so much!! i can’t explain why i love her so much. maybe i’m feeling the real love.. i’m so depress, i feel so bad. i can’t eat, i can’t sleep at night . what should i do? what are the things am i going to do to forget her? how much time will i spend to move-on? give me more advice. please help me to become strong.

Tags: 18 years, broken heart, gf, Lot 105, love, serious relationship, sleep

Yesterday, I spoke with a guy I was dating and told him that I felt our friendship was suffering because of our dating. Turns out, when we started dating, I never had the chance for it to turn into anything more than being a sex buddy. My words…not his. Anyway…I feel a little hurt and stupid for not following my gut which told me from jump to remain his friend. Now…not only will we ever hook up but the decision to keep my mouth shut about my feelings for him may have also ruined our friendship. Anyone have any encouraging words for a slightly broken heart/hurt feelings?

Tags: broken heart, ego, encouraging words, feelings, friendship, Hook, sex buddy, Sex Words, Stupid

We’re no strangers to love
You know the rules and so do I
A full commitment’s what’s I’m thinking of
You wouldn’t get this from any other guy

I just wanna tell you how I’m feeling
Gotta make you understand

Never gonna give you up
Never gonna let you down
Never gonna run around and desert you
Never gonna make you cry
Never gonna say goodbye
Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you

We’ve know each other for so long
Your heart’s been aching
But you’re too shy to say it
Inside we both know what’s been going on
We know the game and we’re gonna play it
And if you ask me how I’m feeling
Don’t tell me you’re too blind to see

Never gonna give you up
Never gonna let you down
Never gonna run around and desert you
Never gonna make you cry
Never gonna say goodbye
Never gonna tell a lie and hurt you
Give you up
Give you up
Give you up
Give you up
Never gonna give
Never gonna give give you up
Never gonna give
Never gonna give give you up
I just wanna tell you how I’m feeling
Gotta make you understand

Tags: broken heart, Desert, Game, girlfriend, heart, love

Okay so, im looking for a cute cool rnb hiphop breakup song. It could either be about a broken heart or a whatever eff you kinda feel. Please help?

Tags: breakup song, broken heart, rnb hiphop

I know it can very depending on the circumstances so here is a brief overview of mine:

-I knew him 7 years (we broke up 4 of those years and tried again 2 years ago)
-We have a 5 year old
-I love him dearly… we were planning to get married
-He began smoking pot everyday and he lied about a lot which caused A LOT of arguments
-He supposedly quit but continued hanging out with his old drug buddies

We broke up 2 months ago and while Im trying to focus on being the best mommy I can… I am completely torn up on the inside. Sometimes I’ll feel okay but the heartbreak will hit me like a ton of bricks again. When will this pain go away when I have to see him every other week for visitation? My heart literally aches. How long did it take you to heal?
You are telling me to support something that is illegal. How about last fall when he got arrested and sat his butt in jail for 2 days for possession?

IT IS ILLEGAL!!! If you think getting high to escape the reality you screwed up your life is worth leaving your child without a father then maybe its best you keep gettin blazed and spend the rest of your life in jail before you have the opportunity to have kids to screw up.

Grow up, kiddo. Life isnt about making you happy. Its about doing for others. You’re just a selfish excuse for a human being.
It has nothing to do with weed making you unintelligent (thats a whole ‘nother argument in itself). My issue lies with the fact that it is illegal. Whether you think it should be legalized or not is irrelevant… it just is. Its easy for you to justify your actions based on your own personal circumstances. But you arent me. I had to watch my child beg her father to wake up off the couch every day when he was too blazed to notice her. I had to deal with his mood swings when he couldnt afford to buy weed for a week and put me in a choke hold… something he never once did in the years before he even tried smoking.

He became lazy. We went from being a loving couple to people who sat at home all day because he "just didnt feel like doing anything" he was so high. He used to be active before he depended on a substance just to get him through another day of dealing with people.

Im the one who listened to my daughter cry when daddy forgot to come get her after we broke up. Not you.
I was the one struggling financially when he couldnt pay he didnt pay child support only to find out later he blew it on pot and K2 "spice".

I was the one holding our family together and standing by his side for 2 years. He used to be loving and selfless. Since he started smoking he started to lie about everything.

You dont know HOW it feels to be told getting high is better than being sober with your family. So before you go defending your addiction, take a look at how it hurts those around you. My mom smoked all through my childhood and I was totally neglected emotionally. Smoking weed or doing any drug for that matter hurt those around you whether you choose to see it or not. Chances are you wont because its like you guys are blinded. And its people like me and my innocent little 5 year old girl who are hurt and neglected as a result.
My mind is molded? Sure you could say that. But not by the textbooks. My experiences alone showed me how drugs of any kind suck the life out of you and those around you. I have first hand experience… I was the daughter of a pot head. And I chose not to do this to my own child which is why its unfortunate her father is making the choices he is. It has nothing to do with "opening my mind" to try new things. I have had more than my fair share of experiences with it through the people I know. I hope for your sake and the sake of any children you have in the future you quit or seek help. No one needs a life of depending on a substance to make you feel happy. Its artificial.

Tags: Bricks, broken heart, buddies, butt, child without a father, circumstances, couch, excuse, heart, heartbreak, life isnt, Lot, loving couple, mommy, mood swings, personal circumstances, possession, Rest Of Your Life, smoking pot, ton of bricks, weed

My ex dumped me months ago and I can’t let go. I still love him but it is preventing me from being happy. What can I do or use to let go and be happy again?

Tags: broken heart, love

i was with my ex for 2 1/2 years. i was so in love with him. to be honest, i still am. even though i’ve just found him to be a cheater on alleged cheater websites. although to be fair i had suspected he cheated on me several times. he was my whole world. i thought we’d always be together and that i truely was the only one.
we have a baby together. who he doesn’t support.
i must be crazy to still have feelings for him after all the things i’ve found out recently. to realize that he lied about everything. i trusted him and believed everything he said.
i feel physically weak and sick. and have headaches from thinking about him all the time.
my friends say what is this hold that he has over you? just move on. but i’ve been finding it so hard to do just that.
he’s the love of my life and was my first serious boyfriend.
he just upt and left, left me holding the baby.
im so sad. so down. heading towards depression.
is there hope for me. to stop this pain and find happiness again?

Tags: broken heart, cheater, depression, feelings, Friends, happiness, headaches, holding the baby, love, Love Of My Life, Move On 98, several times

ok so we broke up in march but pretty much february considering she cheated on me, but anyways we were together for about 8 months or so, and now juss to tell u, she was my first love, first person to have sex with, first with alotta things…now to my knowledge we broke up to go out and be free and not be tied down cuz were still young, I’m 19 and she’s 18…but wen I found out she cheated on me, she lied to me on y she wanted to break up..she pretty much broke up with me to make her and tha dude she cheated me on with public and official…and then after we broke up, I have no idea y but she deletes me off myspace..and I was like okay but my friend has her on myspace and he showed me her page and it says that her and her new bf(tha dude she cheated me on with) were together since february….funny thing is, is that I met this kid before..them two r friends..well more then friends now..but i even asked her many times after we broke up that if there was anything goin on between him and her and she kept saying no…and she lied to my face on that cuz she didn’t know I saw her page…soo lonnnng story short, the whole relationship was a lie, she cheated on me, and lied about cheating on me…idk how much more this girl can tear my heart apart but she’s doing hell of a good job!!!…now anyways I’m still hurt by all this of course, but I do what everyone says to do, cut off all contact, I don’t text, call nothing wit her!!!! and I have been for the longest time but the problem is that we work together so I see her whenever she works..and that’s the only time!!! now idk I’m doing somewhat good with this broken heart,but I have my moments where I get all emotional and shit and there r times where I’m perfectly fine…now I juss have alotta anger towards her cuz of all this..and I know it’s normal for this but I don’t think I fully let it out, like in a constructive way, cuz I juss don’t talk about our break up really to anyone cuz I thought not talking about it might help but idk, I have my sad moments….I’m not an angry person or nothing but I juss don’t think I let it out all the way..anyone have some ideas of what I can do…OMG NOW IF U READ THIS, THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH!! I’m sorry I wrote soo much

Tags: anger, broken heart, ex girlfriend, first love, first person, funny thing, good job, heart, hell, Knowledge, longest time, love, myspace, relationship, t text, wit

Now I know, I was a bad relationship that I should’ve ended before it got to deep… But… Love… Blinds you from it all
Anywho… I just want to know how to get over this, talking about it, going out… Meeting other people… I know all this… Just tell something I dont know, because I just dont know what to do… This is getting the best of me, and it sucks!

Tags: Anywho, blinds, broken heart, love, People, relationship

Is it possible to ever heal from a broken heart? How do you do it? What can you do when your so in love with a person and you can’t imagine yourself not with this person for the rest of your life? Is it just giving up if you don’t fight for what you want? Should there be a time when you should just lay it down and walk away? Can you tell me how do I know when it is time to just give up? How much of a persons mind should get lost before you do so???????

Thanks ahead of time for responding!!!!!!

Tags: Ahead, broken heart, love, Rest Of Your Life

me and my best guy friend have been friends since we were little and about a year ago i started to fall for him(i try not to fall in love) but it happens i thought i was safe but when there was a school dance me some friends went to have a girls night and a good time,my guy friend showed up and i thought it was cool.Well a slow song came on and i went to get a drink when i show him dancing with one of my friends who knows how i feel about him.I felt betrayed and heartbroken and wanted to cry but i stayed strong until i went home and cried…..i tried to avoid things like this.
how can i heal from this pain? How do i move on? what do i do?

Tags: Best Guy, broken heart, girls night, good time, guy friend, love, school dance, slow song

I’ve been in a serious relationship w/ my gf but then we broke up.how will i forget her? help me please!?
i’m 18 years old. i’m a Filipino
I’ve been in a serious relationship w/ my gf but then we broke up. how will i forget her,? how can i able to move-on? it’s very difficult for me to lose her but i have no choice but to stay apart from her. we broke up because she don’t like me anymore. i Don’t know what’s the reason. i did all my best just stay her from me.. i cared for her a lot. i gave all my love .. i gave all my time. a gave everything!!! she didn’t appreciate it all….. i’m very dissaponted because i promise to myself that whatever happen i won’t give up on her because i love her so much!! i can’t explain why i love her so much. maybe i’m feeling the real love.. i’m so depress, i feel so bad right now. what should i do? what are the things am i going to do to forget her? how much time will i spend to move-on? give me more advice. please help me to become strong.

Tags: 18 years, broken heart, gf, Lot 105, love, Real Love, serious relationship

This isn’t Muffin! Im her um ex. I broke her heart and we both are pretty big in horoscopes and things, so I want to know what can I do to heal the pain i caused her. She is really depressed and loathsome. (If it helps im a Cancer man)

Tags: broken heart, cancer man, heart, horoscopes, muffin, pisces

This guy works with me. I fell in love with him a long time ago. I dream of him sometimes and smile constantly when he calls me. Maybe he doesn’t undersand. I never wanted to tell him and look dumb.

Last week he wrote me messages saying he hard I want to date him. I avoided the question and asked him if he wanted to. he said "sure so do you" I didn’t say yeah, cause I got afraid.. but told him I thought he was sexy and we should hang outside of work. He said sounds good. After that though, he hasn’t spoke to me. I’ve tried to text him 2 times, but I’m not going to anymore. I don’t chase guys.

I feel like him asking me about dating was just to play with my mind and feelings. My heart is pretty much broken now. I just want to forget about him & the feelings I’ve developed.

How do you move on from someone you work with & have to speak to daily? How do I get him to view me as a strong woman? Did I do something wrong or what kind of game was he playing?
I’m in love with him. I have been for a year. He gives me these huge butterflies that my ex fiancee or nobody ever has.

But I want to move on since he’s no longer talking to me for no reason. It’s hurting me.

Tags: amp, broken heart, butterflies, Chase, feelings, fiancee, hasn, heart, kind of game, long time, love, smile, strong woman

This is not for me but for one of my close friends who found out her boyfriend was seeing other girls behind her back. She’s isolated herself at the moment and I, with other friends, want to cheer her up but we don’t know what to do or say to make her happy again. Any advice?Thanks!

Tags: broken heart, Cheer, close friends, girls

I didn’t really know him well, and we only went on about three dates, but he came on really strongly and now he’s completely cold. I got all excited about this, only to be completely left.
It’s my first broken heart ever, I have no idea what to do with myself.
any theraputic ideas? I just want OVER him. fast. i want to just completely stop thinking about him.

Tags: broken heart

Any suggestions would be appreciated…

My 4 year relationship with the love of my life ended in December. We were supposed to get engaged and he left instead. We’ve been trying to see if things could work and it’s been decided that they can’t.

I could really use some input from someone who’s been here before. I didn’t know it was possible to hurt this much.

Thank you for taking the time.
To give a little more detail, we have a difference in religious backgrounds. Mine is fairly open, his is (apparently) more closed than I thought.

He still claims to love me and be in love with me, he just can’t get past our religious mis-match. Which almost makes this worse because it seems like love should be enough…

Everything even remotely associated with him has been thrown away (like our old bed) or put into a box in my closet (cards, pictures, letters, gifts, etc).

Any thoughts on trying to be friends with someone you’re still in love with?

Tags: broken heart, cards, love, Love Of My Life, Match, relationship, religious backgrounds, taking the time