I am hart broken and don’t know what to do with myself. My husband of 17 years just walk out on me without any explaination, took our 10 year son with him, filed for divorce. I was served papers 2 months ago, was totaly shocked! Now I am in court every other week fighting, to get my son back.Yes, we had our fights and stuff. Now he is seeing his brother’s wifes daughter, his step niece, who is 29 with 3 kids. I am 44 and my husband is 41. And we are not even divorced yet. He made sure that all my friends hate me and nobody is talking to me at all. I have no family here at all. My family is 9000 miles away and I have not seen them in 20 years.So, I have no emotional support of any kind except my beautiful australian shepherd dog is now my best friend. What am I suppose to do with my life?

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I need to know how to save a marriage. My brother and my sister in law(his wife) are having real hard marriage problems right now. I don’t think it’s to the point were they are ready to divorce yet but if it continues down this path I think they are going to eventually get divorced. So, I wanted some good advice on how to save a marriage?

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How do i get my ex back.. the first time we broke up was 2 months ago because of his brother &nd i thought we’d never go back out again and i was so depressed. so he ask me out last month and i said yeah but watever because i kind’ve moved on because i was talkin to someone else at the moment. then i broke up with him because me n my ex bearly talked so i told him i had a new boyfriend.. I wasn’t worng but now im hurting. it seems he doesnt care anymore about me because he’s always talking and flirting with other girls in frnt of me. I find it funny but i know its not. &nd i want to ask him back out on Monday in school before we go on summer vacation so we can keep in contact.
:’( should i ask him back out??? and how???? ( im a female )

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Last year I ended my 8 year marriage to my wife for MANY reason. We were total opposite, and in different places of our lives. My family understood my reasons and were very supportive. Until I started dating again. Shortly after my divorce I started dating Jenn, younger girl from work. We NEVER had any type of relationship before my divorce. We talked now and then but that was it. She is a lot younger then me she is 22 and I am 38. Our relationship went moved very fast, when we were seeing each other for close to 3 months she found out she was pregnant. My family were horrible towards her. My sister called her a home wrecker, gold digger and a child everything she could think of. my brother says I am in a midlife crisis and that our relationship isn’t real. My mother is nice when my girl friend is there but when I am alone she is always saying things like how she is to young or how one day I will wake up and she will be gone with some one her own age. I am happy and that’s what matters. But I know how much it upset Jenn, she wants my family to like her, she wants to be close to them. She has went out of her way to be nice but they are so closed minded that they don’t care.So many times after visit with my family they have made Jenn feel so unwelcomed that she was literally cried on the drive home. I hate seeing her so upset. It is to the point now that I don’t care if we visit them at all. Which makes Jenn feel like it is her fault I am not seeing my family. My sister in law (one of the few family members that is nice to her) asked me if she would mind if she threw us a baby shower (this is the first child for both of us)and my sister was mad about it. I know jenn would love it but at the same time how rude and cold would they be towards her. My daughter is due to be born in a few weeks and I am happy and excited so is Jenn but I am afraid of the way that my family will act. I literally stress out over wondering what they coudl possible say at the hospital to upset her. How can I explain or show them how happy were are as a couple and how much pain they are causing us?

Tags: baby shower, brother, Dating, different places, divorce, family members, girl friend, girlfriend, gold digger, home wrecker, marriage, midlife crisis, Pregnant, relationship, saying things, Sister In Law, younger girl

i have two problems first off my boyfriend and I been dating 2 months today and i just dont have the same feelings for him has i did but i dont wanna leave him but i think i like his brother a lot becuz we are good friends and when my boyfriend said to me and his bro we couldnt talk anymore its kinda hard but when i call him his brother is always is like hi nikkki!!! or they fight over me but idk what to do about that . problem #2 – i spoke to my EX last night for 5 hours and im starting to fall in love with him again and we both miss each other he was my 1st true love and i was too him too but idk who to choose or what to do ???

ps, sorry this was long i just need soomme bigg ADVICE thank u guys soo much<3

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